ok, we've been fuck buddies for 11 months (almost a yr) now and he doesnt have a problem getting it up....the problem is stopping him from cumming too fast. We tried fucking slow but that was miserable for me. I like getting my pussy pounded and he likes to deliver the pounding. We've tried everything. We havent been using condoms for about 9 months so I suggested we start using condoms again. We did and I saw no difference. I told him to tell his doctor because there may be something he could prescribe to him but he didn't and I think he's afraid to ask his doctor being that he's so young (21). We've tried everything. I think another problem is that im super tight and his dick may get a little too excited when it takes him a few seconds to get it in. I was thinking maybe I should use a vibrator to loosen myself up before hand. But here's the real question: Is there something he can buy in the drug store thats inexpensive and helps him keep an erection? Answering this would be much appreciated along with any other suggestions.