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One of her ex's(together for 8 years) is her "best friend" she tells me and they have pretty much daily phone conversations(3 or 4 mins) and nightly online chatting sessions(20 mins or so) and monthly coffee meetings or mutual friend meetings
I try not to offer an opinion more than twice on a thread
However feel quite strongly on this one so heres my other
Above is what i consider excessive
How can a decent relationship be maintained with such contact..2/3 times a year maybe'
I put myself in the OP,s shoes and i would be down right fckn ANNOYED at the amount of time she is giving to her X of
8 years ..any sane person can only wonder wtf they are talking/doing etc etc
Surely her commitment t is to the OP now
(and i KNOW its a relationship and not a Marriage)
I am sure marriages of 20/30 years and we are taking Marriages-often would not generate such constant communication with an X
The reason/s why they broke up ....that must be taken into account and of wich us outsiders are not privy to of course.
Anyway...overall i feel so sorry for the predicament the OP is in..and fear he will end up X no 4
Just because the Lady wants to maintain such close friendships with her X,s
gggeeeeeeeeeeeeeee SAD'
enz
Again i say the X,s are the ASSHOLES
I try not to offer an opinion more than twice on a thread
However feel quite strongly on this one so heres my other
Above is what i consider excessive
How can a decent relationship be maintained with such contact..2/3 times a year maybe'
I put myself in the OP,s shoes and i would be down right fckn ANNOYED at the amount of time she is giving to her X of
8 years ..any sane person can only wonder wtf they are talking/doing etc etc
Surely her commitment t is to the OP now
(and i KNOW its a relationship and not a Marriage)
I am sure marriages of 20/30 years and we are taking Marriages-often would not generate such constant communication with an X
The reason/s why they broke up ....that must be taken into account and of wich us outsiders are not privy to of course.
Anyway...overall i feel so sorry for the predicament the OP is in..and fear he will end up X no 4
Just because the Lady wants to maintain such close friendships with her X,s
gggeeeeeeeeeeeeeee SAD'
enz
Again i say the X,s are the ASSHOLES