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Hey all, for those following my blossoming friendship with the liquor rep Aaron, I decided to move it to a fresh thread. It was here if you need to get caught up. I felt like as it was listed in Homoerotic Behavior, my experience is starting to develop into something different. Additionally, I felt like I was hijacking that thread. So if you're new to this, going back and reading what I've previously talked about would be a good idea. Otherwise, here is the continuation:
Aaron came by the house on Tuesday night, at around 5:30. I answered the door nude as I did on Monday night. We did have a little wine, but neither of us wanted to get drunk like we did the night before, so the drinking was really moderate. Enough to grease the wheels a little, you could say. Haha!
Aaron pleasantly surprised me by taking his pants off almost immediately after arrival. He had underwear on, which were Hanes boxerbriefs in Navy Blue. He also took off his dress shirt and had on a white undershirt under that. So he lounged in his underwear! Baby steps are good!
I outright asked him if I could play with myself off and on. He said "By all means..." I mostly just fluffed and moved into edging a little more towards the end of the evening.
There isn't really much "new" to say about it. I didn't really find out more about his mindset, but I also don't think he really knows where his mindset is yet. I think it's confusing for him - and thus, me - because we're working on 2 different things. One being nudism and being comfortable in his own skin, and the other being his slight sexual curiosities. It's nice that we can sort of tackle both things at one time, but it also muddies the waters a bit in terms of not knowing where one ends and one begins.
Honestly at this point I think he's interested in nudism and learning how to feel comfortable with himself. As for sexuality, I believe him when he says that he doesn't think his curiosity is "that big". Meaning, I don't think he's looking to get his ass fucked or anything. LOL I think he just has a curiosity for a little bit of this and that, cool with seeing me jack off, maybe some handjob action.
While we were heading downstairs to smoke, I opened the door leading to the stairway and stood there to wave him through. He did grope my boner quickly, then apologized for not asking first. It was a "one and done" kind of grope. I told him he has a standing invitation to grab my dick at any time. He laughed, and it was fun to establish that but also in a humorous way.
For the most part, he just stayed in his underwear, while I was naked. He did work himself hard to show me his dick again, not letting me see it soft. I did ask if I could stroke his a little and he begged off. He felt bad for denying me, but I wasn't upset about it at all. He said something to the effect of, "Maybe soon? I'm just nervous." I told him both that there was nothing to be nervous about, but that I also respected that. It seemed odd to me at first that he'd be willing to grope me, but wouldn't want groped himself. At first I thought that maybe a straight/curious guy would rather have things done to him rather than grope another man's cock. However, he did say a few things about it, somewhat vaguely, which led me to think again. Him grabbing my dick is experimental to him, and a bit scientific considering my uncut status. For me to grab him makes him nervous because...well, in a nutshell, he might like it. He didn't say this outright, but I had to piece it together. And I could be wrong, but that's the impression that I got. That if I started to turn him on too much he might take it farther than he was ready to. Fair enough.
Basically the night ended with me jacking off all over myself again, while he watched me. He did sort of grope his package during it, but not to a huge degree. Ultimately, he remains really thankful that I'm being patient and allowing him to sort of call the shots. As I said before, I don't mind at all. If he stayed fully clothed and I just jacked off in front of him while naked, I'd be down for it. If he ends up fucking me in the ass, I'm good with that too! And everything in between. Haha!
My partner got home from his trip about an hour after Aaron left. I was honestly hoping that Aaron would still be there when J got home, but oh well. I did tell J all about it, and he thought it was hot. We had sex last night while we talked all about it.
I don't mean to toot my own horn about it, but I don't think Aaron could find a better person to do this with. I don't care about his dick size, I don't care about his body type. Yes I'm gay and would absolutely go all the way with him, but that's not my priority and I'm not in the habit of pushing guys to do something that makes them uncomfortable. I think a strict, straight nudist wouldn't be of much help, and I think a more aggressive gay guy would be too bold. Like I said, I'm just in it for the ride, and want to help him get to wherever he ends up getting to, you know?
I don't know how comfortable Aaron would be hanging out with both J and I at the same time. The plan now is for me to hang out with Aaron solo one more time at least, where I'll ask him if he's ready for that. My partner also isn't super into nudism. Because of that, and because of Aaron's nerves, I was thinking a sort of "3 man underwear party" could be in order. My partner's down for that, and I'll talk about it with Aaron. Maybe we just have Aaron over and stay dressed, and see where it goes from there. I haven't seen Aaron since he left on Tuesday night, but I'm sure we'll be texting or something soon.
Aaron came by the house on Tuesday night, at around 5:30. I answered the door nude as I did on Monday night. We did have a little wine, but neither of us wanted to get drunk like we did the night before, so the drinking was really moderate. Enough to grease the wheels a little, you could say. Haha!
Aaron pleasantly surprised me by taking his pants off almost immediately after arrival. He had underwear on, which were Hanes boxerbriefs in Navy Blue. He also took off his dress shirt and had on a white undershirt under that. So he lounged in his underwear! Baby steps are good!
I outright asked him if I could play with myself off and on. He said "By all means..." I mostly just fluffed and moved into edging a little more towards the end of the evening.
There isn't really much "new" to say about it. I didn't really find out more about his mindset, but I also don't think he really knows where his mindset is yet. I think it's confusing for him - and thus, me - because we're working on 2 different things. One being nudism and being comfortable in his own skin, and the other being his slight sexual curiosities. It's nice that we can sort of tackle both things at one time, but it also muddies the waters a bit in terms of not knowing where one ends and one begins.
Honestly at this point I think he's interested in nudism and learning how to feel comfortable with himself. As for sexuality, I believe him when he says that he doesn't think his curiosity is "that big". Meaning, I don't think he's looking to get his ass fucked or anything. LOL I think he just has a curiosity for a little bit of this and that, cool with seeing me jack off, maybe some handjob action.
While we were heading downstairs to smoke, I opened the door leading to the stairway and stood there to wave him through. He did grope my boner quickly, then apologized for not asking first. It was a "one and done" kind of grope. I told him he has a standing invitation to grab my dick at any time. He laughed, and it was fun to establish that but also in a humorous way.
For the most part, he just stayed in his underwear, while I was naked. He did work himself hard to show me his dick again, not letting me see it soft. I did ask if I could stroke his a little and he begged off. He felt bad for denying me, but I wasn't upset about it at all. He said something to the effect of, "Maybe soon? I'm just nervous." I told him both that there was nothing to be nervous about, but that I also respected that. It seemed odd to me at first that he'd be willing to grope me, but wouldn't want groped himself. At first I thought that maybe a straight/curious guy would rather have things done to him rather than grope another man's cock. However, he did say a few things about it, somewhat vaguely, which led me to think again. Him grabbing my dick is experimental to him, and a bit scientific considering my uncut status. For me to grab him makes him nervous because...well, in a nutshell, he might like it. He didn't say this outright, but I had to piece it together. And I could be wrong, but that's the impression that I got. That if I started to turn him on too much he might take it farther than he was ready to. Fair enough.
Basically the night ended with me jacking off all over myself again, while he watched me. He did sort of grope his package during it, but not to a huge degree. Ultimately, he remains really thankful that I'm being patient and allowing him to sort of call the shots. As I said before, I don't mind at all. If he stayed fully clothed and I just jacked off in front of him while naked, I'd be down for it. If he ends up fucking me in the ass, I'm good with that too! And everything in between. Haha!
My partner got home from his trip about an hour after Aaron left. I was honestly hoping that Aaron would still be there when J got home, but oh well. I did tell J all about it, and he thought it was hot. We had sex last night while we talked all about it.
I don't mean to toot my own horn about it, but I don't think Aaron could find a better person to do this with. I don't care about his dick size, I don't care about his body type. Yes I'm gay and would absolutely go all the way with him, but that's not my priority and I'm not in the habit of pushing guys to do something that makes them uncomfortable. I think a strict, straight nudist wouldn't be of much help, and I think a more aggressive gay guy would be too bold. Like I said, I'm just in it for the ride, and want to help him get to wherever he ends up getting to, you know?
I don't know how comfortable Aaron would be hanging out with both J and I at the same time. The plan now is for me to hang out with Aaron solo one more time at least, where I'll ask him if he's ready for that. My partner also isn't super into nudism. Because of that, and because of Aaron's nerves, I was thinking a sort of "3 man underwear party" could be in order. My partner's down for that, and I'll talk about it with Aaron. Maybe we just have Aaron over and stay dressed, and see where it goes from there. I haven't seen Aaron since he left on Tuesday night, but I'm sure we'll be texting or something soon.