My Relationships...

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by littledickboy111, Sep 12, 2006.

  1. littledickboy111

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    I never thought much about my cock size in high school. I used to see guys who were bigger in the locker room and stuff... but I figured I was average and all was well.

    When I was 16 I started a relationship with a girl. I lost my virginity to her. She would always talk about her ex-boyfriend though. I asked questions about their relationship and it came to my attention that he was 10 inches long. It blew my mind that the pussy I was in had a 10 incher in it previously. She told me she was very deep and able to take all of it. She said she had had other big guys too and thought that maybe they could tell she was deep and were attracted to her. Three years later I ended it with her, but I'd never forget the stories of her ex-boyfriend and his giant member. Still to this day I think my problems/bizarre fetish can be traced back to here.

    I dated a number of girls and slept with many of them. One I dated was way out of my league. A hot blonde thin with big tits. Ugly face, but the body made up for it. You know the kind I'm talking about. We had sex, and eventually she told me she didn't want to date me anymore after about 5 dates and likely $1500 in expenses. I was talking to her on MSN after this and she told me that I was too small. It was devistating. All of my insecurities developed in my first relationship were brought back and zoomed in on a thousand times over. Where as my first girlfriend always told me my size was fine, this girl didn't. Her exact quote was that she was "expecting a limo and got a neon instead." It stung.

    This year I started dating a new girl who I think is great. A few weeks ago though, she left me alone in her apartment. I got nosey and started reading her diary. I know I shouldn't have. I know it's a bad thing to do. Don't yell at me. I had to know what she wrote in there. She said, and I quote (the words are forever ingrained in my memory): "his dick is quite smaller than any of the other ones I've seen or had. He came too quickly but the sex was good. I think he was hitting my g-spot or something sensitive. despite flaws, he might be the one." We've been together ever since. But I'll never forget the sting in my stomach when I read the first line of that. No guy wants to be the smallest that a girl ever saw.

    I don't know why I'm posting this...

    Girls, what's the smallest you've ever seen? Any chance you'd stick with him if he was great in every other area?

    Guys, any stories like this? Whether you're big or small...

    I don't know, I just wanted to write something and get this all off my chest.

    And yes, I do have a small-cock-humiliation fetish. No this isn't fiction though. What I wrote above was true. 100%. I'm not looking to be humiliated in this thread (although, if you want to, go ahead. It'll turn me on. But that's not what this thread is about), so please don't be harsh like the guys who post on here talking about feeling their girlfriends being loose. I'm not just looking for a cheap thrill. Maybe just some cheap therapy.
     
  2. davidjh7

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    I'm not one of the big boys, either, and am gay, so my experience with women is limited to earlier years. Men's egos are very tied to their dicks, thanks to biological conditioning and societal conditioning. People saying "get over it" doesn;t help much, because it keeps getting slammed back in your face, even if you do get over it for awhile. There is little you can do about it, although some people have had sex enlarging, especially using jelqing techniques. OK--that's the bad news. The good news is that your penis isn't ALL you are. SOme women will be kind, but unsatisfied, like your first. SOme women will be using whores who will treat you like shit and expect you to keep giving to them, because you DARED come anywhere near their "GOlden pussies", so you must pay, pay dearly, and pay forever. Some women, like your present lady, WILL be satisfied, because you fit them just right, in and out of bed. She said YOU might be "the one". She has proven that your dick is satisfying in the sack, even if it isn't huge and something to brag to her friends about. But the rest of you fits her well as well, BETTER than the other guys she has been with. So, frankly, unless the ONLY thing that matters in your life is having girls brag about you to other people, your overall situation isn;t that bad. IF you want to try enlargement techniques, go for it--any gain will be an ego boost, and trying can be fun as well. :biggrin1: But don;t let it become your life, either, because it isn't. So, ultimately, I guess I'm saying not necessarily "get over it", but more, remember the GOOD things you have going for you. YOu sexually satisfy your lady, despite perceptions. She loves you and is considering wanting to spend the rest of her life with you. You are healthy, and ABLE to have sex with her. You aren;t an asshole, obviously. I'm sure it will be reasonably easy to find good things to focus on, but you have to choose to make those things the priorities. I guess that about covers all I have to say :smile: Hang in there!
     
  3. D_Haole_Berry

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    You sound like a good guy, a quality that (correct me if im wrong ladies) ranks far higher than any specific physical aspect. Be comfortable with who you are, know that women would rather spend their life with you than any insensitive horse-hung guy. Sry this is just a normal str8 guys perspective, but hopefully ive learned enough from the opposite sex to know this much.

    Be confident buddy. Emotionally, your endowed with the best of them. :smile:
     
  4. SomeGuyOverThere

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    This is telling.

    You didnt say how big you are, but obviously you gave her a good time, and that's the main thing.

    If you are afraid of how this effects you in bed, don't be - skill is what counts in bed, and that's what I've heard from every girl I've ever spoken to or seen post online.

    Yes, size does matter, but it is not the one, over-riding seal of quality on a man, it is one of many aspects of you.

    What you have to make sure of is that the man the dick is attached to is worth holding onto, and you'll find the girls who are worth it - those who are only interestd in your cock aren't worth your time.
     
  5. dolf250

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    I will just tell you to look at what she wrote in the diary about the sex being good. Most of the women here (and due to the nature of the site) many guys have posted that different sizes do it for them. Some like it large, some average and some are just fine with a smaller member. Whatever your exact size it seems to do it for your current lady friend, and remember that even if things do not work out, there are more women out there with her preferences.

    Now, having said that, quit reading peoples diaries, and instead discuss things with them. I would actually encourage you to discuss sex with her. What does she like, what does she want?
     
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    One thing I noticed is that your girlfriend's diary entry said "his dick is quite smaller than any of the other ones I've seen or had". Is she reasonably experienced? If she's not, maybe her limited experiences with with guys who were considerably bigger than you. Just to put things in perspective, I didn't grow up with a lot of exposure to a variety of sizes--it was pretty much limited to what I saw in porn, which isn't a very fair cross-section. Now, I'm considered statistically average but the first few guys I had sex with were all considerably larger than me (in the 8-10 inch range). Given my lack of experience and lack of information about what is considered average, it made me feel pretty small.

    There are definitely people out there who are fixated on size. Those people are the minority. It's been my experience that the smaller guys I've been with have been better in bed. Maybe they're self-conscious enough about it that they're motivated to try harder? If you're amazing in bed in every other way but your size, I doubt you'll hear many complaints. Anyone who does complain, fuck 'em...there's plenty more where they came from.
     
  7. FrankPipeliner

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    playing off dolf's comments regarding discussing sex; likes, wants. perhaps suggesting a 3some with the two of you and a well endowed man or her choosing or anonymous. she'll enjoy sex with you, the large guy and maybe your own curiousity will be sated.
     
  8. Wonderboy

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    Who writes sexual critique in a diary? Assuming the girl you lost your virginity to was a similar age to you when you lost it...I doubt she could take ten inches and she'd have to have been with a lot of guys to 'have been with other big guys too'

    Close your legs, I can smell fish :p
     
  9. Mr. Snakey

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    Im more concerned with the size of your brain? $1500? You let me spend $1500 on a woman. She is mine for a good while.....Oh please!! I will take her to Mcdonalds and get her a Happy meal,and mabye some colt 45!
     
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