My "issue"

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by missdee, Jul 7, 2009.

  1. missdee

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    Okay, here's my issue! (Not much of an "issue" in the "problem" sense... More to just explain why I'm here.)

    My boyfriend and I have always been really open to one another sexually, and I'm always able to discuss any problems or fantasies or anything like that with him. So the issue lately is that I've been getting kind of into the idea of guys with really big cocks. And the problem with that is that my boyfriend really isn't one of those guys.

    He's not threatened by it or anything, though, and he's actually encouraged me and has been exploring it with me. I'm not at the point where I'd fuck another guy, but we've been watching porn that focuses on this, and we've considered the idea of me getting on the webcam with someone to sort of test the waters, stuff like that. I don't really know where it's going to go, but it sounds like fun to me. And that's obviously why I'm here, where I can be surrounded by this idea!

    And if anyone here has ever explored something like this and has any tips or ideas, I'm all ears.
     
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    brace for 1,000 cam requests :p
     
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    I would try cam4.com
    or camfrog.com
     
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    Not threatened? I think it's in man's DNA to be threatened by men with bigger cocks, lol.
     
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    Checkout cuckolding fantasy threads (search on cuckold here or elsewhere online). If your hubby seems to be thinking you with a man that has a bigger cock is a cool idea it's not as uncommon as you might think.
     
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    sounds like yet another guy with penis envy, but as long as you both have fun, what the hell... there's really no advice or tips other than get your pretty face on a webcam and feast your eyes on what this site has to offer.

    -j
     
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    There are many ways to do this, some of which can be utilized here even since there is a cam section. Chat rooms like Yahoo work for some people, and others who want to pay / be paid go for more professional settings. I can only recommend that if you are going to be trading you find a place which is more "free" than not.
     
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    Sounds to me like a guy dealing with something he cant control.

    I was hella turned on when my ex told me about her sucking a 9 inch cock. IF a guy is happy his girl loves dick, he should not be worried about size differences. That's how I felt anyway.

    A nice big dildo might be a hot compromise.
     
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    Pretty lucky ex you had, a lot of guys would not take to the idea well.
     
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    Pandora's box? Btw what was in Pandora's box?
     
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    Wasn't it actually a jar? And then they accounted for the torment of mankind because hope got stuck beneath the lid? :tongue:
     
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    If you're both OK with it, then maybe exploring the topic in the way you've proposed is the best. At least that avenue lets you ease into things and affords the chance to see if the appeal wears off before you and your boyfriend get into anything really personal or serious. Heck, it might even spice up the intimacy between the two of you and stay that way.

    The flipside might entail the whole slippery-slope notion. One thing leads to another and then curiosity has effectively derailed an otherwise good relationship. If that's a possibility, and this interest of yours is just a new thing that will pass without leaving you forever curious or lustful... just let it slide?
     
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    My GF and I enjoy swinging and both of us like for the guys to have nice size cocks. We had a small bi swing party yesterday with a TV and four single guys. One of the guys had a nice 8-1/2 X 6 inch cock, the others, and me, had average size cocks. After all the guys gave my GF foreplay and oral until she came. Then we just all sucked and fucked for several hours. The guy with the big cock sucked me and then I got 69 with him and sucked his cock. I decided that I wanted him to do me so he did. After he cleaned up I sucked him until he was hard again, and then he and my GF got together for a while I did the TV. The other guys were doing each other and also playing with my GF.

    Basically, I like for my GF to have a good time: big cock, average cock, TV, or another gal. We have been doing this for seven years and it has strengthened our relationship. But, we only swing with others together.

    We feel that your unfulfilled interest in having sex with a big cock would be detrimental in the long run. And, sharing can really make it more fun!
     
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    I'm all for what anyone whats to do and however they want to define it. But it sounds to me like you basically had a gay sex party and your girl was the (luckily, early, beneficiary, put out of it by way of observing) bystander.
     
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    wow sounds pretty hot!
     
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    Has he tried using a slip-on penis extension? Not so much fun for him, but might help you fulfil your side of it to some degree, with him...
     
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    I agree that the webcam approach might be a good start, as long as the two of you can be totally candid about your feelings on the experience you could just let it lead you wherever it might go.

    You, Missdee, list your own orientation as 80/20. If your BF is equally flexible and open minded I would suggest that your best "in the flesh" meeting (if it ever goes that far) would be one where you are both active participants, to whatever degree your boyfriend would be comfortable. In other words I am in complete agreement with LibraLover that the "sharing" aspect is very rewarding. I've had a number of these encounters and the situation where all three parties were actively involved, were by far the most rewarding for all of us. The few encounters I've had where there was a cuckold or SPH issue with the couple were less than satisfactory, at least to my way of thinking, so I now try to avoid them.
     
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    am I the only one that realizes this is from 2009
     
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