My girlfriend got an offer to do porn. Can this work?

[thebeefy32]

sweet dude you fucked a pornstar

 

[D_RogerAbs20]

Well just giving you guys an update here.

She just did it.....just came back from a the shoot about an hour ago.

Don't know how I feel....I part of me is turned on by it and part of me is a little turned off. But I agreed with it so I have to live with my decision.

She said it was fun and that the guys take Viagra and some desensitizing lotions to make them last forever. She she said she had 4 really good orgasms.

For Katt who said they don't pay for orgasms or ability to take big cocks, well I don't know if that's true in this case because she is definitely being encouraged to do both and was in fact paid extra because of it.

She said to her, porn is really fun way to make money and that she obviously has no emotional attachment to the guys.

So I guess my girlfriend is a future porn star....

Mind telling us where we can look for her?

 

[AbeFroman]

I haven't seen it mentioned, but I have read that herpes and other non-HIV diseases are very prevalent in the porn industry.

 

[thebeast1]

Slippy slope my friend. If you can be with her knowing she's getting tore up by huge cocks for a gig, and many of your friends may see her getting fucked when they watch porn or you may stumble across it more power too you. I for one don't know how you do it. I couldn't imagine thinking about my girl going and getting railed by guys to make a quick buck.

Good luck, and if thats what you want I hope it works for you! To each his own.

 

[The Great Gonzo]

I don't think there's anything wrong with having an open relationship. Good for you.

Her argument is that it's not cheating cuz it's acting, and she can have sex unemotionally quite easily.

You really shouldn't stress out about whether or not it's cheating, given that...

She she said she had 4 really good orgasms.

If she's having sex with other men, and getting off on it, most people would probably consider that to be cheating, but don't let it bother you. You are the ones who define the boundaries of your relationship and it sounds like you have excellent communication, so I wouldn't worry about it.

Face it, you're in a successful long-term relationship with a hot young porn star. Life is good.

 

[account115]

Did she manage to disgues herself like you said she wanted to in the first post?

Does she still have a sexual appetit with you?

I find it hard to believe that she came 4 times, you rarely ever see an orgasm in porn.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

She also thinks she'd be quite good as she has certain assets that make her have a lot of potential for porn

Ime, most women are 'one and done' in porn, before gauging her potential allow her to experience getting naked and fucking in front of a room full of strangers.

The porn agent also told her that if she can take large cocks and have real orgasms on film she'd get up to 50% extra. which is almost $4000.

Never heard of an 'orgasm' bonus, lol. Don't go by the agent, read the contract.

I can tell she really wants to do it. She also has plans to disguise her appearance so that she wont be easily recognized.

While possible. You should always operate under the assumption that someone will recognize you in the adult entertainment industry - face, body, voice, tattoo, mole, etc.

Plus, people in the production company, those that deal with the paperwork, or purchase her content will know who she is, including real and stage name and other confidential information.

How do porn actors & actresses have real relationships?

:shrug: I have no idea. Viewing the relationships from the outside, there's usually a weird dynamic going on.

 

[offline]

I think your likelihood of contracting herpes just increased by a massive amount. Google it.

 

[bloodstone]

Do you have any pics of her you can post?

 

[Guy-jin]

Emotional issues aside, I second (third? fourth?) the advice that you have her get tested for STDs before touching her again yourself. The now mostly amateur porn industry is pretty poorly regulated and teeming with STDs from what I've heard.

Also, I've heard the industry is very sleezy (as confirmed by Katt in this very thread).

 

[DGirl]

Forget it you all he is either MAKING this all up .. To get TURNED on..
Or he is really not caring about STD'S no way in hell ANY man I have KNOWN or DATED would want their WOMEN doing PORN and sexing OTHER MEN.. then coming back say how great it is and keep having sex with her man.

If they did, That WOMEN is GONE..

If it is real what your saying.. DUDE....
If you date other women... PLEASE USE (2) condoms.. THANK you!!


Porn is OLD hat... the GLORY days of it is WAY gone.
You have read about HOW many women and MEN got STD'S that KILLED THEM in the PAST? Well triple that in 2010.. It is not the GLORY days..anymore..

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

Your gf's found a really good way of talking you into letting her be unfaithful ;-)

 

[AbeFroman]

I read this a few years ago. It really killed most of my pornstar fantasys:
New York Columns - Danger on the Set - page 1

Belladonna knew she had herpes; she had contracted it five years ago while working in porn. For her, it was the tipping point: Until now, she had only experienced outbreaks on her labia, but what if the herpes spread to her ass, her mouth, and other parts of her body? On the one hand, she's not alone: Some insiders think that nearly every performer has herpes. But in another sense, she's all alone. Her post shined a light on one thing no one wants to talk about in porn: STDs.

 

[BS76]

If your girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive, then just fuck her more often. Don't let her fuck other guys (and girls) on camera. Or, if she wants to ... leave her.

This is the best advice I've seen.

 

[shybutwhy]

Eyescream: what would you say if your boyfriend sold drugs? Or was a gigolo? Spent a while addicted to porn now I only watch amateur porn on yuvutu or other sites like that because I'm not gonna support some douchebag and some whure that just want a quick buck. Porn desensitizes us as people an makes degredation of women acceptable as well as so much more. It is wrong. For example there is nothing wrong with marijuana but when you make a lIving off it you're a criminal. Well there's nothing wrong with sex but when u make a living off it you're a fuckin loser, male or female. Get a real fuckin job...