Hi,
I've been a member of LPSG for a few years now and I love the site and the people are some of the most honest and likeable people you'll find on the net. Now, I am at a cross roads in a relationship with my girlfriend.
We've been dating for over a year and a half now and we are very much in love. Everything about our relationship is ideal. Except the sex. First, I'll discuss our situation and then I'll talk about solutions we've tried.
Since our first time, it has been hard for her to take me. She was not a virgin before me and neither was I. We are both experienced and have had more than one partner in our past. My measurements are 8.5" long and 2.5" wide and 6.5" around. My previous partner was an Asian girl who was smaller in stature (I know that has nothing to do with vag size) and she handled me very well. During our first time, she claimed to have enjoyed it, but I could sniff out the lies easily. She was wincing in pain at times and usually it takes me about ~45 minutes to cum so she was in a great deal of pain.
Fast forward a year and a half and she is still having the same problems. The length is in no way a problem for her. I ease all the way in slowly and pull out slowly to adjust her to my dick. She says it feels good for 5 minutes and then it starts to hurt. Her being wet isn't a problem: sometimes when she is walking around school, she drips because she is just naturally very wet down there. (Sorry if that was TMI)
Foreplay isn't an issue either. I give her head each time beforehand and sometimes I let her cum and sometimes I don't. We usually lubricate my penis very well before we engage in intercourse. Positions that hurt her the most are her being on top and me doing doggy.
We do not use condoms and she is on birth control. I have done the "Clone-a-Willy" thing for her to practice when I'm away, but it hurts her too much. I'm frustrated and so is she. Her ex was quite large as well - about my length, just not my girth or even close.
Please, please, please provide good comments and questions so that I can help fix this. I want this to work. Saying "sex isn't an important part of our relationship" may sound nice, but it is not the truth. She is not happy, and neither am I.
Help,
Young White
I've been a member of LPSG for a few years now and I love the site and the people are some of the most honest and likeable people you'll find on the net. Now, I am at a cross roads in a relationship with my girlfriend.
We've been dating for over a year and a half now and we are very much in love. Everything about our relationship is ideal. Except the sex. First, I'll discuss our situation and then I'll talk about solutions we've tried.
Since our first time, it has been hard for her to take me. She was not a virgin before me and neither was I. We are both experienced and have had more than one partner in our past. My measurements are 8.5" long and 2.5" wide and 6.5" around. My previous partner was an Asian girl who was smaller in stature (I know that has nothing to do with vag size) and she handled me very well. During our first time, she claimed to have enjoyed it, but I could sniff out the lies easily. She was wincing in pain at times and usually it takes me about ~45 minutes to cum so she was in a great deal of pain.
Fast forward a year and a half and she is still having the same problems. The length is in no way a problem for her. I ease all the way in slowly and pull out slowly to adjust her to my dick. She says it feels good for 5 minutes and then it starts to hurt. Her being wet isn't a problem: sometimes when she is walking around school, she drips because she is just naturally very wet down there. (Sorry if that was TMI)
Foreplay isn't an issue either. I give her head each time beforehand and sometimes I let her cum and sometimes I don't. We usually lubricate my penis very well before we engage in intercourse. Positions that hurt her the most are her being on top and me doing doggy.
We do not use condoms and she is on birth control. I have done the "Clone-a-Willy" thing for her to practice when I'm away, but it hurts her too much. I'm frustrated and so is she. Her ex was quite large as well - about my length, just not my girth or even close.
Please, please, please provide good comments and questions so that I can help fix this. I want this to work. Saying "sex isn't an important part of our relationship" may sound nice, but it is not the truth. She is not happy, and neither am I.
Help,
Young White