My girlfriend wont let me do anal

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  1. youngstud

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    Awhile ago she tried telling me she did it an she didnt like it or it hurt then i found out she never tried it, so we night we both got kinda drunk an she was down and I got everything all lubed up and I got my head in her an then she was saying it wasnt feeling good or something and never wants to try it again but I want to. Anyone have any advice on maybe how I can convince her? haha
     
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    why would you want to in the first place...?

    the vagina is much nicer..
     
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    cause its something different and sweet, an she doesnt like sex in the vagina that much cause it hurts to much, and Ive never had anal so Im just curious!
     
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    I have a very tight vagina, anal is even more difficult. If she doesnt want to do it you will have to curb your curiosity about it. If if hurt to take a big shit everytime you had to, would you feel relaxed next time you went?
     
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    trust me, you arnt missing anything but a smelly dick lol...

    if her vagina hurts when you fuck her, im assuming you are hinting your dick is "too big"... just use lube, work up to it, g et her excited...theres no reason you cant have nomal vaginal sex you arrnt THAT big, she will get used to it dont worry, when girls are horny and wet they can take a big dick alot easier, try some foreplay, any girl will be in a bit of pain if you just walk in the door, sit down, take her pants off and try to shove a big dick in her, you gotta get em warmed up first
     
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    She has to relax and be very calm, if she gets nervous, the back door will get tight and it will hurt her a lot.
     
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    dude just do this as soon as your about to go. jam it in there and punch her in the back of the head .she will tighten her hole and its like fucking a virgin. then u can yell im rick james bitch .Or u can say don't let me and i just take it. course she will probably break up with U. But next one u get just make sure she wants to try anal
     
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    hahahahaha thats good shit right there
    funny thing ive heard about the punching a chick in the back of the head while fuckign her doggystyle thing, lol.... friend of mine was jokin about it
     
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    haha that is funny, yea thats probably the next best way to break up with her eh
     
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    Don't - it's her choice - her prerogative. Leave it at that.

    :smile:
     
  11. ManlyBanisters

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    Yeah - and when she turns around and calls the police on your sorry ass you can have a big ol' giggle about it with some bubbas down in the cells.

    Heheheheeeeeheheeheee - I love a good giggle me! :rolleyes:
     
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    If your girlfriend don't want it up her bum you should buy one of those strap on things and let her do you up the arse, then she will see how much fun it can be.
     
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    Let your girl screw you up the ass with a strap-on. Hey fair is fair ya know :tongue:

    OH the good ole donkey punch :biggrin1: Might as well just ask her for a blumpkin:cool:
     
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    Yes buy a big strap on and let her pound you.Once she see's how much fun you are having she'll want it too!
     
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    hahaha Bravo! Smart and hung what a stunning combo you are COTD. :wink: :cool:

    Do you actually know what you are doing down there? :confused: Cause I have my doubts. You need to make her orgasm via cunnilingus first then try putting your dick in her pussy. Also make sure to use lube even if she is already very wet.

    If you can't fit in her vagina you sure as hell aren't getting in her ass. Also just because you see something like anal sex in porn doesn't mean you have to do it in real life. :rolleyes: :duh:
     
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    I agree with everything above...

    That being said, I still want to try anal with my woman lol!

    She said her ex-boyfriend used to do it with her and she "didn't like it," so I put it out of my mind and never mentioned it again. Then recently she has started bringing it up again, and when she was on her period one time, she was talking about it as an alternative to fucking, since she was all bloody and didn't want to make a mess. I was drunk and when she mentioned it I was all about it, since I just really wanted to fuck, and she said something like "well you would have to lick my butthole first..." :eek: I almost died! I said I would if it was clean but then she kinda backed down and blew me instead. (Can't complain there right?:cool:)

    One time she wanted to try and put a finger in my butt, so I let her. Turns out I didn't really like it, but it's just one more hint that she's maybe not-so-secretly interested in anal sex.

    My personal opinion: Due to the difference in cock-size, she thought taking me anally would hurt too much, as opposed to the previous boyfriend which kinda felt good to her. Now she's starting to get curious about it trying it again, especially since some of our friends (in candid drunk moments) have admitted how much they like it.

    I believe it could be really fun,(for me at least:biggrin1:), but I'm not obsessed with it and I'm not going to pressure her about it...I guess we'll see what happens!
     
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    If anal is something your really interested in trying, then you have to build her up for it. My ex used to start out slow by giving me a lot of foreplay then using his fingers until I was relaxed enough to take him. By the end (hehe) I was practially begging him to do me. The key was patience and lots of lube. Good Luck!!
     
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    Yeah you need to be patient, you can't just stick it in, especially if you're big, but even if you're average or smaller.

    Maybe try rimming her so she feels how good a bit of anal stimulation is, maybe start on her pussy and then move down and give her a surprise? It'll also get her horny and relaxed hopefully. Then try fingering her gently with lots of lube. I think you'll have to work up to it for quite a few times. My bf hadn't taken anal and it was quite a while before we worked up to doing it full on.

    But I think you'll definitely think it's worth it in the end!
     
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    Vaginal or anal, if she is tight at both ends she is like my wife. My wife dilates her vagina and ass and we can have full blown intercourse as long as its anal. She is still dilating her vagina but we can only get about half of my 7" in if I go slowly and give her time to adjust, she gets off with a vibrator and we move on to anal sex and I can thrust for a half hour or more.

    The way:
    Relaxation
    Lubrication
    Vibration
    Dilation
     
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    I guess you'll have to oblige her ruling on this one or weigh your alternatives & those consequences.
     
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