MY RANT: there's a reason why porn is HUGE

[sbat]

in the absence of women, men have other choices now.

No dude, I'm not having sex with you. In the game of pussy, hand, asshole, pussy trumps all

 

[invisibleman]

i'm a single man living in LA. you can check out my blog below. but i'm FED UP with WOMEN AND DATING!

i've come to the conclusion why porn is such a huge business. because every woman i meet wants to "take things slow" and is looking for "the one". well i got news for you ladies, if you want to get a man, if you want to keep a man, fuck him on the first date, and don't ever stop fucking him and loving him.

i am SO tired of women who want to wait, women who want to "get to know each other first."

that's the reason why men spend billions of dollars on porn, on prostitutes, on divorce lawyers... men want to fuck. that's it, they don't want to take you to the museum, they don't want to take you shopping, they don't want to go see that new movie starring J.LO and Matthew McConnaghy.

in perusing various online dating profiles of women, they all use the same descriptions about themselves, "Classy", "Stylish", "Sophisticated" "Elegant"... guys are not looking for Jackie O' we want Marilyn Monroe. get it?

so until you women wise up and start to loosen up and enjoy sex, you will be single, you will be, divorced, you will be alone.

FACT. FACT. FACT.

Okay, I know that there are some women that are offended by the OP. But within the rant you can tell alot about the OP and he illuminates the distinctions between men and women with regard to sex drives and approaches to sex.

To the OP. I understand that you are frustrated and horny. I think that straight men don't fully understand women. And straight women don't fully understand straight men. But to understand each other, I think that people should be real about their feelings. They tell you a lot about each other. And you have to ask questions and not be offended by the answers.

It isn't always about you. It isn't always about them either. There are a lot of things in life that keep you preoccupied. You can say they should be there and just enjoy sex. But they are the ones taking the cock. They have to enjoy it too. They also can get knocked up. And men these days...some aren't necessarily ready to be fathers. And whenever your woman takes you on The Maury Povich Show to get a free paternity test, and Maury says... "YOU ARE DEFINATELY THE FATHER!!!!" you need to realize that you need to concern yourself with taking care of the child you sired. Women don't want to be taking care of YOUR kids while YOU are fucking some other woman siring more kids. I have family mems in that exact same fucked up situation...those are ones with "It's Complicated" as their marital status on their facebook accounts.

Women aren't jumping on every candlestick, you know. They probably want to make sure that you are gonna be there for them before they feel safe enough to give you a peek of their vagagas. Women want the right man.

Porn only reveals a person's imagination regard to sex. It isn't real. It is only designed to turn (the target audience) on to the point of buying it. Porn is a one-sided theme media. That is why porn is in categories. That is what sets the appeals/ the foci of turnons.

Some men are really raw and primal with sex. They want to see women getting their pussy jackhammered relentlessly by thick cocks...they want to see the woman squirt like lawn sprinklers. The men want to see the boobs bouncing and asses wiggling. The men want to come in the pussy a lot. Porn isn't going to show you real-life consequences...it only extends the good part of the sex and the sex fantasy.

 

[HiddenLacey]

No you seem to miss the point. I'm still not entirely sure what your problem is. You talk about women wanting to go slow. Those are generally two code phrases, one you are pressing me too hard for sex, or two I really don't find you that interesting.

Would I like to get laid every night and every time I am with a girl yes, but I also enjoy their company, their fragrance, the softness of their bodies, how they make me feel happier when they laugh at my silly jokes.

Look it:smile: Another guy that understands normal women. I don't know where guys find these women that are like puzzle's. Maybe it's a city thing? Where I come from men act appropriately and treat us respectfully and they get the same thing in return. I agree 100% with what hud01 says about the code phrases. That's exactly the way I work. Any girl worth having is going to have sex with you if that's what she really wants. It can't always be about you wanting to have sex. We have minds and thoughts and feelings as well.

Maybe the girls you are dating just aren't that interested in you? I don't know. I don't know how you act around women in your personal life. Every women is not some cheating skank who wants your wallet and your penis whenever she feels like it. Some of us just don't want to have random sex with guys that don't mean anything to us. That's not a bad thing. I think it's a wonderful thing. Maybe not to you, but you just want sex not a relantionship. Being honest with the women may give you more walk aways, but your not wasting your time.

 

[dolfette]

i'm a single man living in LA. you can check out my blog below. but i'm FED UP with WOMEN AND DATING!

i've come to the conclusion why porn is such a huge business. because every woman i meet wants to "take things slow" and is looking for "the one". well i got news for you ladies, if you want to get a man, if you want to keep a man, fuck him on the first date, and don't ever stop fucking him and loving him.

i am SO tired of women who want to wait, women who want to "get to know each other first."

that's the reason why men spend billions of dollars on porn, on prostitutes, on divorce lawyers... men want to fuck. that's it, they don't want to take you to the museum, they don't want to take you shopping, they don't want to go see that new movie starring J.LO and Matthew McConnaghy.

in perusing various online dating profiles of women, they all use the same descriptions about themselves, "Classy", "Stylish", "Sophisticated" "Elegant"... guys are not looking for Jackie O' we want Marilyn Monroe. get it?

so until you women wise up and start to loosen up and enjoy sex, you will be single, you will be, divorced, you will be alone.

FACT. FACT. FACT.

you think i should have sex i don't want just so that i can keep a sorry arse like yours? i might die laughing.

shit, i prefer being single! there's nothing you and your dick can do for me that me and my batteries can't do for myself.
i get all the orgasms i want and nobody hogging the duvet, pissing on the seat or telling me when i'm obliged to feel horny.

i could point out that your opinion isn't universal truth, that there are guys that like taking things slow, that there are women who take things fast AND that the reason they take things so slow with you is most likely that you don't inspire any feelings of lust in women.

get a hooker. it's cheaper than dating.

 

[hud01]

"Would I like to get laid every night and every time I am with a girl yes, but I also enjoy their company, their fragrance, the softness of their bodies, how they make me feel happier when they laugh at my silly jokes.'

cool. so you have lots of platonic girlfriends i imagine? you have lots of girls come over and you smell them and you talk and make jokes and you never have sex with them?

Yeah I don't get laid by half the girls I find interesting, but being out at a dance club, having her lean her body into mine and kiss me, that is still pretty good to me.

I also have many female friends that I have no interest having sex with and most have not interest in having sex with me. There are some girls that I would love to have sex with, but they don't want to have sex with me, either because of no physical attraction on their part, or they already have a partner. Doesn't DQ them from being friends. Oh yeah, I also have lesbian friends. I think my chance of getting laid with them is pretty slim.


I have also met girls at clubs and either taken them out to my car or my place and had sex that night. There is no set pattern.

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

UGH. can we please drop the trite "maybe you don't inspire lust from women" argument? just read my blog if that's the hacky argument you're going to go with. they are full of many women i've been with.

i do agree with you about the hooker thing. the problem is 1. catching an STD 2. cops. not necessarily in that order

i also think i should maybe try fat chicks. i just don't find them that attractive though.

 

[dolfette]

UGH. can we please drop the trite "maybe you don't inspire lust from women" argument? just read my blog if that's the hacky argument you're going to go with. they are full of many women i've been with.

i do agree with you about the hooker thing. the problem is 1. catching an STD 2. cops. not necessarily in that order

i also think i should maybe try fat chicks. i just don't find them that attractive though.

so you DO think women should have sex they don't want, just to gain your dating approval?

if i had no morals i'd suggest you go into the rape game. plenty of unwanted sex!

 

[dolfette]

because really it's not that many steps away...

you're saying we should feel obligated to sex, even if we really don't want sex.

creepily, you'd enjoy the sex even though she didn't really want it and was doing it because she thought that not having sex would make her a selfish bitch.

 

[dolfette]

for future reference, are we expected to behave like porn actresses whilst having this unwanted sex? or are we allowed to just lie still and try to block it out?

 

[dolfette]

are we allowed to bathe and cry afterwards, or would that spoil the mood?

i need to know or i'll never get a man!!!!!!

 

[sbat]

Well, dolfette, if you are lucky enough to find a good master, uh man, he might turn the lights off whilst you perform your duty

 

[TurkeyWithaSunburn]

no, you are missing the point. a museum, a wine tasting, J.LO, it's part and parcel. my rant is true. you can deny it all you want but history and facts prove me right.

a woman's nature is to deny facts, logic and truth. and substitute it with emotional nonsense.

A woman has more of a vested interest in sex and choosing a partner.
Who gets pregnant?
It's an evolutionary thing.

If you believe that I'm amazed you get laid. And goodluck in finding a long term relationship.

 

[dolfette]

Well, dolfette, if you are lucky enough to find a good master, uh man, he might turn the lights off whilst you perform your duty

being a cat collecting spinster looks more appealing by the minute.

 

[HiddenLacey]

being a cat collecting spinster looks more appealing by the minute.

Has anyone told you lately that you are absolutely wonderful:redface: Your so funny and blunt:biggrin1:

 

[dolfette]

A woman has more of a vested interest in sex and choosing a partner.
Who gets pregnant?
It's an evolutionary thing.

If you believe that I'm amazed you get laid. And goodluck in finding a long term relationship.

are you going to introduce logic into this?

nature and evolution...

if they have sex she invests 9 months + ?teen years & risks her life giving birth.
if they have sex he invests *bang bang pop!*

could be worse. you could be a bowerbird.

 

[dolfette]

Has anyone told you lately that you are absolutely wonderful:redface: Your so funny and blunt:biggrin1:

aww! thank you!

i also fail at this spinster shit. for some weird reason men actually dig me.

...must be the tits.

 

[TurkeyWithaSunburn]

are we allowed to bathe and cry afterwards, or would that spoil the mood?

i need to know or i'll never get a man!!!!!!

You're allowed to bathe in their blood and cry "BRING ME ANOTHER SACRIFICE!"
:bowdown:

And then you can move on to the next man, for a short happy time of THEIR life.


And just introducing the point that women are choosy with good reason. :redface:

 

[HiddenLacey]

aww! thank you!

i also fail at this spinster shit. for some weird reason men actually dig me.

...must be the tits.

:biggrin1: Being a spinster would suck. No more men... ever.... I would be seriously upset:wink: Anyway just wanted to say you rock!

 

[dolfette]

You're allowed to bathe in their blood and cry "BRING ME ANOTHER SACRIFICE!"
:bowdown:

And then you can move on to the next man, for a short happy time of THEIR life.


And just introducing the point that women are choosy with good reason. :redface:

are you implying i'm some sort of evil, cruel, sadistic man eater, who leaves the sobbing husks of broken men in her wake?

i wub you too!

 

[TurkeyWithaSunburn]

are you implying i'm some sort of evil, cruel, sadistic man eater, who leaves the sobbing husks of broken men in her wake?

i wub you too!

No, but you play one very well though.
Yes. If a man isn't meeting your needs you move onto someone who can.
You'd break me into small pieces :wink: