My GF's huge ex

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She's never going to be into it for your sake/enjoyment. She may do it as an "accommodation" to you....but it's not what floats her boat. She'll start to question whether you're turned on by her or what other guys did to her. She'll also gravitate to maybe you're hiding something in the "closet" and she's not the object of your eye.

I've been through all of it several times....even had a lot of them fuck other guys and even gang bangs.....and most won't do it long haul, they make the initial accommodation in the beginning, then fall for another guy who swears he only cares for her, and not her exploits....but on the rare occasion you find a nymphomaniac (a woman with a man's sex drive by my definition), it will be a very hot, and erotic ride.....whether she is actually cuckolding you or just verbalizing who she's had in the past in every detail (which will get old after a while for both of you), and then you'll try to get her to strap on another dude's cock and it's just a matter of time.......bye bye to you and the relationship (at least the majority of time it is).

Tread softly my friend.....tread softly, or it may go up in smoke and it almost always becomes like a drug...you build a tolerance, then need more "dirt" to get aroused and want more stories......and even in more detail...which WILL drive her both crazy and away from you!!!
 
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If you have measuring tape ask her to measure you lol..I dated this one girl who I had measure me, she put the tape measure slightly above my fat pad and held it there with there with one hand and commenced to roll the tape over my cock, measured to the tip...Guess how big I was rofl 8 3/4" thats an 1.25" over my real size..
So yes she is out there somewhere telling her new bf that shes had almost 9" in her, and hes out there..letting it fuck with him..

Not to generalize, but I am generalize..most women I believe are perception deficient and arent really that great at measuring shit.. Except the women on LPSG of course ;)
 

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And I am wondering for what kind of devil questioning her about ex. Why you lose your time with this. This is a real fetish, feeling horny, want a threesome with a biggest 9" guy?
 

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I think many of y'all are missing the point by a mile. It turns HIM on. He wants to know because it rocks HIS boat.

Sex is an exchange. He gives. She gives. Where it balances depends but doesn't have to be precisely the center.

Sometimes she wants it sweet. Sometimes she wants it rougher. Both are fine if that's what she wants. And if he wants a real fantasy about her real big friend, that in itself isn't an issue. His fantasy is his. Not hers. And not yours.

Fair enough that some girls can't handle it. Fair to guess that some girls project their own feelings on their partners. That is, they don't want to think of him with anyone else, so they expect him to think of her with him only. Only not all men think that way. He doesn't. And I know others who don't. Some men are turned on specifically by thoughts of their girls with other guys.

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I had an ex who absolutely hated me asking about these things. I was all-round her biggest, though there was a chance one of her exes was thicker. The thought of it turned me on insanely, but had I pushed the issue with her should would have been quite upset. Not everyone wants to talk about these things.
 

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Tread softly my friend.....tread softly, or it may go up in smoke and it almost always becomes like a drug...you build a tolerance, then need more "dirt" to get aroused and want more stories......and even in more detail...which WILL drive her both crazy and away from you!!!

True...but

I think many of y'all are missing the point by a mile. It turns HIM on. He wants to know because it rocks HIS boat.

Sex is an exchange. He gives. She gives. Where it balances depends but doesn't have to be precisely the center.

Sometimes she wants it sweet. Sometimes she wants it rougher. Both are fine if that's what she wants. And if he wants a real fantasy about her real big friend, that in itself isn't an issue. His fantasy is his. Not hers. And not yours.

Fair enough that some girls can't handle it. Fair to guess that some girls project their own feelings on their partners. That is, they don't want to think of him with anyone else, so they expect him to think of her with him only. Only not all men think that way. He doesn't. And I know others who don't. Some men are turned on specifically by thoughts of their girls with other guys.

SG

If it floats your boat, & she's brought it up, why not be honest? Shit I've had to dress up as Zorro & a fireman before, & worn out my knees standing up & having sex whilst carrying women.

I don't like rimming or using those rabbit vibes (so not erotic - just boring to a guy) - so if a guy has a kink that his partner doesn't like - so what? You do it because getting them off with some harmless kink should turn you on, or at least make you happier too.
 

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Reassure her that to you she is more than sex and you know you are more than sex to her as well. Then find a really hung guy and set them up so she can enjoy the huge meat & you can watch her enjoying herself. Find a very nice, but huge guy who will reat her as she should be treated, and give him to her as an occasional gift. Join in if both of them are comfortable.

It will let her enjoy those physical only feelings, but still trust her love to you. If you find the right guy, he will respect what you've got and enjoy that he is giving you both something special while enjoying her himself.

Believe it or not, I have fucked more than 50 women who were in exactly the same situation while their husbands watched or joined, and have made many very good friends. Some couples I have been getting together with for years. It is really a great experience for all, and all know it is only a physucal/friend thing & no emotional connection exists or ever will between me and the woman.

Bottom line is women need WAY more than sex, but also crave sex to be the very best for them, and can actually separate sex and love probably better than we traditionally believe men can.

Good hunging :)


I was talking to my girlfriend the other day about past relationships, and after much insistance she revealed to me that her previous boyfriend was huge.

Hearing her talk about it and imagining her taking one that big turns me on soo much. I asked her more questions and basicaly I found out that her ex was 9 inches soft, he was

slightly larger when hard maybe 9 3/4 inches ( she asked if she could measure it), and she got off extremely quick with him. He was able to make her cum, and orgasm as he was

putting it in and many times there after. So heres my problem. I love hearing her talk about her sexual experiences with him. However, it makes her uncomfortable to talk about it

with me. When I initially asked if she had anyone bigger she told me no, and that I was her biggest. I am almost 7 inches hard with a 5 1/2 in girth. Im pretty sure she told me that

because she cares about my feelings and doesnt want to damage my ego. Although, she still insists that she likes the sex better with me because the feelings were not there with

him. I am incredibly secure when it comes to our relationship. i know that this guy is an ex and shes with me (engaged). So honestly I'm not jealous or bothered by it one bit. I want

her to feel comfortable and be able to talk to me about these kinds of things, because its a HUGE turn on.


I have told her that it turns me on to talk about it, and I am working on getting her to open up more. she wants to, but is having a hard time letting her inner freak out.


What are some creative ways to steer a conversation towards this subject when we are talking about sex without making her uncomfortable? Or even better how can I make talking about it enjoyable for her as well?
 

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This is not an issue to push,I had an ex who got turned on by hearing stories about my exes and I literally started to hate him as he would bring it up during sex. No matter how much he tried to get me into it it never worked. Just made me feel more disgusted about it.

I've never known a woman who wanted to talk about exes. Never knew a man who didn't.
 
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Look at the OP's past posts and subjects... plus the fact that he doesn't consider himself to be 100% straight. Maybe the issue is his own sexuality and preference, not hers. Nothing wrong with this, but this may be the real issue here.
 

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Cant help but wonder how many ex girlfriends really come clean and actually tell the truth to their boyfriends or husbands about my cock and how hard their orgasms were... :cool:
 

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Cant help but wonder how many ex girlfriends really come clean and actually tell the truth to their boyfriends or husbands about my cock and how hard their orgasms were... :cool:
If orgasms were really that good, you must be really unbearable to live with, considering they have chosen other men over you and your size.
 

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If orgasms were really that good, you must be really unbearable to live with, considering they have chosen other men over you and your size.

Why is it always automatically assumed that the women left the man, instead of the other way around? Isn't it entirely possible that he left her and now she's desperately missing the mind-blowing orgasms he gave her?
 

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I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years now. She got married when she was 18 and was married for 12 years. She had only been with 2 guys before me. She has 2 kids by her ex. Her ex husband was an asshole, but he had a huge cock. She said he measured it in front of her on several occations and it was right at 12.5in.! All thier friends use to call him snake. She said the sex sucked because he always tried to ram her with it when he knew it hurt her. The reason they got a divorce is because she caught him cheating on her. She didn't ever bring it up until I ask her about it. In a way it turns me on to hear her talk about his huge cock because I know there are no feelings there. I actualy found a picture in an album of his cock that he had taken when they were married. It was huge! But I threw the picture away. It doesn't bother me because my girlfriend and I have awsome sex, and we love each other.
 

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Why is it always automatically assumed that the women left the man, instead of the other way around? Isn't it entirely possible that he left her and now she's desperately missing the mind-blowing orgasms he gave her?
Honestly, it seems to me for every single man bragging about size and 'how good orgasms were', there are ten other men somewhere else actually living with the ladies, and experiencing orgasms now.
Perhaps they're not that good, but IMO sometimes a huge size it's not the best part of the story.
 

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I just think of Meg Ryan in 'WHEN HARRY MET SALLY' and wonder how many men have been faked into thinking they give mind blowing orgasms.
 

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Talking about any of my exes and the sex we had while boinking my current partner would make my dick go soft, that part of my life is OVER! keeping on about it until you get your way is selfish and quite frankly says a lot more than you are telling us, because I reckon that you are insecure about his BIG one compared to your regular sized one that can't get her off over and over just by thrusting like he could. If I was her I would run like hell away from you before it's too late. Ignorant.