I was talking to my girlfriend the other day about past relationships, and after much insistance she revealed to me that her previous boyfriend was huge. Hearing her talk about it and imagining her taking one that big turns me on soo much. I asked her more questions and basicaly I found out that her ex was 9 inches soft, he was slightly larger when hard maybe 9 3/4 inches ( she asked if she could measure it), and she got off extremely quick with him. He was able to make her cum, and orgasm as he was putting it in and many times there after. So heres my problem. I love hearing her talk about her sexual experiences with him. However, it makes her uncomfortable to talk about it with me. When I initially asked if she had anyone bigger she told me no, and that I was her biggest. I am almost 7 inches hard with a 5 1/2 in girth. Im pretty sure she told me that because she cares about my feelings and doesnt want to damage my ego. Although, she still insists that she likes the sex better with me because the feelings were not there with him. I am incredibly secure when it comes to our relationship. i know that this guy is an ex and shes with me (engaged). So honestly I'm not jealous or bothered by it one bit. I want her to feel comfortable and be able to talk to me about these kinds of things, because its a HUGE turn on. I have told her that it turns me on to talk about it, and I am working on getting her to open up more. she wants to, but is having a hard time letting her inner freak out. What are some creative ways to steer a conversation towards this subject when we are talking about sex without making her uncomfortable? Or even better how can I make talking about it enjoyable for her as well?