There is a man who thinks he would like to be my husband if I can fulfil this very fantasy for him. He is especially interested in my gross expenditure of his money with the men I would be slutting around with. It's very important to him that I be very well dressed, and that I wear a very flashy wedding set on my left hand, even before we get married. Outside of this, he is a very sweet and vulnerable man. One I like very much and would like to date. The jury is out on the whole sleeping around part. Who knows?
Over the phone, tons of my clients have this fantasy. I'd say it's the second most popular request after corporal punnishment, and followed by forced feminization.
I don't think that automatically rejecting newbies, even suspicious ones is a good policy. People should be given the benefit of of the doubt. This is a support group. Err on the side of showing support, yesno? Worst case scenario, you gave some attention to someone who obviously really needs it. I think it especially unwise/unkind to reject a public post based on gramatical errors and poor spelling. Most people do not speak or write english well- especially those for whom it is a primary language. Just ask any college professor or TA. I'm damn' near a genius, but I can't spell worth a damn'. I even mispell words I know very well. Sometimes I catch my errors, sometimes, I do not.
jeanrose,
Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Communicate. Tell your husband what you are feeling and how much you love him. Don't assume that he knows how you feel. He's not as unusual as you might think. Do a google search for cuckhold. Read fiction stories and really accounts of people engaging in this fantasy. You may be able to come up with ideas for a compromise, things that will excite you both, and keep you from feeling unpleasantly. But the most important thing is to talk about how you feel with him. Good luck!
