My penis is not big in my eyes...

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by cjay8inc, Jan 14, 2012.

  1. cjay8inc

    cjay8inc New Member

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    I'm wondering if there are guys over 7" length or over 5.5" around that do not belive they are big? If so, how big are you and was there something that happened in your life to make you lose self-confidence?
     
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    lookin GOOD - 8 x 6 here
     
  3. D_Penny_Khandi

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    I'm about 7x5 and I think I'm small
     
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    I'm 6" i guess cause i dont measure. Penis size is not that relevant for me. I'm a bottom.
     
  5. cjay8inc

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    Why do you think you are small because of porn or this site, have you seen guys that were much larger or has a woman told you you were small by works or actions?
     
  6. Q Vee

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    Wow! You have a beautiful big fat black dick! You are Truly Blessed My Brutha!!

    I'm not over 7" so I can't speak to the second part of your post.

    What is big to you and why don't you feel you qualify?

    I hope you find a way to be satisfied with your size. You have way more than most of us and by your accounts, no complaints of being not enough.

    Good Luck My Big Dicked Bro'
     
  7. Thirdlegproduction

    Thirdlegproduction Formerly WhiteMonst3r
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    I'm 9' and think I'm small, or at least I'm the norm because that's what I see every day.
    Everyone else is just below average.
     
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    I see it everyday so I don't think I'm big, I feel all guys are about my size. However, when i have sex when i put it all the way in i can feel the vagina gripping the head and something poking the tip. I wonder if I'm big. My cock ranges from 7.5" top measurement to 8 1/4" on side along the curve and about 5 3/4" to 6" around.
     
  9. Q Vee

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    Excuse me and no disrespect but I am confused. You think your small or norm because that is the size you see "every day". And yet you use the name WhiteMonst3r for your tag here and an avatar of a stick figure with a big penis smacking down every smaller figure in its path.

    1) The Netherlands have 9" penis "every day? I want to visit there soon.
    2) If everyone you see is the same size why do you feel small? Norm OK, but small?
    3) Just how does your ..."Monst3r" tag represent your feeling "small".
    4) How does all that fit together with your avatar? If you see 9" "every day" when do the smack downs occur?

    Honestly, I don't doubt that someone with 9" might still have insecurities but your post seems at odds with your tag & avatar. Your tag and avatar seem to suggest someone who is aware of and proud of their size (and rightly so 9" is huge in my book and you too are Blessed Bro'.)
     
  10. Thirdlegproduction

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    I know how other people look at my penis because they remind me all the time of my size.

    As for myself, I try not to look at other penises, in the showers, locker rooms or whatever so all the size I see daily is my own so I tend to think I'm average even if girls tell me I'm huge as I also know that most girls say this to comfort their boyfriends.
    When I do look at penises it's when watching porn and I prefer to watch at pretty girls having sex with a big dick as I can relate to it.

    But in my mind, every "big dick" in porn is just the average norm as is mine and all the other ones are just below average.

    The name and the avatar is just the external view of my penis not really my own view on things.
     
  11. Q Vee

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    I really need to hang out with you and Monster so I can see these every day Big Dicks!!! LOL!!!

    Thanks for replying. OK. Assuming that these dicks are not hard when you see them. Assuming that this is locker room situations. And unless everyone is providing their erect measurements you are basing your equipment on flaccid comparisons.
    So are you also saying that these flaccid sizes you see are as big as or larger than your erect size?
    Are guys poppin' hardons that you can see/tell are bigger or as big as yours on a regular basis?
    And is your flaccid size equal to theirs or are you a grower among many showers, so it seems that yours is smaller?

    As stated, I am just under 7" and between 5.5-6" around. I consider myself a grower. There have been many times I have been with guys that showed more than me but did not grow as big as me. I do not feel that I am "big" but have been referred to as big in many encounters. I have been with guys bigger than me and a few huge ones, but not often. So this "every day" experience you and Monster speak of is beyond my own experiences. I have seen guys nude in the showers, at the beaches and in the baths and huge flaccid dicks have never been the norm.

    So, our experiences have been different and I may not be helpful to you. But I did struggle with penis envy and insecurity for a time and now realize that I'm OK: from my experience, my partners and here on LPSG.

    The bottom line is whether anyone is small or huge that is your dick. We don't get to change it. I have read here and elsewhere about men and women who have gotten together with men who were smaller than their former lover and it was not the size that made the relationship work, it was/is the person. I would guess your wife is in love with you and not just your dick.

    So love yourself and love your dick. It makes you feel good and is good to you; to have and to hold 'til.... So, give your dick some good love and lovin', he'll thank you and you'll both feel better. No Joke.
     
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    What made you join a site for guys with big dicks if you still feel your small?
     
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  14. Q Vee

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    I don't really get what you are saying but thanks for explaining your point of view.

    Regarding porn, has it occurred to you that they are selecting the largest and best looking dicks because it is for entertainment purposes? Just like the movies and TV. Actors do not represent the everyday persons looks, physiques, etc. and neither do porn actors. I hope you take the time to review more objective points of view like credible research surveys and studies. There is even a plethora of information and resources on this site.

    No need to feel insecure about your penis size being small when the facts seem to indicate otherwise.

    As for the comments from females. A female response would be best, but my guess is that you may hear that for the most part if they say you are "huge" or the "biggest" they probably mean it. I agree most women would probably be respectful of a guys manhood and not want to be disparaging, but they might not take it to the extreme of being "huge".

    As I said to the OP. Just love your dick, it is the only one you gonna get.
     
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    i know my penis is "big". if ur 6.5 nbpel ur at the start of big among worldy figures so why complain leave it to the 4.5 in guys to complain about being small
     
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    Bud, you have a nice cock. The girls that don't think so have been around way too long. It takes some good hunting to find a big cock. Do you want someone like that. Most women want a big cock once, or dream about it until they have to have it all the time. Then they dread it, same with guys. Guys like what they call a good fucking cock. That's a cock that doesn't break you open every time, but just feels good, especially when the guy knows how to use it.
    A nice medium to large cock, not too big is ideal. You are there. Have some confidence. Most people aren't telling you the truth when you are having sex anyway. You'll know when you are turning on your partner. It's a feeling inside. You are both in ecstasy.Good Luck.
     
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    I am about 7x5 and I never think it is all that big until I get with someone that is smaller and sometimes it seems really large!! LOL! Not so much a loss of confidence, but more of a modesty about size issue. I wasn't even hard and a friend asked me if I was about 8. I am sure he told himself his 3 was a 6!
     
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    I wouldn't put so much attention on penis size. Cause it really doesn't matter. Not all that much anyway.
     
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    See more naked men with erections in person... might cure u
     
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    I used to think I was about average and still don't think my cock is that big though I've come to realise I'm well on the big side.
     
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