As some of you know, I'm currently involved in a long term three way relationship, with a male and a female. I hesitate to call it a threesome, because of the "purely sexual" connotation that goes along with the word. We are bisexual, of course. Both of them are great. Apart from the sexual experience, I really do love them both, and I think being with a male and female is a bonus, because their different personalities complete the relationship. Over the past few days, I've begun to worry about whether or not my girlfriend is as happy as she could be with someone. One of my neighbors is the daughter of a very rich businessman. She's young, attractive, and has a tendency to walk by and hang out around the very large windows of her apartment in the nude. I've seen my girlfriend watching her more than once. It's a reminder, for me, that while my boyfriend and I have both a male and female counterpart, my girlfriend has a relationship with two males, and it makes me uneasy. I'm not worried about her feeling dominated by two male personalities (trust me, she's more of a man than I), but I wonder whether she's fully satisfied by the situation. The problem is complicated by the fact that she's been taken advantage of many times (she was a fashion model, so that goes without saying), and most of her sexual experiences have been flings. She's only had two serious relationships, including this one, and the previous one was with another woman. I believe her fully when she says she's pretty much equally attracted to both sexes, so I'm not worried about her leaning towards becoming a lesbian (trust me, it's not going to happen), but I am worried about the lack of balance she gets in having a relationship with two guys (if I really count as a guy). I suppose talking about this on here is futile, because it's all speculation (she hasn't even hinted at anything, so I just be paranoid and/or protective), and our romantic situation isn't one that conforms to many relationship tips. I want to talk to her about it, but I don't know how, and I've failed to do it once already. I'd appreciate any comments you have.