My fuck buddy doesn't last long...at all

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  1. Rommette

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    ok, we've been fuck buddies for 11 months (almost a yr) now and he doesnt have a problem getting it up....the problem is stopping him from cumming too fast. We tried fucking slow but that was miserable for me. I like getting my pussy pounded and he likes to deliver the pounding. We've tried everything. We havent been using condoms for about 9 months so I suggested we start using condoms again. We did and I saw no difference. I told him to tell his doctor because there may be something he could prescribe to him but he didn't and I think he's afraid to ask his doctor being that he's so young (21). We've tried everything. I think another problem is that im super tight and his dick may get a little too excited when it takes him a few seconds to get it in. I was thinking maybe I should use a vibrator to loosen myself up before hand. But here's the real question: Is there something he can buy in the drug store thats inexpensive and helps him keep an erection? Answering this would be much appreciated along with any other suggestions.
     
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    It's not a problem with you and it's not something that he should take drugs for. He just needs to train himself. Doing Kegels will make him more aware of his biological response, and doing edging exercises can help him develop more control. There is a load of information online that he can research free.
     
  3. Rommette

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    great advice mule....except he refuses to masterbate. Only I can jerk him off (and thats only to get him hard and not to cum). Hee just doesn't do that....not sure why
     
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    Suck him off before hand make him cum, then hold on tight and get ready for round 2?

    I normally cuim in 15 minutes the first time, and the 2nd time can go for hours if need be, no clue why, just always been that way...

    Course the recharge is about 2 minutes so its normally not a problem...

    How shiort of a time frame are we talking for this mystery fuck buddy?
     
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    If he won't improve himself to help satisfy you, it may be time to find a new FB.
     
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    Good advice but maybe there is no need to make him cum. Blowjobs are usually less intense than pussy penetration and if done for more than 10 minutes (don't be too energetic!) will eventually desensitize the penis making it easier to control his urges to cum during penetration.

    Otherwise, a small amount of alcohol can reduce his sensitivity but be careful, a little too much and he'll have another problem!
     
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    What he said.
     
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    i had this problem 2 with my ex at first she was tight as fuck!!!!!! :) i found that even if i did kegels her pussy tightness and vagina muscles where so strong that i spunked with in minutes this was a first for me as it has never happened 2 me b4 her. i found alchol, cialis and rubbing cocaine on my bellend allowed me 2 fuck her brains out :D. little tip which help during sober sex i would hold just the bellend of my penis inside her for a few minutes and then thrust in just the bellend its self so about 2" for me. this made my cock become less sensitive 2 her amazing pussy man did this chick feel so gd never had a better vag yet :(
     
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    The day I find myself needing to rub cocaine on my cock is the same day I'll be finding a cliff to jump off.
     
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    um...his recharge time is a little more than an hour. We're fucking on Sunday and both of us are too excited (its been about 2 weeks since we had sex aka forever) and im afraid the same thing is gonna happen again. I give him head and then he stops me when he's hard as a rock and then wants to put it in my pussy to cum so I don't think head will do any justice. We've had sex 3 times in 5 or 6 hours once but i dont wanna have sex in spurts. I want a good fuck every time
     
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    I think I speak for my fuck buddy when I say "same here". I dont want a cocaine dick on me
     
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    Did you seriously just tell someone to rub cocaine on their cock?!
     
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    Rommette, you must understand that it is really, really difficult to control yourself with full balls!

    I know how to control myself but if I haven't cum for more than a week, I'll explode on contact. You shouldn't expect much self control under those conditions.
    If you had sex (or if he came) more often, he wouldn't have that problem for sure.

    I've never tried them but there are products which are supposed to help delay the orgasm, you could experiment with that.
     
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    I always come pretty fast if I haven't had sex in a week or so (within 10-15mins of sex). But, after that first one, I stay hard and can go for much much longer and harder fucking.

    I'm often away for a week or so at a time, so when my wife and I want hard sex, she loves to give me a bj to come first and then go hard at it :) Works like a charm :)
     
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    Rommette...

    Practice doesn't make perfect but practice does make better if you do it right. I think he needs to do some "personal practice" despite his dislike for masturbating. IF he refuses...next time ya'll meet up work on desensitizing him and get him to control himself...not just his pelvic thrusts. If that doesn't work, take control of your ride and don't let him finish until you want him to...get off, bring a toy, masturbate until he calms down. If he can't up his skills and learn something new I think you might need to move on.
     
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    Yes, this time its been 2 weeks but we go to the same college and at college i like to have sex atleast every day (but he wont let me so we fuck about every other day or so). That may have been the problem but it doesnt explain the same thing happening during the school yr.
     
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    Rom...

    1. Get some desensitizing gel like MAINTAIN and put some in the reservoir tip of a condom before putting it on his cock.

    That will numb his cock head while he is fucking. He'll last long then.
     
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