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Hey, I don't know why I'm creating this thread, maybe to feel better, I don't know. But few weeks ago I had a sexual encounter with a guy from grindr. He looked totally normal, actually he was very cute. I gave him a blowjob and he cummed in my mouth, and I was stupid to swollowed it... Now I have mild fever, sore throatI'm so scared that I have Hiv or something like that now... As I said I don't now why I'm writing this, I should get tested insted but I guess this can make me feel better somehow... And one question I wanted to ask: is there high risk of getting it during oral sex??
 

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So I guess it's very scary coincidence... And warning too...

You have probably stressed out too much from thinking about it. Mild fever and sore throat is the start of most illnesses.

IF
[and that is a big if) you were infected, it is rare that you would see signs that quickly. Normally the first signs would be after a few months. Some people can be infected for many years before they get sick. The only way to know is to go get tested. It will help ease your mind.
 

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You are more likely to get mono from him than hiv. Having said that, getting tested is the first thing you should do.

If you are planning on regular random hookups, consider using prep as a safety net.