MY RANT: there's a reason why porn is HUGE

[No_Strings]

don't ever stop fucking him and loving him.

Why does the latter matter if men are only interested in the former?

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

"Anyone worthy of me will wait for it, because it's worth it"

you miss the point, you put so much value on sex. you use sex as a bargaining chip to get what you want, a relationship. men have to give you what you want "your relationship" to get the sex.

what you don't get is, if you give them the sex, then you get the relationship.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

Question: If men are such single minded fuck machines who want just sex and will always put out and perform when needed and it's due to those nasty women not putting out that men need so much porn... why is there so much gay porn?

 

[D_Schulster_Bagwarts]

ladies: why are you feeding the troll?

chuckles: perhaps you should try dating men? you seem to have some deep-seated issues with women, perhaps stemming from a negative relationship with your mother (or some other female figure who's opinion you value(d)?


IMO, you won't be able to have a successful relationship with a woman until you resolve these issues.

 

[HiddenLacey]

"Anyone worthy of me will wait for it, because it's worth it"

you miss the point, you put so much value on sex. you use sex as a bargaining chip to get what you want, a relationship. men have to give you what you want "your relationship" to get the sex.

what you don't get is, if you give them the sex, then you get the relationship.

Excuse me I've never used SEX to get anything. Personally I can get anything I want all by myself. I don't need to barter with SEX. I don't put value on SEX I put value on my body.

What I was trying to explain to you is some of us don't want to give ourselves to someone who's not WORTH IT. Personally I want to know everything I can about that man before I welcome him into my bed. It doesn't mean that I'll never find one that makes me start ripping clothes off on the first date. But the fact is, its pretty slim.

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

tenincher. i totally agree. i've considered becoming homosexual solely for the fact that women are completely mad. sadly, i find men disgusting

 

[ManlyBanisters]

what you don't get is, if you give them the sex, then you get the relationship.

Utter bollocks wink: @ Enid)

Read all the threads on just this site about guys who don't trust girls who put out on the first date because she's 'obviously a slut' or some such shite.

It's a lose / lose for women.

This is why I do what the fuck I want, when I want, how I want. fortunately this attitude has, eventually, found me a man who loves me for that and fucks me til my head spins at every opportunity.

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

gay porn is huge because men want sex. whether it's gay or straight. logical.

any other simple questions that need to be answered?

 

[Enid]

"Anyone worthy of me will wait for it, because it's worth it"

you miss the point, you put so much value on sex. you use sex as a bargaining chip to get what you want, a relationship. men have to give you what you want "your relationship" to get the sex.

what you don't get is, if you give them the sex, then you get the relationship.

You seem to view all of relating between men & women as a bartering system. Tit for tat. Tit for cock? Anyway, I don't see the world or relating like you do.

But tenicher is right! Bless you. :smile:

 

[HiddenLacey]

ladies: why are you feeding the troll?

.

Cause sometimes it's just so darn fun:biggrin1:

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

"everything about the man before i let him into my bed"???

what on earth does that mean? when do you "GET TO KNOW SOMEONE" when is that official? how many dates is that? do you need a urine test for that? is there a stamp earned or degree that says "IT'S OFFICIAL: I KNOW YOU!"

utter nonsense.

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

again, you guys keep missing the point, IT'S NOT ABOUT SEX ON THE FIRST DATE, IT'S A LARGER PICTURE!!!! RELATIONSHIPS IN GENERAL. PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, WOMEN, LOOK AT THE LARGER PICTURE -- again proving my point, women find one small thing and chip away at it, rather than getting the actual point and the meaning of the way something is intended.

please go debate sex on the first date on another thread, it's not relevant here.

the title of the post was not "Sex on the first date."

oy...

 

[HiddenLacey]

Why does something I feel have to be utter nonsense? Have I said the way you feel is nonsense? Have I degraded your thoughts in any way. NOPE! I've just pointed out there are plenty of women just like you, that's who you should focus on. Poof! Your problem is solved.

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

where?? where are these women?

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

this is not about "degrading thoughts". jesus you guys just don't get it. this is about facts, this is about history, this is about the course of nature. much like Darwin proved....this is logic being instructed to an illogical audience.

 

[HiddenLacey]

There are plenty of them on dating sites like plenty of fish. Try there! Goodluck

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

i'm on there. i'm on match. i'm on jdate. i'm on every dating site available. none there. all want relationships.

 

[Oaksolid]

Frankly, I don't even think YOU believe what you're posting. It comes off as incredibly poorly conceived, and the next time you feel like some attention, all you need to do is strike up a conversation around here. I don't post often (if ever) but plenty of people seem open to discussion.

If, on the other hand, you prefer to be a social pariah, or if you actually believe the nonsense you're spouting, perhaps you should reexamine your myopic view of the world, and realize that women are individuals, like you and I, and they have a whole boatload of reasons for doing the things they do. Some will put out, others not, some want a relationship, others not, some, like my girlfriend, love the color purple, others...well, everyone loves purple because it's an amazing color, but...where was I going?

Oh right, maybe the answer lies foremost in becoming comfortable with yourself. Confidence is by far the strongest aphrodisiac (not to be confused with acting like an arrogant SOB). Once it's clear that you have a solid, worthwhile personality, I'm sure sex won't be an issue. Then again, maybe you just need to trim your nose hairs?

 

[D_Alec_Baldtwins]

While I may not agree with everything Chuck is saying, and fully understand what it is to be making broad generalizations about any group of people, I will saying, having dated for a few years in the same area, that the arrogance, self-absorption, and sense of entitlement that women around here have is sickening. Even the most unremarkable women think they're something really special, and that their pussy is golden. Lots and lots of females, but very few women, never mind ladies, and most of the latter don't want to marry or get into long-term relationships either, because many of my gender are shits in a corresponding way. The status of the male/female condition is pretty rotten here right now.

I was married for many years, but I would never, ever, even think of doing it again. These women all seem to want the good life, and to be taken care of; they don't want to be equal partners in a relationship. It really makes no sense for men to marry anymore, especially with the present status of divorce and child support laws.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

You made it about sex on the first date:

i got news for you ladies, if you want to get a man, if you want to keep a man, fuck him on the first date

But you now want to talk exclusively about this part of your bibbling little rant:

so until you women wise up and start to loosen up and enjoy sex, you will be single, you will be, divorced, you will be alone.

What we are all trying to tell you - if you will listen (which you won't as you have a particularly large chip on your shoulder) - is that plenty of women enjoy sex just fine thank you.

Just not with you. :biggrin1:

Alrighty-then!! Buh-bye now!