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hi everyone. i have a complicated situation here so your input is highly appreciated because i don't know what to do. i'll try to keep it short.
i have a friend who is closet gay/bi/questioning or something and he is attracted to me. i know that's a really bold statement to make, and i'm not going to go into details as to why i think (well, know) that, but it's true. i'm straight so the situation is uncomfortable.
i made the mistake of telling another friend what i thought (not the crush part, but the part of him being gay) and it got back to him. he is the defensive homophobic type so he got really mad and went around telling people that i was out of my mind, that I was the gay one for accusing him of that, like a "takes one to know one" kind of situation.
much later we had a talk about it once where we "cleared things up", he said that he's straight and i'm straight and that's that. honestly i know it was just a bunch of crap because he still occasionally makes implications that im closeted and that it'd be ok if i "came out" to him, which is an unsettling thought because it isn't the case.
i got a taste of my own medicine, i know...but what should be done here?
i have a friend who is closet gay/bi/questioning or something and he is attracted to me. i know that's a really bold statement to make, and i'm not going to go into details as to why i think (well, know) that, but it's true. i'm straight so the situation is uncomfortable.
i made the mistake of telling another friend what i thought (not the crush part, but the part of him being gay) and it got back to him. he is the defensive homophobic type so he got really mad and went around telling people that i was out of my mind, that I was the gay one for accusing him of that, like a "takes one to know one" kind of situation.
much later we had a talk about it once where we "cleared things up", he said that he's straight and i'm straight and that's that. honestly i know it was just a bunch of crap because he still occasionally makes implications that im closeted and that it'd be ok if i "came out" to him, which is an unsettling thought because it isn't the case.
i got a taste of my own medicine, i know...but what should be done here?