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my girlfriend cant fit :( , advice appreaciated

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by Tiger_Maxim, Aug 26, 2011.

  1. Tiger_Maxim

    Tiger_Maxim Experimental Member

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    We tried to have sex 3 times but she asks me to stop , she says im too thick ; 6 inch in girth and 7.5 length. She not a short girl.

    I been gentle but still wont get even half way in.
     
  2. 112586

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    Got a bit more girth than you mate so can understand this, my partner of 4 years still has problems sometimes.

    Lots of foreplay, but I'm told don't use fingers because it will cause her muscles to contract to finger size.

    Get her super wet, get her off first, then use lots of lube and go super slow, maintaining her stimulation. Try some very shallow thrusts, take a short break and then go again, if she can't take it all that time, don't pressure it, just go for what she is comfortable each time.

    Depending on what your like also, do you find sometimes your not as hard/thick after you get off, maybe take advantage of that to get inside, while your still firm enough, but not bulging at the seems!

    Time, dedication, and reassurance, if she is stressed/self conscience it's just going to make it much much worse. Failing that, maybe try some smaller sex toys to get her loosened up a bit first, then introduce yourself a bit between each go with the toy?
     
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    So you've yet to have sex?
     
  4. ManlyBanisters

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    Told by whom?

    Must have been by some fucking idiot because it is a load of shite!
     
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    Go slow, lots of lube, foreplay she may get used to after a while
     
  6. buffbaldy

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    I am thick and have always had that problem. She needs to be good and wet and then slide in slow just the head pull out and then a little more. I am taperd so I m 6.5 on top of shaft and7.25 at base, avg about 2" thick, once in the tightness or fullness usually gets them off fast!
     
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    I would have to agree with what everybody has said all good advise
     
  8. ShortButGirthy

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    7" girth here. By FAR the best way is to buy a couple of dildos/vibrators - one small in girth (think pocket rocket) and then one in between the small one and you, but closer to your size.

    Starting off with the smaller one, get her engine going. Then switch the larger one and slowly use it until it's she's used to it, then switch to your penis. As long as you take it slow, you should be good to go unless there's actually a physical issue with her vagina.

    I used this method all the time and it works wonders.
     
  9. erratic

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    Like the boys above have said: Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. If there's one thing I've learned from the many women who think I'm some sort of magical sex advice friend (because I'm a homo, you see), it's that. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay.
     
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    WD-40. Industrial sized tools need industrialized lube.
     
  11. Tiger_Maxim

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    thank you everyone !
     
  12. thick_

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    6.5" here and I agree lube it up good!
     
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    In 40+ years experience, I've found tall women seem to be significantly tighter than short ones. Maybe because back in the day they were only supposed to date taller men, and the short ones had more opportunities?
     
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    Yes foreplay allows the vagina to expand... use lube after that and go in easy with her but in the air for gravity to pull her open... there are specific positions for women to open up.

    Blessings.
     
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    I can take it...EASY
     
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    my gf is 5'2 and had the same issue when we first got together. Patience..foreplay and lube work great
     
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    What does this have to do with his question? He's asking for advice on how to fit inside of his girlfriend, what you can or cannot take is totally useless and irrelevant to him.
     
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    Vaginas can stretch to accommodate babies, so I guess I would take the advice here and just foreplay til the cows come home. I have never had a problem with girth, as a matter of fact, a thick dick makes me cum like crazy because it feels so good, it wasn't until I discovered this board that I realized that there is such a thing as being too thick for some women.
     
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    Your penis has a left curve; perhaps a different position with her on her side will help for a better angle on entry.
     
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    P.T. Barnum was so right.
     
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    Every girl is different so you'll have to learn what works for her. For instance, foreplay works for my girl, but if I make her cum, she tightens up because her muscles contract so hard when she orgasms. Then you have to start all over again. She even told me it's really uncomfortable for her if I keep thrusting as she is cumming (I'm 6" girth). So yes to the foreplay, but be patient and keep learning her. Treat her like a work of art that you are studying and learn how she reacts to everything.
     
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    The above poster is exactly right, every woman is different, so it's about learning what's right for her. I have had a similar problem, and I have to penetrate my girlfriend very shallowly to start with, and slowly getting deeper until I'm all the way in. A lot of foreplay is always the place to start, but it's not the be all and end all either.

    Some people say that a woman orgasming just prior to penetration is not a good idea, because a woman's vaginal muscles tighten during orgasm, and I don't disagree that that would make it difficult for some women to accomodate a larger penis. However, I find it has the opposite effect for my girlfriend, giving her an orgasm just prior to sex actually makes penetration easier. So that really shows that it's different for every woman.

    Just be patient, give it time, make sure you do have lots of foreplay and try different things to see what might work.
     
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