My large penis and sex addiction

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  1. D_Turner Testicular

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    My girlfriend is at her wit's end because I am addicted to showing off my penis online and chatting with girls who love big cocks. Anyone have recommendations for me? When I get into "the zone" and start playing with girls online, it's like I just lose all control of my actions. My girlfriend is frustrated and I just don't know what to do.

    Oh, and hi everyone, I'm Bryan :smile:
     
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    at least she knows you do this, that seems a much better starting point than her not knowing! did you tell her, or did she find out?
     
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    Hey Bryan:) welcome... Like Matthi said...at least you aren't sneaking to do it. Reassure here it's just being an exhibitionist and that yah you're showing it to others...but it belongs to her. :)

    *now put up some pics and show it here :) heheheh
    girls on here too!!
     
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    she found me out a while back.. i go on these binges and then avoid playing online at all for a while. but no matter what i always end up seeking attention online and it can be pretty frustrating. i feel too guilty these days and usually end up telling her whenever i do it.

    i think posting pics here may defeat the purpose hehe.
     
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    well you'd be getting LOTS of exposure at one time... so you can say...i only did it once :) hehehehe
     
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    LOL. yeah, i guess. i imagine most folks who check out photos here are gay men though. i'm mostly straight, tend to only seek attention from women. i dunno.
     
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    attention is attention...a compliment is a compliment. :)
     
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    maybe i'll post tomorrow. when my girlfriend isn't around. LOL i feel kinda disgusting saying that.
     
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    Welcome and have fun.:smile:
     
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    "I'm not really a pervert I just play one one the internet."

    Welcome.
     
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    bdog -
    what if your girlfriend was camming her tits to every guy out there? would you enjoy that?
    that's great that you are into showing your cock off to whoever. but can you understand why your girlfriend might not be into? i mean, the time you spend showing off your cock online and getting all the attention there, couldn't that be time spent with getting the attention from your girlfriend?
     
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    :lmao:
     
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    Maybe you'll find this book interesting.

    Do you think it takes a particular mood, something to happen earlier in the day, or some other cue, that makes you want to go online and play?
     
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    yeah, rationally i know that the time i waste could be time spent doing things with/for her.. but sometimes the compulsion just comes over me and i lose control. maybe i need to go to sex addicts anonymous or something
     
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    You are definitely the butchest woman I've ever seen. OC you need HRT. Nice boobs tho. :biggrin1:
     
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    well i work from home, which doesn't help. i'm online all day working and often home alone. so i guess it's an escape from the boredom of work sometimes.
     
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    i think you should try showing it off to men, and try if it will end up the same way
     
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    Some random suggestions that come to mind:
    - If it interferes with work (but you're not ready/able/willing to let go yet), maybe you can try confining playing online to specific and restricted time slots. Make yourself promise that if you haven't snared a hot girl in 15 minutes, then you'll work for another hour. Don't check your messages until the hour is up. Then gradually extend the time you can go without.
    - Try to find out what underlying need, if any, your behavior reflects. Feeling guilty about wasting time and hurting your girl is reasonable, but feeling guilty about your own feelings is not productive. Can you think of some other activity that would.. tickle the same spot? Have your gf worship your cock? Something else?

    I would also make sure you try and communicate to her that you are concerned about your behavior and that you want to get to the bottom of it rather than push it away (this will make it likely to come back and maybe bite, in my experience!)

    Good luck!
     
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    thanks matthi, i appreciate it
     
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    welcome bdog...well dude from what i can tell you will fit in well around here, enjoy yourself.....also we are all not gay so do not fear on gallery, no one has been attacked lately.
     
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