MADEMOISELLE - You are so godam sharp.(but of course you know this) That mind of yours is something.
The reality of this threadlet (probably a topic rehashed 19 times already) is that the majority of women (gay or straight) would not even think of measuring their boy friends dick. My take on the mechanical aspects to size is identical to the BONKY and others. It really makes no difference unless the cock is enormous or almost micropenis. Both are no fun...I don't know about "sizequeens". I suspect this is a gay conflation.
Gay men are probably more apt to be penis fetishists. I'm very sceptical that the real 100% ladies on this site fantasize about penile architecture to orgasm. The 5 incher guy has an SPH issue, no doubt, combined with low self esteem. What amazed me about the MADEMOISELLE interpretation is "5incher managed to get you all wrapped up in his Small Penis Humiliation web". Right on Point as we say in the legal business. The slightest comment or nuance about an SPH'er shortcomings has lead to suicide.
FYI - men can have an instant uncontrollable urge to jack off at the very slightest provocation for the most obscure stimuli (including this writer). Their mental wiring is hopelessly visual.