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Since when did I ever say I lowered my standards just to get sex? In my experience sex was never that great. I don't care so much about sex.
relationships aren't completely about looks. ask yourself, would you rather be with someone who's tall, thin, drop dead gorgeous and a stuck-up conceited bitch? or would you rather be with someone who isn't drop dead gorgeous and may not be tall or thin, but has a great personality, makes you laugh, and you enjoy her company?
And she says it often. She compliments me alot. Well my gf isn't so hot. I feel bad cause I dont compliment her often. You know how every person has thier own personal compulsion. Like some people have to be clean some people have to do this or that. Well for me I have a serious problem lying. I cannot lie for the life of me. It is no personal choice like "oh im not gonna lie" I don't choose to be this way. Well I can't tell her shes hot or anything cause well she isnt. I think she has pretty eyes and great hair and nice lips and shes such a great person but I feel bad because I can't really compliment her on her looks.
I don't know if she notices that I don't really compliment her or not. Should I lie and tell her I think shes like super gorgeous and stuff or what? I feel bad she says im so sexy and shes always worried that im going to cheat on her or something...as if I am hot. She thinks I'm hot but I'm pretty sure I'm not lol. Average looking girls don't give me a second look she has nothing to worry about.
Her face is ok..I think shes kinda cute. Its just she is overweight. She is and has been working on losing weight and I think that if she does she would look really hot. But for now she just doesn't....
I don't know where I'm going with this lol. Just looking for womanly insight maybe?
Am I just old-fashioned or is it weird that you've got a guy talking about how hot he is and how un-hot his girlfriend is? I mean, I know we're well into metrosexual heaven nowadays, and all the guys are now totally plucking their eyebrows but, holy crap, if one of my friends ever referred to himself as "hot" and started competing in the realm of looks with his GIRLFRIEND, I'd think there was something seriously wrong.
I thought guys were created to do manly things that result in scars so they can draw the attention of hot girls, and not complain that their girlfriend isn't hot like me. I guess that's almost sexist, hunh? I suppose there's some kind of utopian ideal where we can all be image-obsessed to the point where a relationship is a beauty pageant between a man and a woman. It just sounds kinda suck to me.
Honestly...if you actually cared about her, looks or not, you would think she was beautiful on the outside because of who she is on the inside. Dumbass.
Bullshit, spoken by women who gain weight and then don't understand why hubby isn't attracted to them anymore.
i'm not married so that comment makes no sense.
Bullshit, spoken by women who gain weight and then don't understand why hubby isn't attracted to them anymore.
Hubby, boyfriend, whoever
You're all very negative lol. I guess I haven't been emotionally destroyed yet or something. My life may not be the greatest but its your mentality that really decides whether or not it sucks to be you.
I figure..I love this girl and there are tons of things I love about her. Her weight isn't and issue if it was I never would have dated her. I just felt bad because I felt like I can't compliment her as well as she does to me. To all of you its like "omfg looks are #1 priority if you don't think shes a smoking hot babe then dump her!" I don't really understand that mentality. If a hot girl came up to me and said "hey lets do it" I wouldn't.
Jessica Alba may be hot, but that does not mean that hot is Jessica Alba. If you are strongly attracted to her, she is hot to you. And whose opinion matters to her? Yours. So don't muddle up your definition of hot, it should be personal.