My Girlfriend to become a pornstar!?!

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  1. Lucypinderfan

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    Hey guys and girls,

    So I have been chatting with my long term girlfriend this evening (see my photo album) and she is starting to seriously consider a career switch to porn.

    We have always half-heartedly talked about it as I have always said she would be an amazing pornstar but now it is becoming serious.

    We've always been very sexually experimental and open to new things and have made plenty of 'home movies'. Her present career hasn't really kicked off and she wants to do something she will enjoy while she is still young. I would quite like to join her, but I'm doing ok in a corporate job I like and I wouldn't want to risk throwing it away.

    Before you ask, I'm pretty open about her being with other guys as long as there are no secrets. To be fair, part of me quite enjoys watching her.

    She has always liked being watched when having sex or getting naked, and lets me show people phone videos of her giving me head and lets me put pictures on here. I think some of the nice pic comments have given her that final bit of confidence to take this on.

    She wants to try a couple of boy/girl and boy/boy/girl scenes to start off. I'm cool with it, but I'm a bit worried about what our families will say. What do you think?

    LPF
     
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    As long as you are both open to it, and you really don't mind sharing her then I say GO FOR IT!!
    And you are right! She is very hot!!!
    Best of luck to her in her new ventures!!
     
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    Well she looks great, hope everything works out OK for you. Looking forward to seeing more of her!
     
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    aside from the fact that she is hot and id love to watch her, this is a massive decision and one that she cannot reverse if taken. make sure you think long and hard about it. you seem at ease which is important but it is her decision which is crucial. let her have a think about without being pressured. Then hopefully we can enjoy some cock sucking action haha. she has great tits too!
     
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    Let me know. I'm connected to some people at Digital Playground.
     
  6. Lucypinderfan

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    Do you think she has got what it takes looks wise? It would be good to hear a professional opinion
     
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    lets get this out of the way, your gf is HOT, so dont worry about her being "good enough"

    my concern is, are you really sure you want to do something like this? once you put this on the table than it anything you ask her to do will be compramised ... what if this relationship gets very serious and you want to marry her and you want her for yourself only, you think she will agree to that?
     
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    I'm glad that most people think she has got a shot at being a success based on her looks. I've always thought she would be awesome at it, but I'm biased :0

    If she choses porn and we agree it's the way forward for us as a couple as well as for her personally, then I'll accept it for the long term. There will probably be contracts involved too which she will have to honour. If we ever do get married and she's still in porn then I'll just have to marry a pornstar! :)
     
  9. Thirdlegproduction

    Thirdlegproduction Formerly WhiteMonst3r
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    why doesnt she come on here herself if she's that serious about porn?
     
  10. magic7

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    I dont think porn is a smart decision. A lot of people think they want to be in porn, but I dont think they take everything into consideration. Once you go into porn your gonna be out there naked having sex on camera for all to see. Obviously she doesn't think she has a problem with everyone she knows being able to see her online having sex. Is she really ready to have to have sex in front of people everyday on command? I think she probably thinks she can be more picky about the type of scenes shes gonna be able to do. Why does she think she's gonna be able to set the line. There are plenty of women who desperatley need the money willing to do anything so she'll probably have to be just competitive when starting out. This may involve having sex with more guys than she wanted at one time, having sex with women when she only wanted to have sex with men, Sticking things in places she didnt want, and doing some really freaky fetish stuff she might think is disgusting, etc.. From my understanding its only the succesfull pornstars that get to call the shots and say no. Nothing against your girl, just saying its very competitive and everyone has to start somewhere.

    I have a question for you though. Have you really considered the effects of what might happen to your guys relationship once she starts porn? Its very easy to get into drugs in that industry. Do you think thats going to make your parents proud, that your with a girl that has sex on camera for money? It doesnt worry you that she might want to leave you after she enters the world of porn?
     
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    You say you are "open to her being with other guys as long as there are no secrets. To be fair, part of me quite enjoys watching her."

    Have you and she engaged sexually with others? And I don't mean just sharing pictures. I mean have you, or more importantly, has she actually been swinging? There's a big difference between showing her pictures around on the one hand, and her becoming a porn model/actress on the other. It might be a hot fantasy, but unless you're already swingers your relationship might not cope with it.
     
  12. Lucypinderfan

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    We haven't been swinging before. But when I was at uni, me and a buddy double teamed her a few times. He's the only other guy I have actually seen her fuck, but I didn't have a problem with it (and surprisingly neither did he).

    You're right to point out that it's going to be different, but I kinda have the feeling we won't know until she gives it a try.

    I still must point out to everyone that the decision has not been made yet but is something we are both strongly considering.
     
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    hey there,

    if she does decide to go for it, she shud get in contact with televisionx in the uk, they will look after her

    best of luck
     
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    As a lay man, there must be several strings attached to a career in porn. I don't know what they are, but some serious investigation must be done before getting started! (OK - so something out of Boogie Nights is unlikely - but still!) Certainly, the tricky bit will be getting the support of your family and friends.

    As an aside, she is certainly pornstar material, no question about that! Very sexy, and someone I am sure most of us would love to see playing with a cock.
     
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    My ex-wife was a nude model / camgirl / actress for about 7 years, ages 18~25. My advice to your gf would be to start off very slow. She could launch a site with photos and maybe a video or two of her. This would give her the chance to be creative and in artistic control. My ex didn't even get fully naked for the first year or so and still made a ridiculous amount of money. Her fans were a ravenous lot and were essentially pleading for her to take each step, which really was a huge money-making opportunity for her. Jumping straight into hardcore fucking really relinquishes all that control.

    Oh and if she can find a female manager, take that.
     
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    That sounds like an excellent strategy! With the right marketing, this could be quite a lucrative venture.
     
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    She had better think long and hard (yeah, that was a pun) about it. Becoming just a piece of meat for the porn industry is a real possibility if she doesn't make the right decisions along the way.

    For every Sandra Otterson (Wifey of "Wifey's World) who just fucks her husband and has probably made a lot of money there seem to be a lot of junkies and folks with HIV who descend to one step above prostitution.

    I don't claim to have any special knowledge of the porn industry, but just based on things in the news over the years it's not a place for the faint of heart.

    And I agree with lutherblisset's suggestion.
     
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    You can ask me whatever you want about this, I feel like I have a lot of advice to give.

    The diy approach is good if you are naturally good-looking (which she clearly is), and have some smarts, creativity, and motivation. For those who have an addiction and / or are a single parent, I would not suggest the adult entertainment industry.
     
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    Thanks to everyone for the advice/support, especially LutherBlisset. We have contacted a couple of production companies who have sent confidential schedules of the types of scenes they are looking to shoot over the coming months and how much they are willing to pay for each.

    I myself, think she should film a couple of solo scenes - put them up on tube sites and wait for the attention and publicity to ensue (maybe someone will make her an offer if she generates a strong following?).

    She says she either wants to go for it full on straight away or not at all. One company is shooting an interacial, mmf foot fetish scene in July which pays well and she has her eye on that at the moment. I've told her I don't think it's the best idea but she says if things start to go shit then she'll just quit. It's not like we're desperate for money. I'm not quite sure she knows what she is getting herself in for shooting a scene like that, so I'm showing her some interacial mmf vids at the moment. She doesn't seem that bothered by them though.

    She's filled out a Brazzers application too (even though it wa probably a waste of time because it says you have to be from the US to apply). She started watching porn after buying me a Brazzers pass for my birthday, and really wants to fuck Kieran Lee apparently.

    She's still not 100% decided she's going to go through with it and I'm not convinced yet, but things are getting pretty advanced. Kind of exciting in a weird way!
     
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