My Man Wants To Use A Strap On (Women Reponses Only Please)
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Enjoyed is past tense. Must be something about you she wants more, present tense. You living in a past she has left behind is insecurity.
There are some that require a bit of help. My husband an I have done just that... it does help with use both spending sexual time together again. He and I do enjoy it. We have used the rideon from vixen.. however, the hole done the center does not do much for my husband. so, we fill the hole. Vixen has other dildo too. For my husband, we use rxsleeve.com and 100prosthetics.com products.
I actually enjoy my time and secretly (actually openly) need him to pleasure me one way or another now..
I actually enjoy my time and secretly (actually openly) need him to pleasure me one way or another now..
So I see this and I have to interject here , I'm an average size guy and I don't have any size hang ups but I do have a medical condition that has hurt my relacion ship and my marriage. I have diabetes and along with this wonderful disease comes ED "Erectile Dysfunction". In other words my peepee doesn't get up . I am 50 this year and I love sex but my body doesn't work with me and it's sad to say that I lost my wife due to it. Which shows how lame she was. But anyhow I often wondered about using toys in the bedroom to help things along but I see I still didn't pair up to a nice hard woody as it was before . I try not to let it get to me after all it want my choice to have this disease . What's your thoughts on that ?
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You let your wife leave you before you ever attempted to try sex toys to give her pleasure?
Never run into this before, but obviously communication is important and if it's something you're not comfortable with at all, then that should be communicated to him. At the same time, if it's something that may improve things between you, it's an option to consider. But I think it's important to know fully why he's interested in this (I know you touched upon it) and what it would do for you two if you proceed.
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This. Plus, controlling the diabetes cures the ED over time by assisting in the controlling of heart and vascular disease. Not controlling diabetes is a long series of unfortunate choices. Is the wife really gone over the limp dick, or is the wife gone over the low survival drive?
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@AlteredEgo nailed it with her first post in this thread (no pun intended).
I realise that the original poster asked only for female responses, but as this is an olllld-as-fuck thread anyway... I wanted to weigh in on the PE issue, since I really feel a male's perspective is actually more helpful on this specific issue, and someone else might Google this in the future:
Ladies, do not let your guys get interested in PE. There is never an occasion where it's necessary. If his penis is so teensy-tiny that sex with him is genuinely of insufficient enjoyment (we're talking borderline micropenis territory), then the 'gains' that he might make will be so negligible that it wouldn't be worth the risk of injuring himself. Try to convince him to be sensible. If you have less meat and skin to work with to start off, then there is just not much you can do to change that. You only get given one penis, and if you stress it with weights or start doing strange exercises, or pumping it in a fucking vacuum -- and something goes wrong -- you don't get given another one.
To the guy who resurrected this thread to talk about his ED -- have you tried taking L-Argenine supplements daily? Losing weight? Changing your diet? You may feel that you have tried all of the usual suggestions already, so forgive me if this seems condescending. You have my sympathy, although I'd suggest that the girls above have it correct once again that diabetes is generally a manageable condition, for most people, unless there are other medical issues in play.
I realise that the original poster asked only for female responses, but as this is an olllld-as-fuck thread anyway... I wanted to weigh in on the PE issue, since I really feel a male's perspective is actually more helpful on this specific issue, and someone else might Google this in the future:
Ladies, do not let your guys get interested in PE. There is never an occasion where it's necessary. If his penis is so teensy-tiny that sex with him is genuinely of insufficient enjoyment (we're talking borderline micropenis territory), then the 'gains' that he might make will be so negligible that it wouldn't be worth the risk of injuring himself. Try to convince him to be sensible. If you have less meat and skin to work with to start off, then there is just not much you can do to change that. You only get given one penis, and if you stress it with weights or start doing strange exercises, or pumping it in a fucking vacuum -- and something goes wrong -- you don't get given another one.
To the guy who resurrected this thread to talk about his ED -- have you tried taking L-Argenine supplements daily? Losing weight? Changing your diet? You may feel that you have tried all of the usual suggestions already, so forgive me if this seems condescending. You have my sympathy, although I'd suggest that the girls above have it correct once again that diabetes is generally a manageable condition, for most people, unless there are other medical issues in play.
I never thought I would be approaching 60 with everything in functioning order. So, I suppose that means I have more experience in looking back than looking forward. 
My suggestion is you go with your intuition, usually intuition leads you the in the right direction. It's when you ignore it you usually end up in the shit...
So, follow what your intuition says, if things go well, arse up...the only one you have to lay the blame is yourself. Do it, or don't do it, just think of the consequences if you do or don't.
My suggestion is you go with your intuition, usually intuition leads you the in the right direction. It's when you ignore it you usually end up in the shit...
So, follow what your intuition says, if things go well, arse up...the only one you have to lay the blame is yourself. Do it, or don't do it, just think of the consequences if you do or don't.
Oh yeah............what would it be without the.............taken from the only movie ABBA made...
I will donate my sperm, no strings or elastic attached. And you can keep your panties on.....
Damn lemon invisibility So that's how the Klingons did it...Lemons? Cloak in Lemons ?"No responsibility taken for semen thingies which incur a high bred intelligent species"
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