My gf wants to have a threesome with my big dicked friend....and I do too?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by samfro, Jun 19, 2010.

  1. B_dxjnorto

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    You are projecting. He never said any such thing.

    More projection. Comments like these on LPSG are unnecessary. Hello.
     
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    Great post. It sums up pretty much everything I'd have said.

    Another thing to bear in mind is that engaging in sexual activity with your friends, whether or not there's any direct contact between you, does change the nature of your relationship with them. If you go ahead with a threesome, you risk losing both him and your girl, or becoming even closer. I'd say the best thing you can do to start with is to talk to your girl. Be honest. Find out what you both want. Try to spice up your relationship without introducing someone else. If she just wants to know what it feels like to have a humongous dick in her, get her a big dildo and take it from there.
    However, if a threesome is what you both want, go for it, but, as I say, be sure you know what you're letting yourselves in for before you do it. Oh, and stay off the booze. You want everyone to be sober from the point of view of being fully aware of what they're doing so there's no comeback later and you also want to be able to enjoy the full experience (and remember it clearly).
     
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    Clearly you're projecting for him. Totally unnecessary, & unwanted. Please stop answering for other people.

    He can speak for himself.
     
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    Sounds like two doomed relationships to me, the whole thing is icky, you bring a friend you're sexually attracted to in to a threesome with your GF you're risking fucking both relationships up.
     
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    Why? Things like that work for some people. If you don't feel ownership.
     
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    I'm not saying they don't but I'm saying there's an extremely high chance that the situation could turn to rat shit. The guy admits to being insecure and jealous about his GF. The attraction to the friend and all the rest is a recipe for disaster. I'm sure plenty of people could pull this off, but considering the facts in evidence and the strong likelihood it could go tits up I think they'd be better off inviting a stranger in if they want a threesome.
     
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    Well, he hasn't talked about whether the friend would be into him or not, but honestly if a dude is willing to have a MFM, there's got to be some level of comfortability there. But I guess it hasn't been suggested to the friend yet. I'm losing track of the story here.
     
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    Yeah it's not really a mechanics or logistics thing, I'm sure they can all fuck each other if they want, it's about how everyone feels about it, themselves and one another afterwards that matters. And considering some of the variables the OP mentions it just sounds like a post-coital headfuck waiting to happen.
     
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    Probably so. People love headfuck so much.
     
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    Unfortunately they do :tongue::wink:
     
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    It could work if you are into on open relationship or are into the lifestyle. She is interested in him physically so at some point she will sleep with him whether you are involved or not. If you are attracted to him and he is not interested you will alienate him. More often than not these end poorly and you will be talking to yourself for a few months after it goes south.
     
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    If it's going to happen anyway, may as well be involved, set aside guilt, mindfuck, regrets - go in eyes open.
     
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    Exactly what I was thinking.

    So you might as well be involved.
     
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    Then he gets to see his friend's dick and maybe his friend will be okay with it.

    Samfro. Show us what we're working with here. Give us the link to your friend's freaky dick.
     
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    Not necessarily. Some people have morals and/or can exercise restraint. Just because you're attracted to someone, it doesn't necessarily follow that you will have sex with them.

    Controlling impulses and taking responsibility for your own actions and behaviour is part of being an adult.
     
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    I agree with Viking_UK here and I've said it before on this site in other contexts: just because you can, doesn't mean you should. However, it should be noted that adults do take part in activities like three-ways and that type of activity can be part of someone's responsible actions.
     
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    pm me if you are interested in an update
     
    #78 samfro, Jun 30, 2010
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    I think it's safe to say that we all are.
     
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    Yeah definitely. Just let us all know what's going on
     
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