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1st of all,
Try to
not waste your time commanding
God.
2nd of all,
Cool it, Ace !
This probably won't be the first time a LadyBud will disappoint you - they're special.
Now, you were saying.........
I'm in bad shape. The woman and I have been having sex for a few months. She says that it hurt sometimes, and since we haven't had sex in such a long time, it will hurt her.
:-(
I've talked to her about this several times, and she's not convinced that there is a way that we could have sex without it hurting.
Good thing you don't love her; that you're simply using her for relief.
Now that she's had alone-time to give your (you two's) situation some thought - a relationship with you, Epsilonchi - may not be in her best interest.
This is starting to piss me off, frankly.
Being "PO'd" is not healthy, find another and exercise more strenuously.
There are two many "unknowns".
H-m-m-m-m-m.
Now that you've mentioned Frank.....
Is there something that can help out ?
Probably not.
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She had breast reduction surgery
There are many
valid reasons for a woman to Not Want To have Sex.
Accept it.
Not related to
your girth; but the surgery may have opened her eyes to a new "
I Feel Fine !" world. She may not be as stressed - induced by carrying the prior load, she may see herself in a more
positive light, may have reviewed her goals and determined to reach
Higher !
Who knows.
Your best option would be to
follow her lead and help her in any way you can.
If she asks - and it sounds as if she is doing so - you to bug off, make it so.
There's always the possibility of your getting back together.
Your future is up to You.
Hers is up to Her
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Listen Epsilonchi. Relationships are about discussing and
resolvingthings if there is a problem, not following leads like a dog. That's not
equal. You have a right to be pissed off if she's stone-walling you. Just saying
" I don't want to cause it will hurt." is just a lame excuse. If you're willing to try
and make the experience as easy as possible, which isn't hard. Lube, time, lots of
foreplay, and she still says no and won't discuss other options, then give her a choice: Talk and work this out, or bye bye. Simple.
I believe sexual compatibility is 50% of what makes a relationship work.
It its not working, move on!