my girlfriend cant fit :( , advice appreaciated

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Every girl is different so you'll have to learn what works for her. For instance, foreplay works for my girl, but if I make her cum, she tightens up because her muscles contract so hard when she orgasms. Then you have to start all over again. She even told me it's really uncomfortable for her if I keep thrusting as she is cumming (I'm 6" girth). So yes to the foreplay, but be patient and keep learning her. Treat her like a work of art that you are studying and learn how she reacts to everything.
 

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The above poster is exactly right, every woman is different, so it's about learning what's right for her. I have had a similar problem, and I have to penetrate my girlfriend very shallowly to start with, and slowly getting deeper until I'm all the way in. A lot of foreplay is always the place to start, but it's not the be all and end all either.

Some people say that a woman orgasming just prior to penetration is not a good idea, because a woman's vaginal muscles tighten during orgasm, and I don't disagree that that would make it difficult for some women to accomodate a larger penis. However, I find it has the opposite effect for my girlfriend, giving her an orgasm just prior to sex actually makes penetration easier. So that really shows that it's different for every woman.

Just be patient, give it time, make sure you do have lots of foreplay and try different things to see what might work.