MY RANT: there's a reason why porn is HUGE

[D_Connor Condompopper]

i do believe what i'm posting. i am extremely confident, hence the conviction of my post.

not sure why you guys are speaking in pejoratives, OAK. i'm speaking in facts.

if you want to speak in facts and have a logical debate, great, let's do it.

 

[MrToolhung]

opcorn:

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

thank you hotswimmer. THIS IS THE TRUTH I SPEAK OF.

 

[invisibleman]

Question: Why is there so much gay porn...?

AND ADDS THE SCARY PART: Why is there so much gay porn...with straight "gay-for-pay" actors and the porn itself caters to the gay men objectifying straight guys?

 

[Enid]

Frankly, I don't even think YOU believe what you're posting. It comes off as incredibly poorly conceived, and the next time you feel like some attention, all you need to do is strike up a conversation around here. I don't post often (if ever) but plenty of people seem open to discussion.

If, on the other hand, you prefer to be a social pariah, or if you actually believe the nonsense you're spouting, perhaps you should reexamine your myopic view of the world, and realize that women are individuals, like you and I, and they have a whole boatload of reasons for doing the things they do. Some will put out, others not, some want a relationship, others not, some, like my girlfriend, love the color purple, others...well, everyone loves purple because it's an amazing color, but...where was I going?

Oh right, maybe the answer lies foremost in becoming comfortable with yourself. Confidence is by far the strongest aphrodisiac (not to be confused with acting like an arrogant SOB). Once it's clear that you have a solid, worthwhile personality, I'm sure sex won't be an issue. Then again, maybe you just need to trim your nose hairs?

I like this person.


p.s. I NEVER want to live in LA. It sounds terrible if everyone uses sex/relating as a bargaining chip. I will say this, if you view relationships that way, you will be more likely to attract people who also think that way. And for a straight man, I would say that's bad news bears because that means you will be more likely to be extremely frustrated down the road when your girl stops putting out because she "caught" you and she doesn't think she has to do anything to "keep" you. I am happy to be in a relationship where I get tons of sex, plenty of affection, strong friendship bonds, and all without this whole "you owe me" mentality. Yuckies.

p.p.s. Purple is an awesome color. True facts.

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

BANISTER, you're cute. i love how you dispute facts with personal attacks.

go finish your meal at the children's table. let the adults talk for now.

you merely prove my point of the mentality of which i am dealing with

thank you!

 

[ManlyBanisters]

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[D_Connor Condompopper]

"If, on the other hand, you prefer to be a social pariah, or if you actually believe the nonsense you're spouting, perhaps you should reexamine your myopic view of the world..."

how are facts and history "nonsense"?

please feel free to argue the sun orbits the earth, but i'm speaking in terms of logical facts and actual events. people here generally are speaking their opinions.

1. why are marriages broken? why is every headline someone cheating or some scandal? someone with everything to lose? why do men continue to cheat on their spouses and risk everything they have worked for in their entire lives?
2. why has prostitution been around since the beginning of time?
3. why is porn a multi billion dollar industry?
4. do you think beta-maxes and home video took off and exploded into homes because people wanted to watch "Old Yeller" in the convenience on their own homes?
5. do you think people rush out to buy computers because they can get the latest microsoft program?
6. Why do you think Blue-Ray is now the industry standard for Hi-Def TVs, certainly not because porn has anything to do with it?

 

[HiddenLacey]

I'm sorry that its been such a horrible struggle for you to find someone that wants the same things you do. After reading hotswimmers post I've decided I never want to visit CA. I don't know whats happening over there. Maybe you should move if all of the women are like you say they are... which I still find hard to believe.

 

[hud01]

how am i emotional? i'm just responding to facts.

A rant by definition is emotional.

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

you're right HUD, i had an emotional response to facts. like if you are told you have cancer, you have an emotional response to it. my response is however based on facts.

So now that HotSwimmer is courageous enough to speak the truth as well, you take notice Submissive?

i'm not a madman. i'm not making this stuff up. this is fact. this is happening, this is what the real world is like.

i hate to break it to you.

 

[HiddenLacey]

I did take notice. BUT I also noticed what the other guy wrote, I believe his name is oaksolid or something like that. Personally I HOPE there are more guys that feel like he does in the world than guys that feel like you do.

 

[Drifterwood]

i'm on there. i'm on match. i'm on jdate. i'm on every dating site available. none there. all want relationships.

You register on relationship sites and then you get pissed with women wanting relationships??????

Chuck, you are on the wrong sites.

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

what sites should i be on? since NO WOMEN want sex. so i've been told.

if i register on a "sex" site, it's just a bunch of fake profiles.

no women are out there looking for sex.

it's just a fact.

please prove me wrong.

if there are women out there looking to hook up, where are they????

 

[Countryguy63]

Some men will fuck anything. :eyerollythingie:

as evidence http://www.lpsg.org/184533-ill-fuck-anything.html :tongue:

While I may not agree with everything Chuck is saying, and fully understand what it is to be making broad generalizations about any group of people, I will saying, having dated for a few years in the same area, that the arrogance, self-absorption, and sense of entitlement that women around here have is sickening. Even the most unremarkable women think they're something really special, and that their pussy is golden. Lots and lots of females, but very few women, never mind ladies, and most of the latter don't want to marry or get into long-term relationships either, because many of my gender are shits in a corresponding way. The status of the male/female condition is pretty rotten here right now.

I was married for many years, but I would never, ever, even think of doing it again. These women all seem to want the good life, and to be taken care of; they don't want to be equal partners in a relationship. It really makes no sense for men to marry anymore, especially with the present status of divorce and child support laws.

My feelings exactly!! :frown1:

no, you are missing the point. a museum, a wine tasting, J.LO, it's part and parcel. my rant is true. you can deny it all you want but history and facts prove me right.

a woman's nature is to deny facts, logic and truth. and substitute it with emotional nonsense.

Hop over to the other side and just go with men, they're easier :biggrin1:

 

[hud01]

you're right HUD, i had an emotional response to facts. like if you are told you have cancer, you have an emotional response to it. my response is however based on facts.

So now that HotSwimmer is courageous enough to speak the truth as well, you take notice Submissive?

i'm not a madman. i'm not making this stuff up. this is fact. this is happening, this is what the real world is like.

i hate to break it to you.

No you seem to miss the point. I'm still not entirely sure what your problem is. You talk about women wanting to go slow. Those are generally two code phrases, one you are pressing me too hard for sex, or two I really don't find you that interesting.

About women always wanting something. I had an ex who I fucked 20 to 25 times after we broke up. She was the one who broke it off and she always came to my place when she wanted to fuck or sometimes to just blow me.

If you are funny, intellegent, and confident you will have a great chance within the first few dates to get laid.

If you can't handle that save your money and buy a girl for the night. Just because you have a big cock does not entitle you to get laid when you want it.

Would I like to get laid every night and every time I am with a girl yes, but I also enjoy their company, their fragrance, the softness of their bodies, how they make me feel happier when they laugh at my silly jokes.

You are too bitter for someone so young.

 

[Enid]

No you seem to miss the point. I'm still not entirely sure what your problem is. You talk about women wanting to go slow. Those are generally two code phrases, one you are pressing me too hard for sex, or two I really don't find you that interesting.

About women always wanting something. I had an ex who I fucked 20 to 25 times after we broke up. She was the one who broke it off and she always came to my place when she wanted to fuck or sometimes to just blow me.

If you are funny, intellegent, and confident you will have a great chance within the first few dates to get laid.

If you can't handle that save your money and buy a girl for the night. Just because you have a big cock does not entitle you to get laid when you want it.

Would I like to get laid every night and every time I am with a girl yes, but I also enjoy their company, their fragrance, the softness of their bodies, how they make me feel happier when they laugh at my silly jokes.

You are too bitter for someone so young.

Thank you, Hud, that was very well put.

 

[D_Alec_Baldtwins]

I'm sorry that its been such a horrible struggle for you to find someone that wants the same things you do. After reading hotswimmers post I've decided I never want to visit CA. I don't know whats happening over there. Maybe you should move if all of the women are like you say they are... which I still find hard to believe.

Well, there is another alternative to moving, and that's to simply do without women, or at least a long-term relationship with one. It is possible, as I've found, and as increasing numbers of men are finding, to have a very happy and fulfilled life without a woman. "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle." Does this sound familiar?

I'm sad for our culture and our society, but I'm not going to sacrifice myself for the cause. And relationships aside, you no longer have to be married to have sex, and in the absence of women, men have other choices now.

 

[sbat]

"If, on the other hand, you prefer to be a social pariah, or if you actually believe the nonsense you're spouting, perhaps you should reexamine your myopic view of the world..."

how are facts and history "nonsense"?

please feel free to argue the sun orbits the earth, but i'm speaking in terms of logical facts and actual events. people here generally are speaking their opinions.

1. why are marriages broken? Getting married for wrong reasons, personality incompatibility, one or both is shite with money...many reasons why is every headline someone cheating or some scandal? Headlines are about what attracts attention, and aren't representative of frequencies of the news items someone with everything to lose? why do men continue to cheat on their spouses and risk everything they have worked for in their entire lives? Any stats about this? And what about women cheaters?
2. why has prostitution been around since the beginning of time? Men really really like to fuck, and there are a lot of men who can't get women to fuck them consentually without payment. If women liked to be viewed by their husbands as complete sex objects, then maybe prostitution would be down, who knows
3. why is porn a multi billion dollar industry? same as above
4. do you think beta-maxes and home video took off and exploded into homes because people wanted to watch "Old Yeller" in the convenience on their own homes? Partly, yes
5. do you think people rush out to buy computers because they can get the latest microsoft program? Yes, or the latest Mac Program, or the latest CPU-intense computer game
6. Why do you think Blue-Ray is now the industry standard for Hi-Def TVs, certainly not because porn has anything to do with it? My dad loves watching sports in high-def. My mom loves watching movies in high-def. I'm sure some people watch porn in high def, but why would you want to see every pimple on some random slut's ass?

I answered your questions. What's my prize?

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

"Would I like to get laid every night and every time I am with a girl yes, but I also enjoy their company, their fragrance, the softness of their bodies, how they make me feel happier when they laugh at my silly jokes.'

cool. so you have lots of platonic girlfriends i imagine? you have lots of girls come over and you smell them and you talk and make jokes and you never have sex with them?