my neighbors mocked us.

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My girlfriend and i were fucking and the woman neighbor above us
mocked my girlfriends sounds WAY louder than she was being...
to be honest, it scared me out of my groove.
She screamed pretty loud.

i built my bedroom so i can have rough sex without it sounding like i
am doing construction whilst fucking.
i am a considerate neighbor,i am never loud and i am pretty nice.
however i cannot control my girlfriends vocal range.
we used a gag one night and it was hot for me as i dig the way gags look
but not so hot for every night. ;) and to be honest i miss hearing her.

It took my gf about a year to be comfortable with our sex
and now that she learned how to like it...she gets made fun of.
so here i am back in the repressed state with her.
she is always tense about sex now,she says "i can't control it"
so she is just spending our sex time concentrating on silence
and trying to cum like a ninja.
any advice???
 

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Your GF wanting to cum silently sounds hot. I'm always dead silent during sex and it's hot. It allows awareness to expand and intensify sensations that usually escape consciousness. Her being silent during sex need not be 'repression'. It can allow her to focus awareness and use Tantric techniques to raise both of your sexual pleasure levels.

The point I'm trying to make is that she can take what she views as a negative and turn it around for expanding sexual pleasure beyond what you've both experienced so far.

And on the plus side...you can tell that nosy neighbor to stick to pleasuring her own c*nt instead of being jealous of someone else's.
 

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we aren't "wondering" what they are thinking.
we have a pretty good idea of what they are thinking.

but if we just "get thicker skin" it seems we will cause a disturbance.
they made that apparent.
i have actually thought the same "what is this high school?" 'fuck them".
however,the passive aggressive behaviour got more violent.

the womans husband/Bf whom also lives above us began
pounding on the railing of his balcony, early in the morning
when i say pounding i mean like a tempertantrum.
he would turn the faucets so the plumbing would squeak,and do it over
and over.
our sexlife pissed them off.
if we continue to fuck how we like....they jump on us.
it is wierd.
 

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Well they obviously aren't getting any.:rolleyes:

- - - - -

I'm serious. I'd move if I were you. Those neighbors of yours have invited themselves into your sex life. They don't belong there, and they aren't likely to leave.
 

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i hear ya serene but we want both worlds.
we are tantric and "in mind" for the first couple of orgasms of the session.

but after 2 we usually like to be more primal for the 3rd or 4th cum.
kind of like a "ok now we are gonna Fuck" and finish it with a bang.
we like it like that,but lately it has been stricly in mind and tense on top of it. :(
 

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my Gf says she does not want them to "win" lol.
i am with you hotmilf...i wanna move bad.
we can't move until february anyway. :(
 

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LOL -- well, that's three months of torture (until Feb.) :eek::rolleyes:

It's not a question of anyone "winning" -- there's no goal, and no prize. There's only a set of uncomfortable circumstances.

BTW, if you can get into one, houses are WAY better than apartments. You can be (almost) as noisy as you like.

Obviously, you're going to have to be quiet where you live right now (your neighbor's antics aren't going to change). So perhaps there are other locations were you could have un-muffled sex --

-- Friends go out of town = borrow their house/apt.
-- Throw a couple of blankets in the back of your car and commune with the great outdoors
-- Be teenagers again in the car.

Just don't do it in a library!!! :eek::eek::eek::wink::wink::wink:

Good luck.
 

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she says she doesn't want them to win
and i say they already did because she is tense now.
sadly you guys are right "moving" is the only option.:mad:
 
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Be like the neighbours in the fast show, Ride ALL the time - after a while theyl hav nothing to laugh about, will be too embarassed to bring it up and will try to avoid hearing it - cashback!
 

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Sound can be troublesome in an apt. I really side with tolerance of your neighbors and would try to make it work. I mean at least make sure the windows are closed and be repectful of sleeping hours. This is not about winning or losing...it is just finding about getting your needs met and keeping the peace.
 

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Your neighbors are assholes who are probably jealous they are not getting it like you! I had that done to me a few times and what we did was ignore them and kept enjoying eachother but maybe just a little louder! They soon got bored and figured we weren't going away!
 

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Your neighbors are assholes who are probably jealous they are not getting it like you! I had that done to me a few times and what we did was ignore them and kept enjoying eachother but maybe just a little louder! They soon got bored and figured we weren't going away!

agree...tell em to go f**k themselves (which is apparently what theys gotsuh do ANYwayz, BOIZE!!) :scool: (just being a little nutty tonite.)
 

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Your girlfriend is obviously in need of something thick and juicy to occupy her mouth while you are banging the bejesus out of her. Her annoying screams will be transformed into pleasant grunts, murmurs, and moans. Ask her to pick something out from the LPSG Gallery. :eek: