My Hook Up Partner Just Had A Baby

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I've been hooking up with this guy and he literally messaged me about fucking last night. Then I go onto his page this afternoon and see that his girlfriend just had their baby this morning! I am laughing so hard because 1. I didn't even know he had a girlfriend, nonetheless that she was pregnant. 2. Why is he even texting me when he's about to have a child?

I'm not sure how long until he texts me back, but honestly I don't want any part of it. If you were in this situation, what would you do?
 
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This made me raise an eye-brow.

I'd just text him to congratulate him with becoming a dad.
And I'd make up my mind, do I want this man as a sexual partner for hook-ups.

If you were hoping for something more, romantically and/or for the long term you definitely might want to stop the affair.
There's more fish in the sea.
 

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Sounds your mate has compartimentialzed sex and you may be viewing from a more integrated mindset. Nothing wrong with either IMO, men and women tend to use different logic lines when the limbo comes into play.

If he is the kind of guy that does it for you, get your jollies off and enjoy. The number of future occurances may be numbered with the new baby eating into his free time.
 

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A lot of "str8" and married guys play on the DL. This is especially true if you are in the Bible Belt of the American southeast. I take care of a lot of guys like that so they can satisfy their need for male on male intimacy and still carry off the warped social expectations about marriage, sex and society, that are forced upon them, all of which are unrealistic and largely unscientific. He's a hookup bud, enjoy the pleasure, enjoy the ride and know that is all it is meant to be: good sex between two horny males.
 
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I've been hooking up with this guy and he literally messaged me about fucking last night. Then I go onto his page this afternoon and see that his girlfriend just had their baby this morning! I am laughing so hard because 1. I didn't even know he had a girlfriend, nonetheless that she was pregnant. 2. Why is he even texting me when he's about to have a child?

I'm not sure how long until he texts me back, but honestly I don't want any part of it. If you were in this situation, what would you do?

it sounds like you have morals unlike some of the other people commenting.
Personally I’d move on and tell him to take care of his Mrs and new baby.
 

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A lot of "str8" and married guys play on the DL. This is especially true if you are in the Bible Belt of the American southeast. I take care of a lot of guys like that so they can satisfy their need for male on male intimacy and still carry off the warped social expectations about marriage, sex and society, that are forced upon them, all of which are unrealistic and largely unscientific. He's a hookup bud, enjoy the pleasure, enjoy the ride and know that is all it is meant to be: good sex between two horny males.
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Stop making excuses for straight men.

just say you enjoy having what women have and go.
 

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This made me raise an eye-brow.

I'd just text him to congratulate him with becoming a dad.
And I'd make up my mind, do I want this man as a sexual partner for hook-ups.

If you were hoping for something more, romantically and/or for the long term you definitely might want to stop the affair.
There's more fish in the sea.

Yeah, I would send him a "Congratulations" and a goodbye.

I regularly service a "straight" guy, but his kids are older and his wife is frigid.

Reminds me of a redneck carpenter I used to work with. His girlfriend would frequently show up with lunch so I knew her (low class bitch). He loved to tell the story about how they were fucking in a motel while his wife was giving birth to his son. I couldn't get away from that pack of low life's fast enough!
 
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...He loved to tell the story about how they were fucking in a motel while his wife was giving birth to his son. I couldn't get away from that pack of low life's fast enough!

That scenario seems to be somewhat familiar...
His nickname didn't happen to be "The Donald", did it?