MY RANT: there's a reason why porn is HUGE

[D_Connor Condompopper]

i'm a single man living in LA. you can check out my blog below. but i'm FED UP with WOMEN AND DATING!

i've come to the conclusion why porn is such a huge business. because every woman i meet wants to "take things slow" and is looking for "the one". well i got news for you ladies, if you want to get a man, if you want to keep a man, fuck him on the first date, and don't ever stop fucking him and loving him.

i am SO tired of women who want to wait, women who want to "get to know each other first."

that's the reason why men spend billions of dollars on porn, on prostitutes, on divorce lawyers... men want to fuck. that's it, they don't want to take you to the museum, they don't want to take you shopping, they don't want to go see that new movie starring J.LO and Matthew McConnaghy.

in perusing various online dating profiles of women, they all use the same descriptions about themselves, "Classy", "Stylish", "Sophisticated" "Elegant"... guys are not looking for Jackie O' we want Marilyn Monroe. get it?

so until you women wise up and start to loosen up and enjoy sex, you will be single, you will be, divorced, you will be alone.

FACT. FACT. FACT.

 

[Enid]

Fuck on the first date? Ew. Not for me. And I am not alone.

And I have a news flash for you: Just because a woman doesn't want to fuck on the first date doesn't mean she doesn't enjoy cavewoman-on-crack sex, and a lot of it.

Some men will fuck anything. :eyerollythingie:

 

[ManlyBanisters]

Go fuck yourself, dickwad.

You have no idea who any of us are or how any of us behave. How dare you tell us off!

You think your inability to get laid is a women's issue? Pathetic. Go kick sand in your own sandbox, little boy - stay the fuck out of ours ...at least til you can engage in a conversation with a modicum of respect.

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

your responses only prove me right.

 

[flame boy]

This isn't a womens issue, moved to relationships...

 

[HiddenLacey]

Hahaha! Thanks for reminding me if I'm ever single again to break out my toys instead of dealing with "rants" of this type. A guys chance of getting into my pants on a first date is 0. If all you want is sex you should say that to the next girl upfront. Then you can both know up front what the other ones after.

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

you're missing the point. it's not all about the first date it's about the relationships in general.

again, ugh. women, they just don't get it.

 

[Enid]

I'm not missing the point, I am being deliberately obtuse because your RANT was histrionic and narrow-minded. Thinking that all women want to do is go shopping or see a J LO movie, ugh, you just don't get it.

Of course sex is important to a lot of men, I'm not disputing that. It sure as shit is important to me too.

 

[HiddenLacey]

you're missing the point. it's not all about the first date it's about the relationships in general.

again, ugh. women, they just don't get it.

No I'm not saying this to argue with you. But maybe you don't get it. It's not all about your penis. If that's what you want it to be about you need to tell the girl up front. Save's you and her both time. She can look for someone else and so can you.

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

no, you are missing the point. a museum, a wine tasting, J.LO, it's part and parcel. my rant is true. you can deny it all you want but history and facts prove me right.

a woman's nature is to deny facts, logic and truth. and substitute it with emotional nonsense.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

Thank you, flamey.

chuckles, or whatever your name is - you are attempting to shout at women who are strong enough characters to hold their own on this site. We are not your audience. We are, with a few notable exceptions, sexually aware and liberated women who know what we want and how to get it.

Many of us here fuck on the first date, if we want to. Some don't. We are, again with a few notable exceptions, women who love sex and men (and in some cases other women). We know men want to fuck. We want to fuck too. But we won't do it because you tell us to. We will do it because we want to. And we certainly won't do it with spoiled little brats who stamp their feet and scream when they don't get their own way. We fuck men.

And we do not appreciate being spoken to like that.

 

[MrGoodDate]

your thinking is shallow , shallow, shallow.
Women are wonderful human beings.
It is sad yhou are not.

 

[Enid]

You're the one who sounds emotional to me.

And thank you ManBan that was succinctly put.

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

why? you tell a woman upfront, she's out the door. she should know this already. that's why men have to undergo the nonsense and outrageousness of dating... we have to take them to dinner, take them to a movie, take them to winetasting, or a museum, or an art gallery... when all we want to do is take them to bed.

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

how am i emotional? i'm just responding to facts.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

Of course, looking at your avatar, chuck, we are all hearing you as Cartman - you do know that, don't you?

It's really quite apt. :smile:

 

[Enid]

If you look at it (dating) as a means to an end, you will probably wind up alone. TRUE FACTS.

Go back to your OP, it sounds like a hissy fit. That's emotional to me.

 

[HiddenLacey]

No your missing the point some women are out to just get their rocks off too. THOSE are the women you need to go after. So your both happy. Everyone wants sex. I want sex, but I want committed LOVE sex and committed PORNO up against the wall sex. Anyone worthy of me will wait for it, because it's worth it!

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

BS. I'm not stamping my feet. i'm saying what many men are thinking but don't have the guts to say. again, you're missing the point, it's not about F-ing on the first date. it's about a larger perspective.

i don't expect women to get it. they are not logical, sane creatures. they are pumped up with emotional estrogen that allows them to indulge every action with a distantly rational notion.

in a female's brain, there is a logic that doesn't hold up to the real world. my rant posits one thing, not about sex on the first date, but the reason why porn is huge and why prostitution has been around forever and why divorce rates are high and marriages don't work.

until women accept and deal with what the facts are, this trend will continue.

 

[Enid]

they are not logical, sane creatures.

That's, as ManBan would probably say, utter bollocks.

Some folks are rationally inclined and others are ego-driven hyper-emotional messes. You can't generalize all women that way.

And I get your base point, I happen to agree that sex is extremely important. Many of the women here will agree because most of love sex A LOT.

However there's no way the majority of us would give it to a person who demands it. Like it's their god-given right or something.

I share it with my boyfriend out of joy, lust and a myriad of other other reasons I can't describe. And you know what, I waited about 6 months into our dating to get physically intimate. His choice as much as mine.