Apologies for the long posting but....
Have been going out with my girlfriend for 9 months and established very early on that she was an incredibly "sexual" woman...she absolutely loves sex, kinda to the point of addiction.
Prior to going out with me I was aware that she had been incredibly sexually active and had lots of partners/lovers but she saw me as the one to steady her and settle down with - I suppose its not good for ones mental and also sexual health to continue such a promiscuous sexual lifestyle. I was more than happy to provide the steadiness because she was and still is absolutely gorgeous + I find her openness incredibly exciting.
One night we started to talk about our fantasies and also what we'd done in our previous sexual lives. We took each other through what we liked and didnt like (she is bi) and both got really turned on by it. I then brought up the penis size question, not in order to make me feel inadequate (I am 6.5 inches) but because I found it exciting - she enjoys sex so much and had had enough previous sexual partners that I knew she would have experienced a larger man.
She didnt want to answer at first (which I can understand why) but upon pressing it turned out that she had been with some huge guys, that the sex was absolutely amazing and it was her number 1 fantasy i.e. she liked fantasizing about fucking a guy with a huge penis. Rather than be offended or feel inadequate I actually got really turned on by it, and when I mean turned on, I mean turned on - I asked her to talk me through previous encounters and why/what she liked about it so much...the excitement when first realising someone was big, getting it out for the first time, sucking on it, going down on it and then the guy cumming on her. All these things got us both incredibly excited and we had our best 24 hours of sex ever talking about it and what she had experienced/fantasized about and me asking questions. Our porn collection changed over night and we continue to have the most mind expanding sex (in the sense that I think sex is amazing if you can stimulate the mind as well as the body).
We both adore each other but our relationship has gone purely sexual rather than being a "partner for life" so we've both agreed that we'd like to push the sexual boundaries to the max and fulfil our sexual fantasies i.e. for her to have sex with a guy with a huge penis and do one of the following (a) us to take part in a 3 some (b) me to be in the room watching them at it or (c) be in the next door room i.e. make out I am a flat mate rather than partner and listen to them. She is up for it if I am and we are both in agreement that we want to do it. My fear is that she will bring someone back who isnt "big" (my fantasy is that they have to be big) so she's said she will get in touch with a guy from her past who was the biggest she'd ever had and ask him out for a drink I am happy with this as it means they will be big.
I am sorry for writing such a long diatribe about this but I am interested in your thoughts on many things.
For the big guys out there - do you hear of this kind of thing very often? Have you had a 3 some with another couple? Has someone else watched you having sex? Would you be up?
For other people - does anyone else have this fantasy? Or actually had a 3some with someone thats huge? What are your thoughts on it?
I look forward to hearing your responses:smile:
Have been going out with my girlfriend for 9 months and established very early on that she was an incredibly "sexual" woman...she absolutely loves sex, kinda to the point of addiction.
Prior to going out with me I was aware that she had been incredibly sexually active and had lots of partners/lovers but she saw me as the one to steady her and settle down with - I suppose its not good for ones mental and also sexual health to continue such a promiscuous sexual lifestyle. I was more than happy to provide the steadiness because she was and still is absolutely gorgeous + I find her openness incredibly exciting.
One night we started to talk about our fantasies and also what we'd done in our previous sexual lives. We took each other through what we liked and didnt like (she is bi) and both got really turned on by it. I then brought up the penis size question, not in order to make me feel inadequate (I am 6.5 inches) but because I found it exciting - she enjoys sex so much and had had enough previous sexual partners that I knew she would have experienced a larger man.
She didnt want to answer at first (which I can understand why) but upon pressing it turned out that she had been with some huge guys, that the sex was absolutely amazing and it was her number 1 fantasy i.e. she liked fantasizing about fucking a guy with a huge penis. Rather than be offended or feel inadequate I actually got really turned on by it, and when I mean turned on, I mean turned on - I asked her to talk me through previous encounters and why/what she liked about it so much...the excitement when first realising someone was big, getting it out for the first time, sucking on it, going down on it and then the guy cumming on her. All these things got us both incredibly excited and we had our best 24 hours of sex ever talking about it and what she had experienced/fantasized about and me asking questions. Our porn collection changed over night and we continue to have the most mind expanding sex (in the sense that I think sex is amazing if you can stimulate the mind as well as the body).
We both adore each other but our relationship has gone purely sexual rather than being a "partner for life" so we've both agreed that we'd like to push the sexual boundaries to the max and fulfil our sexual fantasies i.e. for her to have sex with a guy with a huge penis and do one of the following (a) us to take part in a 3 some (b) me to be in the room watching them at it or (c) be in the next door room i.e. make out I am a flat mate rather than partner and listen to them. She is up for it if I am and we are both in agreement that we want to do it. My fear is that she will bring someone back who isnt "big" (my fantasy is that they have to be big) so she's said she will get in touch with a guy from her past who was the biggest she'd ever had and ask him out for a drink I am happy with this as it means they will be big.
I am sorry for writing such a long diatribe about this but I am interested in your thoughts on many things.
For the big guys out there - do you hear of this kind of thing very often? Have you had a 3 some with another couple? Has someone else watched you having sex? Would you be up?
For other people - does anyone else have this fantasy? Or actually had a 3some with someone thats huge? What are your thoughts on it?
I look forward to hearing your responses:smile: