My girlfriends love of all things huge

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Memememe, Mar 6, 2007.

  1. Memememe

    Memememe New Member

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    Apologies for the long posting but....

    Have been going out with my girlfriend for 9 months and established very early on that she was an incredibly "sexual" woman...she absolutely loves sex, kinda to the point of addiction.

    Prior to going out with me I was aware that she had been incredibly sexually active and had lots of partners/lovers but she saw me as the one to steady her and settle down with - I suppose its not good for ones mental and also sexual health to continue such a promiscuous sexual lifestyle. I was more than happy to provide the steadiness because she was and still is absolutely gorgeous + I find her openness incredibly exciting.

    One night we started to talk about our fantasies and also what we'd done in our previous sexual lives. We took each other through what we liked and didn’t like (she is bi) and both got really turned on by it. I then brought up the penis size question, not in order to make me feel inadequate (I am 6.5 inches) but because I found it exciting - she enjoys sex so much and had had enough previous sexual partners that I knew she would have experienced a larger man.

    She didn’t want to answer at first (which I can understand why) but upon pressing it turned out that she had been with some huge guys, that the sex was absolutely amazing and it was her number 1 fantasy i.e. she liked fantasizing about fucking a guy with a huge penis. Rather than be offended or feel inadequate I actually got really turned on by it, and when I mean turned on, I mean turned on - I asked her to talk me through previous encounters and why/what she liked about it so much...the excitement when first realising someone was big, getting it out for the first time, sucking on it, going down on it and then the guy cumming on her. All these things got us both incredibly excited and we had our best 24 hours of sex ever talking about it and what she had experienced/fantasized about and me asking questions. Our porn collection changed over night and we continue to have the most mind expanding sex (in the sense that I think sex is amazing if you can stimulate the mind as well as the body).

    We both adore each other but our relationship has gone purely sexual rather than being a "partner for life" so we've both agreed that we'd like to push the sexual boundaries to the max and fulfil our sexual fantasies i.e. for her to have sex with a guy with a huge penis and do one of the following (a) us to take part in a 3 some (b) me to be in the room watching them at it or (c) be in the next door room i.e. make out I am a flat mate rather than partner and listen to them. She is up for it if I am and we are both in agreement that we want to do it. My fear is that she will bring someone back who isn’t "big" (my fantasy is that they have to be big) so she's said she will get in touch with a guy from her past who was the biggest she'd ever had and ask him out for a drink – I am happy with this as it means they will be big.

    I am sorry for writing such a long diatribe about this but I am interested in your thoughts on many things.

    For the big guys out there - do you hear of this kind of thing very often? Have you had a 3 some with another couple? Has someone else watched you having sex? Would you be up?

    For other people - does anyone else have this fantasy? Or actually had a 3some with someone that’s huge? What are your thoughts on it?

    I look forward to hearing your responses:smile:
     
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    And some females/girlfriends also love large wallets and/or bank accounts.

    Unless you measure up for the long term, you may be on the way out in this relationship.
     
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    Hung, the wisest advice an experienced man could ever give. You get ***** stars for that one. It is so true in this day and age.
     
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    99.9% sure that this story belongs in the fiction room.

    Just another dude with the typical "I wonder what it would be like to see my girlfriend totally wrecked by a large dick" fantasy.

    Yawn.
     
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    crap alert crap alert
     
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    This is fact I'm afraid, I will accept that it is a fantasy of ours but one that can be made into a reality and I put it in this section because it is about a relationship I'm having with my girlfriend and how we are about to experiment
     
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    All i'm interested in is whether people (a) have same kind of desires/urges as this? and (b) have ever taken part in something like it? I am asking for advice as I'm sure it must have happened to a few of you.
     
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    i've never had an experience but i think a couple might be coming up to see me this weekend for a threesome. i guess i'd be their "big dick." i'm not sure if it is actually going to happen, but i'll keep ya posted
     
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    I'm not sure why people think its false. Even if it is, I think its a common enough fantasy where couples do engage in such behavior, so maybe someone else reading can learn something from it. I myself think it is incredibly erotic. Fantasizing about my boo with another bigger, better, cock is SO fucking hot. Just hearing her tell me about it when I am fucking her stimulates my mind so hard that sex is almost unbearable it feels so good. Memememememe is right, stimulating the mind is ten times as powerful as stimulating the cock.
     
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    Please do let me know how it goes
     
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    I know I said it in the first place but I couldnt agree with your statment more. Plus my g/f and I are actively looking to take the mind games to the next level i.e. make them a reality. I have to say I am incredibly excited about it, as is she.
     
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    I think the "IDEA" of my wife fucking a large-dicked man (who, for her, would need to be black and with big hanging nuts) is incredibly exciting. We use this in our sex talk and in our choice of porn. BUT, while talk is fun and pushes us to the edge (and, after msny years of monogamous married sex and 5 years of dating monogamously...we've been only with each other), we stay in the realm of fantasy and the mind. It's enough for me to see my wife come when I push the discussion to her being penetrated by, sucking on, and being dp-ed by large black studs. It has certainly kept our sex life exciting considering the about facts and that we're in our late 50's. I say don't "keep it real", just take advantage of the talk, the fun, and the fantasy of it all. It's worked for us for over 30 years!
     
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    Even the posts?
    Sorry but im too lazy to read all that but since you are writing on LPSG i think that you are right about your girlfriend.
     
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    My wife and I did experiment with this in our first five years of being together. My initial interest came about when a previous gf told me about her last bf, that he was super-thick. She said she was "shocked" when she first saw his cock, didn't know they could get that big, and admitted she had "begged him for it" because she wanted it so much. (After being very aloof with me!)

    This led me to ask my new gf (now my wife) about her past lovers' cock sizes. The one she had left for me had 11". I saw him in the college locker room so I knew she wasn't making it up. I persuaded her to explore having him join us, but once we both met with him, I could see why she had dumped him! I was repulsed by his personality and couldn't follow through with anything erotic.

    About a year later, though, we did meet someone who was perfect for us. Not as huge, but pretty big. The important thing was he was very compatible with both of us. His personality was just right. He was totally uninhibited and equally attracted to both of us. Like you, I had thought all I wanted was to watch or have a third leg there with my gf. But once we were into it and he was so bi, I was glad to try direct contact.

    I also wrote a fiction story which drew upon my real experiences and embellished them. I don't know if you can search and find it by looking up my past posts, but you might be able to.

    I should say, part of the reason we stopped trying to have a 3rd person was that it gets tricky and complicated to have a real relationship with them--it's hard enough to find ONE person you get along with that well and continue to have it work out with on any ongoing basis. The other was fear of disease. Yuch! Even if you don't die of AIDS, there are all kinds of other serious illnesses you can contract. We don't regret our youthful adventures, but you have to be quite careful and weigh the value of the whole thing to you. What was the old skateboard slogan, "Don't die wondering"? I still wonder what it would have been like to find a really, REALLY hung suck-buddy, which never materialized for me despite a few years of trying to find someone. That was pre-Internet, but I still doubt I would have fulfilled it even with the benefit of the 'net. Size alone was never enough to get me to do it, turned down a couple of huge hung guys for various reasons....

    But...DO enjoy the fantasy with her! As well as cautious efforts to fulfill it. Remember what Mr. Spock said:
    "It is not logical, but you may find that oftentimes the having of a thing is not as enjoyable as the wanting of it." (paraphrased from the "Amok" episode)
     
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    Here's the correct quote from the 1967 episode of Star Trek, "Amok Time":

    Spock: You may find that having is not so nearly pleasing a thing as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.
     
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    I've had three-way experiences... both good and not so good.
    Be Safe, Be Careful, & Enjoy!:wink:
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  17. flyingtexasguy

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    like meme and skull, i too would find a detailed description by my wife of large cock experiences very exciting. i always liked women talking graphically about sex, but once she volunteered the size of her ex bf (10.5 - yes, she measured it) without me asking, then this has become a bit of a fetish for me. hopefully one night after a few too many martinis, i'll get her to dish the details. now i would never include anyone in my relationship, this is not something i would want to relive in real life. dirty talk = good, stable marriage = priceless. (the closest i came to this was one night she was tipsy, and i got her to look at guys on a website called floppydicks.com. unfortunately no sexy talk ensued....sigh)

    i work predominantly with women, so it's not uncommon for them to discuss size when talking about men. a few times i've tried to get them to talk about large boyfriends, but it usually goes nowhere. i don't want to come across as creepy, so i let the subject drop. i suppose if i weren't so cheap, i'd call some phone sex number to get it out of my system! lol.

    cheers,
    flytxguy
     
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