the second my girl says please stop.. i say really, and if she says really, i pop off her in .4 seconds! sorry to hear that he is forcing you. there has been many times where she came first and i was left getting a hj, bj. or finishing myself off on her. so good luck
my man has a big member and sometimes doesn't come for a really long time..
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Like others have said, talk it out. I imagine he wants it to be pleasurable for you, too, and if isn't, then am sure you can both find ways to make him cum.
I'm definitely not a hung but I take forever to cum most times, and after long fuck sessions, usually end up having a gf finish me off with a bj, or with me stroking while she kisses me or rubs her body against mine, or if I'm lucky and have a sexy/open girl, rims me. I've always been this way, not trying to last longer and enjoy every second I'm inside a woman, just takes me a really long time to cum. Even with an average/smaller member, it can get uncomfortable.
I imagine your man is the same, and if he knows it's not feeling good for you, he'd be very open to finding alternative ways to get him to that final climax, as long as you're a part of it!
Best of luck! And let us know how it goes!
I'm definitely not a hung but I take forever to cum most times, and after long fuck sessions, usually end up having a gf finish me off with a bj, or with me stroking while she kisses me or rubs her body against mine, or if I'm lucky and have a sexy/open girl, rims me. I've always been this way, not trying to last longer and enjoy every second I'm inside a woman, just takes me a really long time to cum. Even with an average/smaller member, it can get uncomfortable.
I imagine your man is the same, and if he knows it's not feeling good for you, he'd be very open to finding alternative ways to get him to that final climax, as long as you're a part of it!
Best of luck! And let us know how it goes!
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Find Klixen videos and see how she masturbates guys. Bring him to the edge several times over a day or two and make it clear he is not to finish himself off. Then on the final day jerk him off until he can't stand it anymore and tell him to fuck you. If he doesn't cum....then I wonder if there is something really wrong with him.
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It's always possible we men get too used-to our own hand, and can't even substitute a fine pussy for our own grip; but not willing to admit that to ourselves, plow the whole field up searching for our rocks.
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Sweetie, you do have to tell him how you feel. And if he doesn't listen, well, he never will, so take that not as a hint but a blunt statement.
My husband is well-endowed and sometimes he just has to stop. Now, it's not often, mind you, but there are situations where I quit admiring his stamina and just ask "Really?" Well, I'm not that hard-assed about it, but sometimes I'm just a little sore and sound short.
And yes, the size does have a lot to do with it. I've had lovers who were nowhere near Cap's size and either I had more patience or they just didn't rub me raw.
And forget Viagra! Hoo boy, that's a whole other story. He'll get much harder and stay that way forever. Sounds like a dream come true, but let me tell you, it's not. Darling, if your diddy gets soft your tongue doesn't. Remember that! LOL!
Oh, and one last thing, I will always, and I mean always take care of him after I make him stop. That makes him stop much quicker!
My husband is well-endowed and sometimes he just has to stop. Now, it's not often, mind you, but there are situations where I quit admiring his stamina and just ask "Really?" Well, I'm not that hard-assed about it, but sometimes I'm just a little sore and sound short.
And yes, the size does have a lot to do with it. I've had lovers who were nowhere near Cap's size and either I had more patience or they just didn't rub me raw.
And forget Viagra! Hoo boy, that's a whole other story. He'll get much harder and stay that way forever. Sounds like a dream come true, but let me tell you, it's not. Darling, if your diddy gets soft your tongue doesn't. Remember that! LOL!
Oh, and one last thing, I will always, and I mean always take care of him after I make him stop. That makes him stop much quicker!
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I've had this problem with many women over the years. I dunno why, I have no trouble getting hard but find it very difficult to cum quickly. The problem may have been caused by bad masturbation technique from a young age (two hands and a tight grip that a pussy just can't match) and has been exacerbated by smoking and drinking over the years.
As is the way with these things, the slightest hint that she would like me to finish ASAP usually makes finishing at all unlikely. This problem can get worse if she takes your lack of ejaculation as some sort of criticism.
I have had some success with explaining to women that there is more to pleasure in fucking than a few seconds of ejaculation and I'm happy to stop.
Also, if I've been fucking for half an hour it's actually quite unlikely that if I keep going I'll cum. The best way for me seems to be to fuck for 20 minutes or so (slightly longer than ideal for my girlfriend who will probably cum 3-4 times in 20 minutes), lay down and enjoy that post-fuck super relaxed cuddle for maybe 10 minutes and then start up again. Sometimes I can cum in 5 minutes flat that way.
This works for me even though I'm the one initiating it. I imagine if a girl with your problem said "we need a rest", lied a guy on his front and insisted on nothing but a massage for ten minutes (but the kind of massage where you can feel a hot wet pussy in the small of your back...) followed by five minutes of sucking his cock to the hardest it can possibly get and a quick "now fuck me as hard as you can" might see him unloading in double quick time...
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Not necessarily. I can usually ejaculate/orgasm once a day. After my refractory phase is done, I'm in permahard mode.
Exactly.
And I normally have the same problem that 7X6 has, I could keep my ex wet as hell even after 45 minutes and 5,6 orgasms or more...yes it is possible, but her legs would start to cramp up, and the like. I found that rollingher over and going doggy style would finish me off in about 5 minutes or less.
My problem is that I have to take a pretty heavy narcotic for chronic back pain, which would make it even harder to cum. She is the only woman I've ever known that is just naturally wet all the time, even so, she would still complain of stinging when she would pee or wipe afterwards. Of course I had to find out about how she felt about it in a fight and by that time our marriage was pretty much done. We're still good freinds bu have just fallen out of love over the last few years. This has been a hard decade for the both of us. Oh well, atleast I know for my next girl freind.
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I have this same problem with girls I am with.. I am EXTREMELY girthy so it can be painful having sex for long periods of time.. and I am very active and have love sports and have very high endurance.. I think this is why I might have so much excess energy and want to have sex so long. The more sex I have the more I want.
look at it like this from the guys perspective -- most girls hate it when the guy just cums and jumps off after 5 minutes leaving them unsatisfied.. this is how it is for me as well and probably you guy, too.
If you really care about the person you will find some kind of compromise.. if not then maybe find some one new that you are more compatible with?
look at it like this from the guys perspective -- most girls hate it when the guy just cums and jumps off after 5 minutes leaving them unsatisfied.. this is how it is for me as well and probably you guy, too.
If you really care about the person you will find some kind of compromise.. if not then maybe find some one new that you are more compatible with?
Great point Brock about using lube Brock! I don't masturbate often (maybe 2 to 3 times a week) but never really use lube and things are too a point where it takes me too long too cum unless the girl really knows what to do (bj) or in very few positions (intercourse). Handjobs by someone else almost never do it for me.
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My guy is girthy and lasts long, so I definitely do finish ahead of him. If it starts to get sore or uncomfortable whether its the position or time, just finish him off with a HJ.
Communication is key and flirting it out is the best way in my opinion.
Communication is key and flirting it out is the best way in my opinion.
agree, tell him when it's over and he should pull out and give you his man blast on the chest or face before everyone is out of the mood.
I am long and thick and I can last for hours too. Thirty minutes is a short time for me also. It has always caused lots of grief for me in my relationships. My partners have almost aways asked me to "Please Stop". Also, they think that they are not able to please me. The whole time it is ecstacy and I am loving it. I just can't get over the edge of orgasm quick enough. I get tired masterbating and often give up.
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I am 33 and alot of times, if I do not get REALLY aroused before me and my girl go at it, it is hard for me to cum. We have went for an hour and it got to the point to where I was so de-sensitized, I was nearly numb. It feels REALLY good when were going at it, it's weird because there are times I can get to the point of cumming and it will just go away. This is VERY frustrating. It bothers me a little but it gets to her REALLY bad, she thinks it's something shes doing. Also, if she gets REALLY wet from foreplay, it's harder for me to get off also. I wish I could find a cream that made me more sensitive. We ALWAYS use a condom until we get married cause neither of us are in the posistion to have kids right now. Does anyone have any advice or know anything I/we can try to maybe alleviate this problem?
"my man has a big member and sometimes doesn't come for a really long time.."
that's funny. i have a short member and usually cum in about 5 seconds. which would you prefer?
(i'm kidding! i'm kidding!! honest i am)
that's funny. i have a short member and usually cum in about 5 seconds. which would you prefer?
(i'm kidding! i'm kidding!! honest i am)
- 7x6,
I know it might look like some of us are bragging but it can be a serious problem. I know for a fact that if I could cum in 3 minutes (5 seconds would be a little quick, even for her) my girlfriend would want to fuck every night as that's all she needs. The fact that I always last longer than she'd like puts her off sex, to the point where it only happens once every couple of weeks these days
I also think she would be just as happy with a small dick as long as it got rock hard, one time I made her come with a minute or so of rough finger-fucking up against a wall.
Should I be with a woman who needs hours of solid fucking and leave her to a man like you? Probably...
