I believe its life experiences mostly with me. I'm 8x6 my wife thought I was over 9" when we first met. However, the first girl I was with told her best friend I wasnt all that after we broke up. Which in my mind equated toI was not big. That statement messed with me for a long time. So every girl I was with I umm put it on them and wasnt thinking about pleasing them.It was like a battle, I was trying to wear them out and they were showing me they could take it. Now that part has changed in me. I look in the mirror and I see a nice size but in my eyes though it may be big or long Its hard for me to consider myself big.
My penis is not big in my eyes...
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like i have the same problem like i look and i see a 7.5"/6" and i think i´m small!
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I'm seven inches, but always felt small, I think because my frame ( 6'2 230 lbs) and big hands, and my wife is tall and has big hands for a girl.
When I was in my teens, my friend and I would compare, he looked very long because he was a scrawny guy (with bigger balls), but when we went side to side, I was a little thicker and about half inch longer. Even though I had the bigger penis, he still felt like he was the more hung.
When I was in my teens, my friend and I would compare, he looked very long because he was a scrawny guy (with bigger balls), but when we went side to side, I was a little thicker and about half inch longer. Even though I had the bigger penis, he still felt like he was the more hung.
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I have 4" long, but I feel good. It barely fits to whole of my hand :biggrin1:
I'm 7.0" BPEL x 5.5", and know that medical staff measured surveys show average being ~5.5" x 4.9", so I know I'm above average/big in the technical and statistical sense.
In practical terms though, I would classify myself as above average for a few reasons:
1) it seems most people start thinking of "big" once a guy is closer to 8"
2) swinging, I've seen plenty of bigger (longer and/or thicker) cocks, including a few friends.
3) my GF had 2 guys longer than me before we met, and has had a friend who is 8.5" and thick. In her eyes, those guys were definitely "long" or "big" and I'm more borderline - I feel big to her (during oral & sex), but don't look as big as what she's experienced before (visual or handling).
In practical terms though, I would classify myself as above average for a few reasons:
1) it seems most people start thinking of "big" once a guy is closer to 8"
2) swinging, I've seen plenty of bigger (longer and/or thicker) cocks, including a few friends.
3) my GF had 2 guys longer than me before we met, and has had a friend who is 8.5" and thick. In her eyes, those guys were definitely "long" or "big" and I'm more borderline - I feel big to her (during oral & sex), but don't look as big as what she's experienced before (visual or handling).
Porn is notorious for using wide angle lenses, and the best angles & distances to make guys look as big as possible. This doesn't change the fact that a huge guy is huge, but sometimes an average guy can look above average, and above average guy can look big, and a big guy look huge as a result.
Porn is not reality. Those guys are porn stars because they are big and that goes for this site to. I didn't see myself as big until I measured myself and looked my size up on the computer and realized it was huge.
Well than you are not 7.5"x6".
I'm 6'1" for 160/165lbs; and my penis doesn t look small on my frame and it's far from your volume.
But obvious you have no pics, so your measurements are wrong.
A 7.5"x6" situates somewhere between 1 on 44 and 1 on 769.
At least 43 out of 44 men are smaller, if you call that small you need urgently an eye-check.
When I look at my cock it never looks big to me. Maybe it's my perspective. It might look different up close and personal.
I think of myself as above average, but not big/huge... not sure why. I have been told mine is big, but I agree with a previous poster that when you are 8+ I think that is big. But I guess it is all in the eye of the beholder. My wife has had thicker but not longer before we met... she is happy.. then I am happy. 
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There's definitely something ingrained in a man's psychology that leads us to associating our entire sexual identity with just our penises. I think a lot of that goes to how many men develop sexually - I think it's much more common for a man to primarily just want his genitals rubbed, and he's with someone who just concentrates on the rest of his body but ignores that, it feels really frustrating. Very few women (in my experience, 0) just think about their clit + vagina when they think about sex. Even when sex is purely physical, it's more of a whole body thing. Not saying some/most men don't like to have other places touched, just that it's weighted more strongly for women.
As such, whenever we feel depressed/inadequate, because we're making the mistake of tying so much of our identity to our dicks, they can seem small.
I find a good reality check helps in order to stay objective. Knowing the stats is good, but there's something unfulfilling about just knowing how many standard deviations you are from the median. One that I find pretty useful is to check the rare scene in big-dick porn where you can actually get a frame of reference on them (even if not a very good one.)
e.g. here:
http://x-images4.bangbros.com/monstersofcock/shoots/mc541/members/450x340.jpg
if you actually read the tape measure, this guy is maybe 7.5" long, and that girl is very small
or here: http://x-images4.bangbros.com/monstersofcock/shoots/mc854/members/450x340.jpg
if you notice how the tape starts at 2 and is cut off, this guy is another fellow <8"
yet another: http://x-images4.bangbros.com/monstersofcock/shoots/mc838/members/450x340.jpg
so her tape is well-below the dick and from the side which can add over a whole inch, so definitely another around 7"
Here she compares to a beer bottle: http://x-images4.bangbros.com/monstersofcock/shoots/mc8469/bangbros/big3.jpg
if I hold a beer bottle up to myself in that position, if anything I go a little longer than he does. You might think he's just not at 100% there, but it's not like monstersofcock.com is known for underselling its dicks. His girth's also pretty close to mine.
From the same photoshoot with a ruler:
http://x-images4.bangbros.com/monstersofcock/shoots/mc8469/bangbros/big4.jpg
For those of you who are unfamiliar, the centimeter side of those rulers always goes up to 30cm, yet you can clearly see it's only at about 20cm when it's near his base. Also take in to account that he's holding his dick way closer to the camera, and again, yep "only" about 7.5" long, yet it's being sold as a footlong dick in porn/internet inches
So to see that not just guys in porn, but guys in big-dick porn (ie guys who have big dicks compared to other guys with big dicks) are in the same area as me makes any worry about it seem absolutely ridiculous. I'm sure some guys might _look_ bigger, and a few guys are significantly bigger, but to qualify for big dick porn and be worried about your size at all is downright paranoid.
For those average/smaller than average guys out there, I hope you can look at this and realise that your concept of a 'huge' dick is probably way off from the reality.
As such, whenever we feel depressed/inadequate, because we're making the mistake of tying so much of our identity to our dicks, they can seem small.
I find a good reality check helps in order to stay objective. Knowing the stats is good, but there's something unfulfilling about just knowing how many standard deviations you are from the median. One that I find pretty useful is to check the rare scene in big-dick porn where you can actually get a frame of reference on them (even if not a very good one.)
e.g. here:
http://x-images4.bangbros.com/monstersofcock/shoots/mc541/members/450x340.jpg
if you actually read the tape measure, this guy is maybe 7.5" long, and that girl is very small
or here: http://x-images4.bangbros.com/monstersofcock/shoots/mc854/members/450x340.jpg
if you notice how the tape starts at 2 and is cut off, this guy is another fellow <8"
yet another: http://x-images4.bangbros.com/monstersofcock/shoots/mc838/members/450x340.jpg
so her tape is well-below the dick and from the side which can add over a whole inch, so definitely another around 7"
Here she compares to a beer bottle: http://x-images4.bangbros.com/monstersofcock/shoots/mc8469/bangbros/big3.jpg
if I hold a beer bottle up to myself in that position, if anything I go a little longer than he does. You might think he's just not at 100% there, but it's not like monstersofcock.com is known for underselling its dicks. His girth's also pretty close to mine.
From the same photoshoot with a ruler:
http://x-images4.bangbros.com/monstersofcock/shoots/mc8469/bangbros/big4.jpg
For those of you who are unfamiliar, the centimeter side of those rulers always goes up to 30cm, yet you can clearly see it's only at about 20cm when it's near his base. Also take in to account that he's holding his dick way closer to the camera, and again, yep "only" about 7.5" long, yet it's being sold as a footlong dick in porn/internet inches
So to see that not just guys in porn, but guys in big-dick porn (ie guys who have big dicks compared to other guys with big dicks) are in the same area as me makes any worry about it seem absolutely ridiculous. I'm sure some guys might _look_ bigger, and a few guys are significantly bigger, but to qualify for big dick porn and be worried about your size at all is downright paranoid.
For those average/smaller than average guys out there, I hope you can look at this and realise that your concept of a 'huge' dick is probably way off from the reality.
I think is just a matter of one become accustomed to it, it hapens to me too i know i am big but i see it everyday and i touch it everyday in pissing in showering in wanking, but i am really awere how huge i am when i put it close to another cock in life, and my feeling is not that i am huge, but that the others are tiny in my eyes in the comparation, that is why i think i love so much huge cocks bigger than mine, pity that i don't find them so often, and here to me is a wonderful place to meet some huge ones. So even you know you are huge, to your own eyes is a normal cock. I have a wonderful views from my terrace here in ibiza, but to me they are just normal, and i know they are beautiful because every time people visit me they are in awe with the views of those green mountains full of pine trees and the view of the sea, but i am already become accustomed to il.
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