My Secret Life

[Wish-4-8]

Dont feel guilty about not posting any pics. You dont owe anybody anything because you looked at theirs. Most of these posters do for their own reasons, mostly exhibishinists.

And if you dont think your hubby has his own secret place, then you are naive. Stay annoymous. You can still get much joy out of this site. Plus posting pics as an attractive female will get you a lot of unwanted attention from the creeps here.

I dont plan on hooking up here with anyone and no one knows that I am here. And I have over 1600 posts. I look at pics, especially the female pics and enjoy the forums, although I dont post as much as I used to since the same theards come up that I have already commented on in the past. They seem to come up again and again by newbies every week.

So, have fun, enjoy, learn, dont hook up, and keep it a secret. You are entitled to that.

 

[B_curiousme01]

Why thank you Lady Shady. You have a generous spirit. And I personally love blabbers... being one myself .

I think you'll fit in just fine! Several women do not have photos up and still participate, there's no requirement. Although, I would love to see some pics. :naughty:

If I had a secret life, I would admit something, but I tend to blab, so... :shrug:
Welcome, welcome!

 

[B_curiousme01]

I've only told one friend -- after one or two or nine beers -- but she also knows the reasons why I'm here. It was actually a really great conversation for us both, because we got to talk to each other about things we had never told anyone else before in our lives. (I told her about the website, and why I was here, and she told me that she thinks she might be bisexual. I was so honoured that she felt safe enough to admit that to me.)

She completely understands that I'm here for reasons that involve my past, and trying to over come my sexuality issues in a less threatening way. I shared her my story, and she didn't hesitate to understand for a second.

Your lucky to have a friend like that. But, umm... I think maybe she was trying to tell you something more

 

[B_curiousme01]

I was saying my partner isn't. But that's okay! :smile:

I do get what you mean though, it could be a great way to explore feelings, kinks and such, before actually introducing those to your partner. It doesn't have to be a bad thing to have a bit of personal space.

I actually stumbled here looking for...um... A particular type of male video and forum that I have never seen, not specifically well hung men. One of the very best things about this site, is that there are beautiful bodies AND minds of every shape, size, color, nationality and religion. All right here for everyone to admire at will. I do not think, at this time, that my husband would appreciate my enthrallment. Maybe later. I have to wait and see how things go for a while. Let him get accumstomed to 'the new me". thanks both of you for sharing varied observations.

 

[B_curiousme01]

So fortunate in every way. I'm so jealous!!

I guess I'm probably the only woman whose husband begged her to become a member here? My husband has been a member here for a few years - Captain Elephant. Whenever he would read me some of the forum posts I'd usually give my two cents. Some of the things discussed lead to very interesting conversations between us.

Sometimes I would tell him to say this or that, and he finally had enough of being my mouthpiece. So he told me to grow a pair and become a member. And the only pair I've grown have been displayed proudly upon my chest for a while.

As for posting a picture, well, I'm still uneasy about that, so I just put up a partial one. Most everybody knows my smile, so if any of my friends came on here they'd know in a heartbeat who I am. So I guess the only secret life I have is my name on here. I'm pretty much open with everything else.

 

[B_curiousme01]

My secret life...
Yes Iam married. I joined this site while I was looking for some nice examples of male nude photography and stumbled on this site, not for any other reason. I joined, looked around, tried some poses (most are quite...ehh confronting!...) and posted a few pics. Later i met a few nice, openminded people here and got more interested in reading the forum (esp. female issues). Great to read your thoughts, fantasies, habits and turn-ons.
I think it's great and brave of people (esp. women) who share intimate photos and thoughts, regardless of age and body type and nudity. It'just great!!!
My wife doesn’t know I am here and would be surprised and confused I guess. She is fantastic, honest and intelligent but doesn’t share all of my “adventurous” side. We have some agreement we both chat and can flirt a bit if we want,but no meeting irl. We haven't made agreements on visiting lpsg...I felt guilty and considered it as “cheating” before, but now ii see it as a thing for myself, my little pleasure.
Looking forward to read more secret thoughts.....

Thank you for sharing these thoughts and your most excellent photography skills . Danish people are surely the coolest, most liberal in the world. It sounds like you and your wife are working towards a very happy life. Keep going. And, oh yeah. Buy a few toys you two can share together to speed things up a bit!

 

[B_curiousme01]

Really sweet reply and excellent gallery! My thanks!!

first off, welcome back to the site. yoga is awesome, but penises are a teensy bit better, don't you agree? :biggrin1:

and don't feel guilty about lpsg being your little secret. we all have our secrets and sometimes they are what keep us sane and balanced. you don't have to share everything in your life with other people. often, the less people know about something they don't need to know, the better it is for you.

anyway i hope you stick around and enjoy what lpsg has to offer. there's lots of cool people, and lots of crazies... but that's what the ignore option is for.

take care :smile:




LOL it's so funny that you and i have the same exact story! :beerchug:

 

[B_Nick8]

I do get what you mean though, it could be a great way to explore feelings, kinks and such, before actually introducing those to your partner. It doesn't have to be a bad thing to have a bit of personal space.

Exactly.

 

[B_curiousme01]

I never believed in Match.com anyways

Welcome back!

99% of my friends don't know this place exists. I do have two very close friends who know I'm on here, and they're on here now, and they know I met my significant other here. So obviously he also knows I'm here. I had a good chuckle introducing him to my parents; of course they want to know how we met, and I don't think I'll ever tell them "on the large penis website."

 

[B_curiousme01]

Very honorabe thing for you to do for her. Her loss is now our gain. Welcome back.

I have been a member for years now. Visit the site off and on. When i told my last gf about the site she said she wanted me to stop visiting and to take my pic down. But that realtionship is over so i am back!

 

[B_curiousme01]

Women love men who are in to "Womans Issues" so much that we are not bothered by not knowing your name . I think you are bouldering in your photo? My Blackberry has tiny pictures (major bummer, I know!), so I can't be sure.

(But none of the know my name.... so it's my secret lol)[/QUOTE]

 

[B_curiousme01]

Wow. So very well said. Thank you! I'll try to read some of your posts so I can write about new things you might enjoy. I never liked boring anything

Dont feel guilty about not posting any pics. You dont owe anybody anything because you looked at theirs. Most of these posters do for their own reasons, mostly exhibishinists.

And if you dont think your hubby has his own secret place, then you are naive. Stay annoymous. You can still get much joy out of this site. Plus posting pics as an attractive female will get you a lot of unwanted attention from the creeps here.

I dont plan on hooking up here with anyone and no one knows that I am here. And I have over 1600 posts. I look at pics, especially the female pics and enjoy the forums, although I dont post as much as I used to since the same theards come up that I have already commented on in the past. They seem to come up again and again by newbies every week.

So, have fun, enjoy, learn, dont hook up, and keep it a secret. You are entitled to that.

 

[B_curiousme01]

Ciao my bellissimo fantastico amore. Grazie .A.

probably your husband has his secret life too_everybody need some secrets.
don't feel guilty, enjoy your parallel existence

...life is so fucking short...

love,
A.

 

[D_1971Max]

Thank you for sharing these thoughts and your most excellent photography skills . Danish people are surely the coolest, most liberal in the world. It sounds like you and your wife are working towards a very happy life. Keep going. And, oh yeah. Buy a few toys you two can share together to speed things up a bit!

Thanks for the advice, I will certainly take that into account and suggest it to her! It's has been a while we bought one...always funny to go to a shop!
And Danish are certainly very liberal, but I am Dutch

 

[ILguy23]

I like the site not because it's "hung guys" - it's a great sex-positive sort of atmosphere here. People are here because on some level they're not shy, are proud of the sexuality, love their (and others'!) genitals, and just enjoy all this stuff. That's the real value.

No one I know knows about it at all though. So it's sort of my own secret life too.

 

[Mike7]

Welcome back. It's all fun and light. It's fine to be curious about things. The mind is the biggest sex organ so anything you pick up along the way you can use in your sex life.

 

[B_curiousme01]

Thanks for the advice, I will certainly take that into account and suggest it to her! It's has been a while we bought one...always funny to go to a shop!
And Danish are certainly very liberal, but I am Dutch

Oh! I just LOVE men who are willing to shop! You might want to take her with you as she prob. Has a few things she would like to pick up. Sorry about the confusion...I have been traveling so much. I mean't the country with the world famous coffeshops and tulips (your personal favorite thing). Not pastries

 

[D_Tewre Tittyboom]

I'm a happily married woman too. I'm here because I enjoy the openness when it comes to sexuality. My husband doesn't know I'm on here, and I plan on keeping it that way. He'd get too jealous and ask me to leave the site if he knew. I feel a bit guilty about it because I'm always open with him, but we all have our secrets, right? It's not like I'm here to hook up or cam with anyone. Just interested in talking to people.

 

[purrfect78]

Add me into the happily married category :tongue:

Hubby knows about the site, and is a member as well although he doesn't find it nearly as fascinating as I do and he rarely logs on, but he lets me read the funny posts to him so he gets kept in the loop.

I don't feel guilty at all because hubby knows he's the only one I want and this site has great entertainment value :biggrin1:

 

[voidout]

Your lucky to have a friend like that. But, umm... I think maybe she was trying to tell you something more

I don't think so. I think she just felt completely relaxed enough to trust me, and for me to trust her. Not all humans have agenda's, and that's coming from someone who doesn't like most humans.