My life is boring and depressing

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she proly needs a BIG in her life... you proly helped with her depression with your SMALL problem. (see how dumb this sounds?) i'm just using your logic from past posts

haha, that was well-played...

seriously though, if a woman told me that and was willing to share with me why, i would make one of two decisions: 1) try to help her or 2) get the fuck outta there. i'm a firm believer that you can't help anyone who won't help themselves no matter how hard you try.

how and why you are "content" with a woman like this is the real question here.
 

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Maybe she needs more Internet porn in her life. I noticed life got boring when I gave up Internet porn.

haha, that was well-played...

seriously though, if a woman told me that and was willing to share with me why, i would make one of two decisions: 1) try to help her or 2) get the fuck outta there. i'm a firm believer that you can't help anyone who won't help themselves no matter how hard you try.

how and why you are "content" with a woman like this is the real question here.

I'm sorry, I wasn't very clear. She told me that my life is boring and depressing. She seems happy with her life. She thinks I am nice, but boring.
 
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Not my words. I am actually pretty content right now.

This was said to me by a woman I'm dating.

No commentary. I just wanted to share it with you guys.

It's called a hint. She is dating you, she wants you to liven up her life. Get off your pussy and take the girl out do something exciting; then take her home throw on some porn and break out the jello & whip cream, eat her ass, make her bark like dog, fuck dude wake up
 

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I'm sorry, I wasn't very clear. She told me that my life is boring and depressing. She seems happy with her life. She thinks I am nice, but boring.
No, you weren't clear at all. It reads as if she said that her life was boring, etc.

And you are boring and depressing. For ten years you've droned on about your penis woes.

Add insane to that, as doing the same thing repeatedly but expecting a different result....

So, what are you going to do to change this?
 

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I like being bored, it's like feeling overfed.
My wife and I strive for boring. We've both had enough trouble in our lives and prior relationships to value a quite, peaceful boring existence.

But in wally's case, the addition of "depressing" to his girlfriend's description is a hint that she's looking for more.
 

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I'm sorry, I wasn't very clear. She told me that my life is boring and depressing. She seems happy with her life. She thinks I am nice, but boring.

ahhh... i thought it was her life... okay...

in that case, dump her and move on. any woman who has no respect for me doesn't deserve my time. women are supposed to compliment your life, not bring it down. unless your life is truly boring and depressing, she's not worth a moment of your time or energy.

i'll also put this in here as well (just in case)... at least consider if she's right? many times we get into a rut and not notice at all. usually it takes a person from the outside who has enough audacity to tell us the truth. not saying the OP is this case but have enough courage to look at yourself and also to admit that the problem is yourself (should it truly be). don't be so prideful or arrogant to ignore this.