my new bf is huge... I want anal sex

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by claireweb, Jan 8, 2011.

  1. claireweb

    claireweb New Member

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    Hi all,

    I always enjoyed anal sex, but my new bf has a rather large and thick dick. I really want to try having anal sex with him, but I'm sure I wont be able to take it. An average cock always used to be fine, it took me quite a while to get used to it but after warming up I was able to take it all...
    Is there anything I can do to get my anus used to something bigger? Would practising with a big dildo or butt plug help? Or are some people just "wider" than others?

    Thanks for your help!
     
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    Just get large dildos and keep working with them and U will open up larger
     
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    Start with a tongue. Then 1 finger. Then 2 fingers. Then 3 fingers. Then 3 fingers with the other hand as well. Then start toying. Don't ignore your pussy either. And when you're really, really relaxed, it's time to try out that cock. Make sure you use your favorite lube and go from there. I have to be at least as thick as your bf and this is how I do it. Where there's a will, there's a way. :smile:
     
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    If you check 'her' previous threads you'll see people pointing out she's a fake.
     
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    I'll let you use my fat dick until you adjust....lol
     
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    Well, for those of you who are interested in knowing what to do if you have a need for anal, but the guy is larger than what you have experienced in the past, just remember a few things. Take your time, use lots of lube and don't be afraid to stop if it hurts too much to go on. You could always work up to it with butt plugs or dildos. I have found that if a girl has had a few orgasms along with a lot of finger play to her ass helps.
     
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    let me doyou in the butt
    that will make other guys getting in seem easy by comparisson :eek:)
    hope I can help
     
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    Claire, below is some links to earlier posts that I made on this subject. The posts tend to be directed to men, but I think you may find them helpful.



    I hope that some of this advice helps as you explore the wonders of anal sex with your big cocked boyfriend. Let us know how it goes.
     
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    Fake original poster or not, this is very useful info. My current partner is much larger than the men I've been with previously. I always enjoyed anal before, but the size of his penis makes me worried as far as this is concerned. We tried last week using KY Liquid, but I wanted to know if anyone has suggestions for a better (or maybe just different) lube.
     
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    I've said it before and I'll say it again: extra virgin coconut oil all the way babe! :smile:

     
  12. TomCat84

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    We need pics of your bf's dick to be able to give you good advice. :biggrin1:
     
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    what I always recommend is find a set of new FBs, each progressively larger than the previous one, until you reach your new BFs' size

    I've received many thanks from each one that has followed my advice :biggrin1:
     
  14. TheRob

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    I've had WET recomended to me but I ddo not myself use it so I can't be sure if it was superior or not sorry
     
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    WET is too thin for anal. A thicker lube is better because not only does it feel better (for both) and takes longer to dry up, but it also protects the rectal and colon walls which are much thinner than what's found in the vagina. I recommend coconut oil for that reason, and also because it's an anti-inflammatory, and has virus and germ-killing properties.
     
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    A thorough ass licking is a good way to start. It gets you wet and in the mood. Next, use fingers, and then wider dildos.
     
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    Diva,
    Any luck in having anal sex with your current larger boy friend? As I had in my post above the lubes that work the best for me are old standard; KY Jelly and KY Ultragel.
     
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    Diva,

    It took me ages to figure out what would work for us.

    I've actually written it out in different ways, but I notice that every single time I write it out, I leave out little tips that I included when I wrote about it elsewhere. Anyway, if you don't mind the repetition of the basics, here are different posts I've written about what worked for us:

    http://www.lpsg.org/197663-anal-sex-for-women-hard-4.html#post3010775

    http://www.lpsg.org/206833-anal-sex.html#post3045889

    http://www.lpsg.org/187394-anal-sex-in-6-girth-3.html#post3057996

    http://www.lpsg.org/155040-is-my-cock-too-big-3.html#post3062847

    http://www.lpsg.org/214134-anal-sex-for-the-first.html#post3141924

    http://www.lpsg.org/214134-anal-sex-for-the-first.html#post3142537

    Nico's explanation about the second sphincter:
    http://www.lpsg.org/214111-receiving-anal-length-vs-girth-2.html#post3145538

    About cleaning with an enema, not as easy as it seemed like it should be!
    http://www.lpsg.org/212012-anal-question-is-cleaning-an.html#post3113841

    And a good article about the second sphincter:
    http://friskybusinessboutique.com/news/blog/new-to-anal-sex-please-read-this[/QUOTE]
     
  19. divamama

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    Thank you, everyone. This is all very good advice. Have not given it another try yet, but am eager to! Just need to find time (the last thing I want to do is try again when I'm tired or feel rushed...).
     
  20. Love-it

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    The best lubricant that we have found for anal is "Anal Personal Lubricant, Premium" by JO Products. It is silicone based and hard to clean up, but worth it.

    Relaxation
    Vibration
    Lubrication
    Dilation
    Penetration

    Petite's explanation of using a dildo that it is important to use a dilating dildo that can penetrate you as far as your mans member, but it does not have to be as thick as your man to achieve the desired results. It really helped my wife a lot, she can now take me to the hilt. She dilates nearly every day and it has really made a difference.
     
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