I have to say guys I think its intesesting that there are so many guys out the who can't cum from a BJ..Ive never meet 1 yet but there must be alot of you out there!
My GF wants me to cum in her mouth, but I can't!
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the_reverend
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i think it's mostly mental for me. it always pisses me off whenever i tell people and someone inevitably says, "oh, you've just never had good head then." no, i've had plenty of awesome head, i've just never cum from it. it feels awesome, it gets me all kinds of turned on and raring to go, on occasion it's even gotten me close...but it's just never happened. so if it feels good physically, the only thing i can think of is that it's mental. mind you, i've never had any girls complain. only two girls have ever asked me to cum in their mouth and i had to stroke off right up until the moment of climax, at which point they took over. still felt incredible, lol!
Honestly, I don't really know... It has just never happened for me.... I love having my dick sucked, and really get into it, but just don't finish. I usually can't finish when my girl gives me a handjob either, unless I help her do it. I have a few times, but it is rare. Personally, I'd rather pump a load in her pussy anytime! I'd like to cum from bjs and hjs sometimes, but I just jump in and help take care of it, or we "do it" so I'll finish...
I just attribute it to my wiring I guess... and my true desire to have her pussy instead... LOL
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SilverTrain
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Dang, your girlfriend is my kind of gal.
Good luck with your "problem". If you just can't find any way to get cum in her mouth, let me know, and I'm sure I can help with that. :wink:
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I think it all goes back to being a mental thing. It's just all about where your head (the one up top, haha) is at. For me, it depends on how she's giving me head. If we're laying down and she goes down to give me head leaning over where I can't see her giving me head, I can't get off. I can't get off from the 69 position either. The best position that works for me is when i'm laying down and she's giving me head with her being between my legs, so I can actually watch her going up and down my dick. It also helps when I hold her hair while she making slurping sounds and when she drowns it with her saliva. I have NO problem cumming from these things, haha
Me too! I always get off better when I'm lying down with the girl between my legs, but for some reason my wife likes me to straddle her chest and fuck her head. I guess so she's not doing all the work...
This is so true. My BF has had this problem and of course I right away think I was doing something wrong, which made me feel inadequate. I expressed my concerns with him and he finally admitted he cannot cum from getting head. So we tried a few different things like going from oral to fucking and back to oral and that seems to work. :biggrin1:
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Maybe she actually ENJOYS sucking your dick. Some women love the to suck dick, and they love the taste of their man. I know a couple of people suggested you doing her bare and then cumming on her face/in her mouth, have you tried that? Let me know how it turns out
I guess we all have our different solutions to your situation. My wife would give me a blow job and I would do nothing. No cum. But she really likes to see me shot off. So she went out and bought me a FleshLight. She loves to masturbate me with it. And, yes, I shot large amounts of cum when she slips it on me and masturbates me with it. We got the clear kind and she loves to see my cums shot into it. Many times afterwards, she will start sucking me again and then I will have an orgasm. Hope this helps. Rubber Harley
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Sounds like quite the dilemma. You're gonna have to find a way to cum in her mouth.
Go through your normal motions of fucking. When you think you'll be getting close to cumming, switch positions so she's on top. While she's riding your dick tell her you want to cum in her mouth. Hopefully she'll get the picture. Have her keep fucking you until you're ready to cum then tell her to suck your dick so you can cum in her mouth.
She'll be happy that she got to taste and swallow your cum and you'll be happy you got to please her by cumming in her mouth.
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If she is not complaining or stopping, then why are you concerned? Also, let her take control one night. She sucks you until she is ready to fuck.
Watch porn during it, until you relax enough. Edge yourself 4 or 5 times before you start with her.
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Just say "im close can i jerk off into your mouth"
and then jerk off into her mouth until u cum
and then jerk off into her mouth until u cum
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