My opinion on Dick size

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by Imported, Jun 20, 2004.

  1. Imported

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    lickitysplit: Ok, this is my 3rd post here, but I just want to throw something out there that has probably already been talked about, but I wouldn't mind some opinions on it.

    How men review the size of a penis and how women do are two complete diffrent things, in most cases.

    For men, they want to be 13 inches and as thick as their forarm. This is obviously rare.

    Women, more want the sensual and loving support more then just having a big dick inside them, in most cases.

    Guys seem to think that having a large dick allows them to just pound it into a girl and they will come like wild cats, this can be seen in alot of interracial porn, however, with some women, this IS the case.

    I think with MOST women, seeing a large dick is more of a WOW visual factor, but then comes the thought of OW!, how is that gonna fit in me. Large guys, please comment on this, I would like to know your thoughts.

    Honestly, and this is my opinion, but most girls will get more pleasure out of someone that is in the 7-9" range then someone who is greater then 9"+ or less then 5". Keyword here is MOST.

    With that said, you have the women who are size queens and the more they are stretched the more orgasms they have.

    I will be honest, visually, seeing a gigantic cock is a turn on, especially when its pounding a small girl. Visually it is, but when they are not acting, it might actually be painful.

    There is also the issue of oral sex. Alot of guys that are over 10 inches, or thick in general, the girl has trouble getting it in her mouth. No offense, but thats probably not very pleasing to have a section of the head sucked on versus part of the shaft. I am not criticizing anyone here, just stating something that I think is true, thats all.

    Plus, I think there are alot of girls that like the fact that a guy can be "buried" in her by damn near having his balls up against her pussy. I am sure this isn't so with many hung guys, right?

    I guess what I am getting at is for most people, seeing a gigantic cock is awesome and looks visually stunning, especially when you see someones hand, mouth, pussy wrapped around it. It looks hot and is very arousing, except that for most, it is probably a painful experience, except for those that just absolutely love being stretched and buried.

    I would love to get some women's opinions on this.

    If you look at ratemyschlong.com, seeing those dicks being as huge as they are is like, HOLY SHIT, but can most girls take it vaginally or orally?

    Anyways, sorry if I seem out of line on this forum, I just found it and I am excited I found this place.

    btw - I am 7.5" length and 5.25" around. Not large, but not small. I am actually doing PE and kegals, so my goal is to get to 8" and 6" around. Not sure if that is realistic or not.

    thanks
     
  2. blar

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    well i have had girls that have said wow but not in a good way....it was more like a wow emphasized as ouch type thing. Especially when we are about to have intercourse

    i disagree about your pleasure opinion part because that’s like saying majority of guys can't satisfy "most" women.... and in reality we should all know that majority of guys average. But yea too big and too small will be a problem.

    Of course it’s a guy thing...HECK i was just watching a show and I literality seen like 10 different "male enhancer" commercials and i am not even going to mention the spam emails. :p In my opinion media plays a huge part in making guys think that, just like it plays with women's thoughts about what they should look like.

    But your right women don't care
     
  3. chris88

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    On the contrary, that puts you longer than about 95% of the population. Not exceptionally wide, but also above average.
     
  4. Imported

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    kenny:
    On the contrary, that puts you longer than about 95% of the population. Not exceptionally wide, but also above average. [/b][/quote]
    how did you work that 95% figure out

    im interesting because this is also my size but i cant believe that only 5 out of 100 would be bigger!
     
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    From where I grew up, most of the girls never had a problem with my size, be it orally or vaginally. Anally, well since 90% of the girls never asked, it's never been an issue.

    One chick joked one time when I was going to titty-fuck her that she might need a chin guard! :p
     
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    how did you work that 95% figure out

    im interesting because this is also my size but i cant believe that only 5 out of 100 would be bigger! [/b][/quote]
    Using data on afraidtoask.com. They claim to have about 5000 measurements, which though not statistically significant for the size of the population (3,000,000,000ish), is not apt to be THAT far off.
     
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    Licketysplit although i know it was probably not your intent, i found your post very insensitive to some of the poeple that read this board and are members.

    The basic premise of this board is for the support of those that are having problems with having a large penis. This does not mean a penis like mine, which i am happy with and which works fine by my standards. Sometimes i run into problems with "fitting" In vaginas but for the msot part it gives and gets pleasure fine.
    What i didn't like about your post was that it was kinda like you were saying "Hahah, i'm better than you, my dick isn't TOO BIG." WHile i know this is not what you meant, go back and read it and you will see that it was rather insensitive.

    Now I also know that this board does have a lot of people who are on the bigger side and do toot their own horns and make it seem like bigger is better so I can see that you might feel the need to defend your more "slightly above avergae" stats. But you must realize that there are those out there have difficulties with theirs penises because of its size. They already know that they are not quite as a gift to women because of it.

    Yes bigger isn't always better, sometimes its downright worse. I'm glad you don't suffer from any of the bed effects of a too-big penis. Just realize that there are people out there that do.
     
  8. Imported

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    lickitysplit: Hi, thanks for the replies. After reading my comments, I do realize that I "sounded" like you mentioned, but you are right, it was no my intent.

    But I do suffer from an "overly" bent penis, enough to where I thought I had peyronies disease.

    Just in my defense, I did mention in my original post that , "I apologize if I am out of line" type of wording.

    Anyways, I am often not very good at organzing a bunch of thoughts and putting them in a logical order, that is why sometimes my thoughts may appear random. So I apologize if I offended ANYONE on this board, seriously! I wish I had a large dick (large in the terms of what I have read about on here). I don't think there is anything wrong with being , according to stats, average. The one disadvantage of being large versus small is that, for a chunk of women, if she is on top, she doesn't have the ability to just slide all the way down and basically sit on your hips, she has to stop midair at some point, true? So being average allows for full insertion.

    Anyways, that last comment isn't meant to be insensitive either, I am just trying to bring up some realistic points that are in my head. Nobody every said I was sane :)

    I know many of you may have thought I was trying to defend my "a little above average size", but truth is, I would like to be an inch longer and an inch thicker. That is why I am doing PE.
     
  9. jonb

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    Well, most women don't want 13". They want something reasonable. At least that's what I'd guess.
     
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    LoveGirl: I've heard that 8 inches is perfect for most women. For me 5 inches would be perfect. Too bad penis trading isn't an easy, accepted, common practice.
     
  11. blar

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    8inches!!!! LOL i wish that were true......but that is not
     
  12. madame_zora

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    Yes, most women are completely happy with the "normal" range and thrilled to death for anything more. Many of my friends have even told me of their preference for somewhat smaller. Since being a member on this board, I have opened up some of these conversations with people I know in the real world and have often been surprised by their responses, so I am learning things about myself as well.

    For me, I simply DON'T get satisifed with a smaller penis, it's too "roomy" in there to give me any sense of a stretching sensation. I have come to the conclusion that I must have an about average sized vagina, which is probably about as rare as a large penis. I think it's an incredible idea that people could find each other that actually "fit" together! I feel bad for the women on here for whom their lover's size is a difficulty, especially when I'm in the reverse situaltion. "Size Queen"?? Well, I've fessed up to myself that I must be one, but it does seem to have negative connotations, like I put more value on cock than people- which is really not the case. But is it so wrong to want to be sexually satisfied? During my more recent escapades, I have been more open about my desires and have gotten more fulfilling results, so my conclusion is that it's a good idea to try to find people who like what you have to offer, both mentally AND physically.
     
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    Oh I think each post in its own way can be picked apart for accuracy by just about anyone. I think in general it depends on the person. Everyone perceives something different. Even someone with a huge penis probably has something about it they would like ot change either greatly or on a smaller basis.

    As far as size goes, everyone is different. Some guys would be content with 7 and they have a 6. Some guys wouldnt be content with an 11. Some girls prefer average and some prefer huge. Just depends on the person.

    The topic is very broad.

    Nate
     
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    I have to side with Madame Zora on this one...

    I think LoveGirl is wrong saying that 8" is ideal for most women. If women think this, then they don't really know what 8" looks like (longer than most female forearms).

    I've always had women say that 7" is ideal (which is consistent with Madame Zora)--an inch or so longer than average.

    Once your into the 8" range, it's more what I call the "freak-show" range. Your endowement is immediatly noticed, and not necessarily appreciated, depending on the woman. For this range, a certified "size queen" is the perfect order. Any other woman is not going to let you go at it hard, or even normally. If she allows intercourse, sex is going to be more of a chore, or challenge. She's doing it to say that she did it.

    This has been my experience at least, and I'm not worried about offending anyone with a big cock, because I'm over 8" myself. I'm just speaking the truth.
     
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    What is 'ideal' is what they're told is 8", which is often closer to 6". "I know his cock is 8" 'cause he told me so!" Yeah ... so much for his credibility!
     
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    I've called my self a size queen for 2 years. I love the feel of being completely filled, and the visual aspect is just as exciting.

    After some thought, it's probably as much psychological as it is physical. I had pleny of orgasms with bfs that were 4" and 5" as I have had with lover that have been 8" and 9".

    But then again, the larger the cock, the strogner the O
     
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    Yeah, Autumn, right there with ya!! AND, to clarify, I just reread my post and I made a typo that must have been confusing. I have an ABOVE average size vagina, not an ABOUT average size!! so that is truly a problem with an average or smaller guy, just doesn't fill me up.

    DMW, you are completly right about size liars! I have been on a dating network where almost every guy on there claims to be 8"!!! IRL, I've met them and haven't seen ONE YET that was even 7"!!! I posted an ad requiring pics for evidence, and boy did I ever save myself a lot of time, have gotten everything from 4" to about 6.5, don't know where these fools learned to measure, but it wasn't here. I think a lot of guys want to believe they are larger and think if a woman believes them, then it must be true. Check out some of the pics in our gallery, Killer Cock says he's about 9.5 if I remember correctly, in most places he could claim to be 13" and ppl would believe him!! It's a good reference point, to have photographic evidence to compare to. An 8" cock is a rarity indeed!!
     
  18. Imported

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    BRMSTN69: killer claimes 9.25 on a good day, my lust filled mind rembers those details, to bad he's str8 :(
     
  19. blar

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    haha right DMW..thats why i tend to think women really have no clue about penis size since a lot follow what they have been told.

    i totally agree with you thirdlegmeat

    well yea "size queen" does have plenty of negative connotations that’s why i separate it to women who like larger.... and size queens. Because i grow tired of seeing women on boards make fictious stories about a men with average size not being able to get them off :rollseye: these type i call the internet size queens. Then we have the women that like larger sizes....theses are the ones that think in reality in other words they know that average size men can be satisfying but they love the look and feel of big ones, and don't make things up that they dump guys because his size is average. In conclusion nothing wrong with liking big ones but going over board and saying a guys worth based on it..blah


    lol i derived this from another forum…..thank goodness we don't have internet size queens here lol…that’s my tired at work with nothing to do rant :D
     
  20. jonb

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    Unless you came of age in Samoa, of course. LOL
     
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