Im in bad shape. the woman and i have been having sex for a few months, then she had to go home for a month (we have apartments right by school) now that she's back, she's afraid to have sed! she says that it hurt sometimes, and since we havent had sex in such a long time, it will hurt her. :-( ive talked to her abou this several times, and she's not convinced that there is a way that we could have sex without it hurting. this is starting to piss me off, frankly. is there something i could tell her, or somthing i could try out (besides lube) that can help out here? my "problem" is girth, not lengh, btw.