My friend

[B_Smitten_Kitten]

I have a friend who i cuddle and sleep with. No sex. we just cuddle, dance, sleep, eat together. We enjoy each others company. We kiss each other. Just kiss, not making out. We give advice to each other. We laugh together. I wouldn't call this anything more than just a friendship. I just wanted to get your thoughts on this. Have you ever experienced such a relationship.

Also we both see other people and there is a 30 year difference between us.



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[Chanticleer]

Well it's a nice friendship as long as your both fulfilled. If it came up would you be up for something more involved?

 

[B_Smitten_Kitten]

No. We both thought about it but I know I would never be able to please them sexually.

 

[v32bone]

I have a friend who i cuddle and sleep with. No sex. we just cuddle, dance, sleep, eat together. We enjoy each others company. We kiss each other. Just kiss, not making out. We give advice to each other. We laugh together. I wouldn't call this anything more than just a friendship. I just wanted to get your thoughts on this. Have you ever experienced such a relationship.

Also we both see other people and there is a 30 year difference between us.



Can anyone fix the title? I'm not sure i can do it

I'd love a relationship like this. I'm lucky to have had a roomie like this although she wasn't huge on cuddle, we were great with each other sat around nakd, watched each other jerk off, occasionally jerked each other off and very rarely played sexually with her female partner and occasionally my female partners and the rare guy. But rarely. Mostly it was best friends, confidants, helped each other with dating and life advice, did all the usual relationship things like shopping for stuff, holidays...we'd previously been sexual explorers together and while I now have a great poly relationship with an amazing married woman whom I provide a kinky alternative to her vanilla hubby and whom I feel part of her family (her hubby and kids are aware of our love connection and approve and accept me as family) it is tough because we are 3000 miles apart. So we see each other 2-4 times a year only. I date but would love a full-time primary poly or monog partner (female most likely) but would love something as described above. I have friends I cuddle, kiss and love with no sex and it is frustrating because she is perfect for me in every way except that her parents are best friends of mine and aren't comfortable with us taking it to the next level. She is 30 years younger than me and I've known her forever. I think she could very well be the person I've loved and felt the strongest love from of anyone in my life so it is frustrating that we will probably never get a chance to be a day-in-day out couple. I think if all things were equal we would both dive in head first.

I am so not the jealous type having been in 3 poly relationships over the years but also not promiscuous but like an emotional connection with the people I become involved with. Consequently, I am still friends with every one of my significant past partners and even most of my casual short-term partners. So what is mentioned by OP would be a great addition to my life, especially right now when I'm so far from my lovers. I'd also really adore a local fuck buddy male or female for weekly or monthly fun. Any sexy, non-jealous, non-drama fueled types out there?

 

[Daisy]

"them"? is it a female? are you a female?

 

[B_Smitten_Kitten]

"them"? is it a female? are you a female?

What difference does it make?

 

[drewww]

It's cool to have friendships like that... physical contact doesn't have to be sexual