My Girlfriend to become a pornstar!?!

[Sharpone]

I would hate to crush anyone's dreams, but as the director John Waters pointed out...nothing ever good happened to anyone because they became a porn star.

Those who worked in the industry in their youth can have a difficult time later in life, especially if you plan to have children and with future employment. Most people have 70+ years to live...may not want to limit yourself by what is done in the first 25.

Sorry this post sounds so negative.

 

[Lucypinderfan]

just as an update, she has stalled on this for a while. Didn't do the mmf scene in the end or any other for that matter. She was encouraged after seeing this interview recently though:

BBC - Newsbeat - Gemma Massey on life as a porn star

I'm still cool with her doing this, but she seems more interested in producing a series of porn films for women to enjoy at the moment. She'll act in the movies if we end up making them, but just going over the money and organisation process at the moment. I'll keep you posted if we choose to go ahead and make them.

 

[SheNeeds2Hands]

your cool with another guy/guys cumming on her face then go for it.

 

[Lucypinderfan]

yeah man, I'm cool with it. I'm kinda weird in that as long as I can see what she's doing with other guys I don't mind. I'd only get pissed of if she did something behind my back.

When I was at uni, me and a friend double teamed her and finished ourselves off by cumming on her face. She was covered in man goo and I loved it

 

[upone]

I have been out of the business so long that I probably don't have anything useful to offer; moreover, my experience has all been on the West Coast of the U.S.

If you decide to start with a web site, be certain to retain proprietary control, and whatever you do, don't sign up with Score. I agree with lutherblisset about business strategy.

 

[Uncutpete]

I'm going to be a bit hard-nosed here and not give you false encouragement.

Things may be different in the UK. Certainly the porn industry is smaller and less cannibalistic than the one in LA. That said, you and she should look at things long and carefully. Porn can be a turn on for the first period of time, but it slowly becomes a job. Then you are selling sex. It is very hard to maintain a healthy emotional mind doing that day after day... even harder if you have become just a worker-bee in the porn factory... because, although guys here throw the term around, there is certainly no guarantee that she will be a "star."

She may get some jobs, but consider the competition. Take some complete nude photos of her, not ones of her breasts or other body parts, real nude studies in good light with a good camera. Look at her carefully compared to 5 or so other UK porn actresses. Coldly, how does she compare? In the US, she is 10 to 15, maybe even 20 lbs (1 to 1 1/2 stone) heavier than many of the also very pretty new girls who start out each week. Only a tiny percentage of them become "stars," win AVN awards, actually make enough money to make a real living, and many of them end up self-medicating with various intoxicants. That is just the situation.

Actually, if she is interested in becoming a sex-worker, you and she might investigate the very busy (and fairly legal) escort/high-end prostitution industry in the UK. She could give sex-for-money a try, have some adventure, and not have a lifelong record of herself in porn, digitally preserved. If she really liked it, and got great response and wanted to make it a career, she could move into porn (but I'd still suggest losing some weight.).

 

[D_Sal_Manilla]

Hey guys and girls,

So I have been chatting with my long term girlfriend this evening (see my photo album) and she is starting to seriously consider a career switch to porn.

We have always half-heartedly talked about it as I have always said she would be an amazing pornstar but now it is becoming serious.

We've always been very sexually experimental and open to new things and have made plenty of 'home movies'. Her present career hasn't really kicked off and she wants to do something she will enjoy while she is still young. I would quite like to join her, but I'm doing ok in a corporate job I like and I wouldn't want to risk throwing it away.

Before you ask, I'm pretty open about her being with other guys as long as there are no secrets. To be fair, part of me quite enjoys watching her.

She has always liked being watched when having sex or getting naked, and lets me show people phone videos of her giving me head and lets me put pictures on here. I think some of the nice pic comments have given her that final bit of confidence to take this on.

She wants to try a couple of boy/girl and boy/boy/girl scenes to start off. I'm cool with it, but I'm a bit worried about what our families will say. What do you think?

LPF

well this is interesting.... this is definitely something you don't want to bring up at the next thanksgiving dinner. lol

 

[D_Phil_LaShio]

Start your own Website. It makes the best sense by far. Find some other local sites, get in touch with them and ask them who they use to shoot, and edit their video, and who designs their web page. She said she wants to go all in or not at all. Then spend a couple grand and you'll be able to hire a proffesional DP (Director of Photography for those of you with your minds in the gutter) with a proffesional camera, and lights. Hire some 'talent' to go 'full on' with and shoot a handful of different scenes. Then get a web designer to build you a site. The most expensive part will be paying for a lawyer to make sure you have the right paperwork prooving exclusive ownership of the content. Because you want to make sure that in 10 years if you decide to have children you have the right to delete everything from your site (there might be rips floating around the Internet still though).

Shop your site around to others who offer 'package' deals, and find other locals with porn sites to get yours added to their links page. Maybe feature some of them in your videos as well. It'll pay itself off PRETTY MUCH guaranteed. Judging by how much you make, how fast, and how many visitors you get, you can go from there. Just because you're not signed by Digital Playground or Vivid doesn't mean you aren't going Full On. You just don't have a contract or an obligation to make 3 more movies even if though you've changed your mind. In my opinion that's the way to do it. Plus I'm sure you'll have a few supporters here on LPSG who will join the site and spread the good word for you!

 

[rtg]

You say that you aren't swingers and have only seen her have sex with another person once, who was your mate. It will be different if she is fucking stacks of random guys who you or she does not know. I suggest that you and her swing for a bit before making such a massive decision...

 

[girthking]

Talking from experience as a male who dabbled in the porn industry. The problem is the disappointment/embarrasment it causes parents, brothers, sisters, aunties etc etc. Friends may think its cool.

But, when your known as the biggest cock slut around town. It affects everyone close to you and may upset alot of people especially your parents. Also, there aint no money in it any more for most girls, once you have done a dozen scenes and aren't fresh meat.

look at bgafd forums

 

[Thirdlegproduction]

Last year I heard something I didn't know but most high end porn actors are just really expensive prostitutes and the porn videos are just a marketingtool to increase your reputation.

 

[girthking]

Well, as far as straight males in the porn industry many do escorting and usually get one or two jobs a month if they are well known, and its the husbands who hire them to fuck the wife in front of them. The wife usually doesn't want to do it.

The women do it every week and like the guys, there is a risk of getting beat up, taken advantage of. One guy who escorts said he was eating this womens pussy. Then her husband jumped on him and put his dick up him. Essentially rape.

 

[Lucypinderfan]

Not posted on this thread for a while so thought I should as a couple of people have messaged me to ask what's going on.

Unfortunately it's not a massively exciting update in terms of her shooting some porn. We have had a kid together which pretty much killed all our plans for her to do porn overnight. To be honest, now we are parents I can't see her ever getting involved with porn as she wouldn't want our kid to see it and her body (while still really nice) isn't quite what it was before and she's lost confidence.

It's a shame, but we just have different priorities now. I've taken her pics down recently, but I plan to make a new album soon. I'm trying to convince her to let me and another guy double team her in our private life and maybe take some homemade sex pics for lpsg, but that's as far as we will go now I think. Ill create a new thread when I've posted the new pics.

Thanks for all your support!

 

[phantasm2012]

Not posted on this thread for a while so thought I should as a couple of people have messaged me to ask what's going on.

Unfortunately it's not a massively exciting update in terms of her shooting some porn. We have had a kid together which pretty much killed all our plans for her to do porn overnight. To be honest, now we are parents I can't see her ever getting involved with porn as she wouldn't want our kid to see it and her body (while still really nice) isn't quite what it was before and she's lost confidence.

It's a shame, but we just have different priorities now. I've taken her pics down recently, but I plan to make a new album soon. I'm trying to convince her to let me and another guy double team her in our private life and maybe take some homemade sex pics for lpsg, but that's as far as we will go now I think. Ill create a new thread when I've posted the new pics.

Thanks for all your support!

The kid yours?