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Buckle up...it's a long one. I thought I would tell this story even though the vast majority of gay guys who follow hot male OnlyFans stars are a little more realistic and less "emotional" regarding their fandom.
I first joined OnlyFans to follow a particularly hot guy I followed on Instagram. Of course, at first I followed him and others solely for the exclusive content. I soon got bored and a bit dismayed that a lot of the content I was purchasing or paying a subscription fee for was being leaked by other paying customers who apparently leave the keys in their unlocked cars to let their neighbors go on joy rides, lol. This paired with some of OF's early technical issues, led me to stop subscribing.
I eventually came back due to another hot Instaguy who was actually gay. And introduced a whole new level of OF for me. Not only was the guy smoking hot; but he was highly responsive. I became a regular tipper and in fact, I would sometimes get random, unprompted messages from him relative to our conversations. It was a hell of an experience and I would recommend following this guy; even though I decided to no longer do so. He'll be the only name I mention because it was a positive experience: Reno Gold.
Moving on to true simp territory...I began following a very hot, straight model from Europe. He didn't have many followers and in the beginning, NEVER posted a nude and in fact some of his more sexy photos; he didn't include his face. Fast forward, I purchased multiple videos from this guy for over $100 each. And in fact, participated in an EBay auction for another more exclusive bid. I ended up winning because a "mystery" bidder who had been responsible for jacking the bid into astronomical territory couldn't pay for the vid. I have my suspisions; but can't prove anything. But I think you know where I'm going. Later, this model decides they are going to REALLY take OnlyFans seriously and begins posting progressively more and more racy content until it ultimately culminates with them not only showing their face in their nudes; but providing more explicit content on their feed rather than charging for it and what content is charged for is at a significantly reduced rate compared to what I and I imagine only a handful of other people where paying. And those older videos? Also now available for peanuts compared to what I paid; including...you guessed it...the video I won via Ebay auction. I would have chalked this up to lesson learned; but the problem was I had actually began to really get to know the guy and we had become friends. As far as he is concerned, we still very much are as I have never and will most likely not address this with him.
Another OF gay model I had become "close" to and who I not only exchanged several messages with on OF; but also Instagram; a lot of them more flirtatious and personal than anything I had ever sent to others, provided me with a lesson in humiliation. Right after I sent a tip and flirtatious message via an offsite payment method they preferred to use over the OF tip system, they sent me two video messages. Both of them where of them kissing a guy pretty hardcore. Ouch. I had never indicated that I wanted to see that kind of content and given the messages we had exchanged via our personal instas, I don't think I would be out of line by saying this was obviously not something I was looking forward to seeing. Now had this been a "Reno-level" guy, I would just call myself a moron. This guy has maybe 6-10 likes on their content max and rarely posts. I think due to the that and the messages, I let myself believe there could be something more.
I've got a few more tales, but these are the ones that stand to allow me to make my point. Being what amounts to as an OnlyFans simp does not only give creators no real motivation to provide better content, fair rates, etc. It can also provide you with a significant level of humiliation and allow you to "get in your feelings." If you and a simp army are tipping someone who never shows nudes significant amounts; what incentive do they have for doing more than what they do everyday? And don't deceive yourself (disclaimer: I know a lot of you DON'T need to hear this and to you I say, good on ya',) this is about money. This is their job. Don't let yourself be seduced by your own imagination. Trust me, it's not worth it. I'm not some outrageously unattractive, old man with a micropenis, lol. As a black gay man I'm not considered in my area at the top tier of attractiveness. I've had the same experience curing my loneliness and desire for companionship in the real world when I was young and a LOT more fit in my 20s as I do now, a bit heavier and just over 40. I'm not putting that out there for racial or sympathy points, I put it out here for others like me, regardless of their race, size, etc., to let them know that OF is not the cure for your ills. Enjoy the content...then move on. Stop rewarding OF creators for irregular and lackluster content. At the end of the day, I make a pretty great living financially, so the financial aspect was not truly significant to me; but I realize because of that I was causing the problem I just mentioned. And I also realize that someone like me who doesn't have what I have may be bankrupting themselves to please someone that is truly indifferent to them (as maybe they should be.) I'm not a guy who opens up or knocks people down out of spite. I truly hope this provides that one person with the true, raw perspective that they need and keeps them from having similar experiences.
I first joined OnlyFans to follow a particularly hot guy I followed on Instagram. Of course, at first I followed him and others solely for the exclusive content. I soon got bored and a bit dismayed that a lot of the content I was purchasing or paying a subscription fee for was being leaked by other paying customers who apparently leave the keys in their unlocked cars to let their neighbors go on joy rides, lol. This paired with some of OF's early technical issues, led me to stop subscribing.
I eventually came back due to another hot Instaguy who was actually gay. And introduced a whole new level of OF for me. Not only was the guy smoking hot; but he was highly responsive. I became a regular tipper and in fact, I would sometimes get random, unprompted messages from him relative to our conversations. It was a hell of an experience and I would recommend following this guy; even though I decided to no longer do so. He'll be the only name I mention because it was a positive experience: Reno Gold.
Moving on to true simp territory...I began following a very hot, straight model from Europe. He didn't have many followers and in the beginning, NEVER posted a nude and in fact some of his more sexy photos; he didn't include his face. Fast forward, I purchased multiple videos from this guy for over $100 each. And in fact, participated in an EBay auction for another more exclusive bid. I ended up winning because a "mystery" bidder who had been responsible for jacking the bid into astronomical territory couldn't pay for the vid. I have my suspisions; but can't prove anything. But I think you know where I'm going. Later, this model decides they are going to REALLY take OnlyFans seriously and begins posting progressively more and more racy content until it ultimately culminates with them not only showing their face in their nudes; but providing more explicit content on their feed rather than charging for it and what content is charged for is at a significantly reduced rate compared to what I and I imagine only a handful of other people where paying. And those older videos? Also now available for peanuts compared to what I paid; including...you guessed it...the video I won via Ebay auction. I would have chalked this up to lesson learned; but the problem was I had actually began to really get to know the guy and we had become friends. As far as he is concerned, we still very much are as I have never and will most likely not address this with him.
Another OF gay model I had become "close" to and who I not only exchanged several messages with on OF; but also Instagram; a lot of them more flirtatious and personal than anything I had ever sent to others, provided me with a lesson in humiliation. Right after I sent a tip and flirtatious message via an offsite payment method they preferred to use over the OF tip system, they sent me two video messages. Both of them where of them kissing a guy pretty hardcore. Ouch. I had never indicated that I wanted to see that kind of content and given the messages we had exchanged via our personal instas, I don't think I would be out of line by saying this was obviously not something I was looking forward to seeing. Now had this been a "Reno-level" guy, I would just call myself a moron. This guy has maybe 6-10 likes on their content max and rarely posts. I think due to the that and the messages, I let myself believe there could be something more.
I've got a few more tales, but these are the ones that stand to allow me to make my point. Being what amounts to as an OnlyFans simp does not only give creators no real motivation to provide better content, fair rates, etc. It can also provide you with a significant level of humiliation and allow you to "get in your feelings." If you and a simp army are tipping someone who never shows nudes significant amounts; what incentive do they have for doing more than what they do everyday? And don't deceive yourself (disclaimer: I know a lot of you DON'T need to hear this and to you I say, good on ya',) this is about money. This is their job. Don't let yourself be seduced by your own imagination. Trust me, it's not worth it. I'm not some outrageously unattractive, old man with a micropenis, lol. As a black gay man I'm not considered in my area at the top tier of attractiveness. I've had the same experience curing my loneliness and desire for companionship in the real world when I was young and a LOT more fit in my 20s as I do now, a bit heavier and just over 40. I'm not putting that out there for racial or sympathy points, I put it out here for others like me, regardless of their race, size, etc., to let them know that OF is not the cure for your ills. Enjoy the content...then move on. Stop rewarding OF creators for irregular and lackluster content. At the end of the day, I make a pretty great living financially, so the financial aspect was not truly significant to me; but I realize because of that I was causing the problem I just mentioned. And I also realize that someone like me who doesn't have what I have may be bankrupting themselves to please someone that is truly indifferent to them (as maybe they should be.) I'm not a guy who opens up or knocks people down out of spite. I truly hope this provides that one person with the true, raw perspective that they need and keeps them from having similar experiences.