My Friend's Wife Will Only Have Sex With Him Once A Week

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They're in their mid-50's but it's always been this way. If they're happy, who am I to judge, right?

I too am in my mid-50's. Up until I got married at 31 years of age, I masturbated numerous times per day. I obviously really enjoyed it but years later I wondered if being so lustful is actually a curse.

My wife and I engage in sex only 2-3 times per week wherein it used to be every day and often times multiple times daily. Our sex drive ain't what it used to be and I'm thankful for that - I think. ;)

What do you think? Is it better to be having sex every day or just occasionally or even never?
 

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Heteronormatively...let's just be honest, the expectation is to meet the woman's expectation of sexual quality and frequency, period, meaning your friend most likely understands his personal feelings about his sex life are always going to take 2nd fiddle to how he should feel about her feelings about their sex lives, assuming he wants what remains to not be mitigated.
 
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It’s a joint thing in my opinion , how ever from a psychological point of view it is said that men need sex for closeness to their partner and women need time from the men. I think most men would live more sex ….be it for closeness or just physical is the individuals thing
 
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It is what ever makes the couple happy and satisfied. My wife and I have very different sex drives. I am more open, adventurous and horney. She is much more vanilla and status quo. Sex to me is fun, satisfying and relaxing. So why not do it often and with variety. Needless to say but this has caused many,many problems . Really the only major problem in our marriage. I just don't understand why she can't be more sexual regarding frequency and quality.