been partying and living a disruptive life without structure, havent worked out in a year and well, my six pack has almost disapeared, im going to get it back and post new pics, i get my muscle back fast but the problem im having, my girl was just talking to a guy who had a sixpack and a better body then me currently because of the lack of effort to work out caused by stress. this happened when i dumped her. (we worked it out)She showed me his pic, made me insecure and want my body back for myself first and then others second, i respect your comment, please be understanding, im simply looking for support and where i stand as a male in the lower region department, i have no problem attracting gay men or bi/straight chicks. i am not gay but they seem to find me appealing. ill be putting myself back together these next 2 months so il be fine, her girlfriend hates and say im ugly because i ignore them and dislike them cause they fucked her ex's in past but many other of her friends want me. share your thoughts. confidence boosts and words of wisdom welcome. im going through regresion, a mtture person acting childish and insecure from stress. on a way to recovery, lol Between her saying she wants my dick wider and have had up to 10 inch dicks from previous partners but loves me and showing off a guy she was talking to with six pack when drunk and awwing over it in front of me.... made me sad. i wanna get my shit back in shape. she is a model and used to strip a while ago, just did a nude photo shoot and is a scorpio on top of it all, someone, give some insight on this and share your experiences and thoughts. i wanna know where i stand and if i should be worried even at all or if she is just getting in my head from a damaged past.