my roommate/best friend

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Hard4you83, Oct 11, 2008.

  1. Hard4you83

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    First off I am bi and not out... I don't want to be out either. I am 25 years old white, brown hair hazel eyes, 5'11 and I am about 175lbs... not really muscular but not bad either. I also have a nice cock thats one of my best feature in my opinion... lol it's 7 cut and real thick... and who can deny the love for a great bananna curve. it just hits all the right spots so I am told. any way I am not a writer so this is prolly not going to be the best form... I have a question though... I want to know if what I am feeling or the vibe I am getting from my roommate who happens to be my best friend is all in my head. now let me describe him. He is also 25 same height, he is prolly 185lbs all muscle, green eyes and light brown hair and I don't know about his cock I have never seen it. He is my best friend and now that he is getting divorced my roommate as well. So I want to tell you some things that have happened and see what your take is on it. then I might make it into fictional story based on the events. allright so this is what happened.

    The first thing is when I first move in with him we got really drunk and I accidently told him that I had gotten head from a buy before... he was cool with it... and actually told me that one of our other friends had also but wouldn't say who.

    Next a couple months later we were having a party and I hurt my leg. and it was bleeding so I went inside to take a shower clean it out and get the blood off my leg. Well while I was in the shower I heared someone come into my room I thought nothing of it cus the girl I was currently fucking was also at the party. but I turned out it was him. He came in and started talking to me while I was in the shower. all that was between us was a thin plastic shower curtain and he sat on the toilet and talked to me for 10 mins like it was the most normal thing to do.

    okay and then about 2 weeks ago we got drunk and got into some arguement... over something stupid... when we got home his girlfriend was trashed and passed out so we put her in bed... and went outside and talked. after about an hour of talking we came in and then sat talking in my room in our boxerbriefs... right before he left my room he kissed me like five times all over my face except my mouth... needless to say i had the biggest hardon after that.

    whats your take? and would you like me to write this into a m/m bi story well atleast what happend next on all those nights in my head
     
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    please someone respond I am looking for an outside perspective
     
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    I don't know dude...none of the other stuff seems out of the ordinary except for the kissing part...that seems a little extreme...but you know the guy better than I do..
     
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    soo....is this a true story?

    If so......well....honestly I wouldn't think a whole lot about it. I mean....you are best buds, so I mean him coming in the bathroom while you were in the shower to talk...well, its a bit unusual, but not uncommon. Now as for him kissing you....what led up to the kissing? I mean did you tell him something that he really needed to hear, or gave him some sort of relief (like an example would be, he fucked someone, and later found out she had crabs, but you knew for a fact she didn't and told him.....I'd be kissing you too lol), or was it just some random thing? I mean....keep in mind he was drunk. Now if you are looking into maybe doing some experimenting, I'd suggest like maybe getting drunk, renting a porn, and sitting around watching it whilest drunk. and then start talking about being horny. Well after awhile, he will either say fuck it and whip it out and start jerking, or you should say fuck it....you need to bust a nut, and whip it out. See what his response is from there. If he whips his out, then you've made some sort of progress, or he is really comfortable with you. Now if you dare, keep this up for awhile and then one day plop down beside him and go thru the same motions. If he isn't freaked out or anything like that, and pulls his cock out....well....you could stretch out and 'accidently' put your hand on his thigh. If he does nothing, gives you a 'look' or what ever.....try and graze his cock....hell if he doesn't say or do anything to push you away......grab hold of him and start jerking......then if all goes well, and you want to go the next step....well you'll figure it out
     
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    I'm inclined to say that from what you're saying that it's very possible... but I think you need to test things out a bit more... maybe you could inadvertently on purpose make some contact with him that seems innocent enough..... just attempt some things ever slowly and see what happens
     
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    the kiss wasn't brought on by anything except a heart to heart which we have once in awhile about all the things going on in our lives that we pretty much confide in eachother as friends do.
     
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    Sounds like nothing too big. The kissing part I am sure is likely to be just the booze.
     
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    How long have you been friends?
    Did he appear to be staring at you while you were in the shower?
    Do the two of you hug / have physical contact (sad, upset, elated)?
    When he kissed your face five times -- assuming he's never done that before -- were the kisses super-quick?
    Did he marry his wife directly from college (or high school)?
    With all of the examples you have illustrated, has alcohol played a role for either (or both) of you?

    Interesting...
     
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    Are you fearful of losing him as a friend if you try something and you were all wrong about thinking he might have a gay side?
     
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    I talk to all my friends to confide int hem but kissing, i draw the line especially with dudes.
     
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    we have been friends for about 6 years. Kinda seemed like he was staring in my direction while I was in the shower but that could have been in my head... we do hug but its the normal man hug that all friends have. when he kissed my face the first few were quick and the last couple were slow... I was just hoping the last one would be on my lips. He got married in the military as many do. and in all situations alcohol has been a factor... but maybe he feels like since we were both drunk he could do things he normally wouldn't.
     
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    definately I would hate to lose him as a friend... I prolly wouldn't do anything with him even if he initiated... except maybe jo and kiss... he has nice lips
     
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    He is your best friend, but do you have romantic feelings? I mean, do you feel like you could possibly have feelings that him love him more than as a best friend?
     
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    I have never kissed a dude... thus far all I have done is jo with a couple guys... and I got head from a guy. I am not into giving head or doing anthing farther than that. The kissing thing is what surprised me most about the whole situtation
     
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    no definately not... I only have relationships with women... no romantic feelings for him at all. just great friends
     
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    Did you enjoy kissing him?
     
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    well it wasn't even on the mouth... so i guess as much as you can enjoy getting kissed on the face
     
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    So how far do you want it to go? You were turned on when he kissed your face hoping he would kiss your lips. You've never kissed a dude have j/o with a couple of guys and got head from one.

    Are you turned on that your friend did these things or that a guy did these things?
     
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    Hmm... well sounds like you're more or less a straight guy, but on the other hand you wouldn't have written your original post if there weren't something going on in your. Sounds like you need to do some soul-searching yourself and sort out what's going on inside you... and as far as your roommate, well, time will only tell. If he's got a gay side he'll eventually sort that out too... just be willing to allow yourself to be open to what you feel inside and who you are.... and if you like girls that's cool... but if you decide you like guys then that's OK too... you'll know inside you what's right for you. And you roommate will know inside himself...
     
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    sorry... need to proof my posts... meant to say "on the other hand you wouldn't have written your original post if there weren't something going on in your head"....
     
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