What kind of sexuality am I (in your opinion of my situation)


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Hi everyone, I have had this question on my mind for a while now about my sexuality, and as I get older and meet new people it's more in my forefront.

If I think I'm straight and I love women but I also fantasize, and lust over big penises but not really men.... what does that mean for me? I kinda understand why I love cocks; because they are powerful (I've got an average sized dick at best), they are beautiful and mesmerizing and they are a raw form of pleasure! But I don't find men's bodies attractive, nor do I feel attracted to kissing men... instead just their cocks!

So does this make me bisexual? or just a sissy or cuckold or something. I wanna marry and be with a woman but I also would love to just suck a big fat cock and that's it!

I don't really know what else to say hahaaha. Honestly I just need some advice.


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I would say straight / bi-curious. You don't really want to be in a relationship with a man so I wouldn't classify you as bisexual. I wouldn't say you're a cuckold unless you are into humiliation (which you didn't mention). Same with sissy, as I consider that a pejorative humiliation term. If you desire relationships with women only, you're not gay.

Your situation is a perfect example of the problem with trying to fit people into one bracket or another. Not everyone fits. Kinsey had 6 levels and I've seen additional classifications breaking it down even farther to relationship and sexual proclivity.

Be happy with who you are and don't try to pigeon-hole yourself into a heteronormative society's flawed classification system.
 

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Khegan says it very well in the latter half of his comment. Sexuality and relationships are far more complex than traditional social labels would suggest, as your situation attests. I personally don't think you need a label, per se, so much as an understanding that you like being in relationships and having sex with women in addition to the aesthetic of large cocks.

When people inquire into my sexuality, as they are apt to, I simply say "I like what I like. " I believe that to be the case with everyone. Labels tend to limiting much more than clarifying, I'd say.
 
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Hi everyone, I have had this question on my mind for a while now about my sexuality, and as I get older and meet new people it's more in my forefront.

If I think I'm straight and I love women but I also fantasize, and lust over big penises but not really men.... what does that mean for me? I kinda understand why I love cocks; because they are powerful (I've got an average sized dick at best), they are beautiful and mesmerizing and they are a raw form of pleasure! But I don't find men's bodies attractive, nor do I feel attracted to kissing men... instead just their cocks!

So does this make me bisexual? or just a sissy or cuckold or something. I wanna marry and be with a woman but I also would love to just suck a big fat cock and that's it!

I don't really know what else to say hahaaha. Honestly I just need some advice.


Thanks

Dont focus on label, gay, bi straight. Many straight dudes are fascinated by dicks. It is fun to just dick watch sometimes.
 

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Dont focus on label, gay, bi straight. Many straight dudes are fascinated by dicks. It is fun to just dick watch sometimes.
Careful, the straight police will get upset at that statement. Further clarifying only 100% straight men are straight and if you like to watch dick you're at least bi, etc.
 

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Careful, the straight police will get upset at that statement. Further clarifying only 100% straight men are straight and if you like to watch dick you're at least bi, etc.

Hell, some of the 100%'ers think if you've ever looked at a penis other than your own, you are just one step away from being gay. Of course those are the same ones that don't believe that bisexuality exists, except for women that is. Women can be bi, men can only be straight or gay.
 

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I remember hearing a musician talking about his sexuality once after rumors about him being gay went around. He said he found men to be incredibly sexy, and attractive, but the only penis he was ever interested in was his own. What does that make him? Who cares. The point is it doesn't matter. Be who you are, and like what you like, and don't worry about what other people want to call it.
 

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Dont focus on label, gay, bi straight. Many straight dudes are fascinated by dicks. It is fun to just dick watch sometimes.

Prince made a very simple, yet profound statement! - Think about this: Human sexuality is far too complex to fit into only 3 categories, or even 6 categories, for that matter! A previous poster stated, "only 100% straight men are straight and if you like to watch dick you're at least bi." If that were a true statement, then, by that very definition, every single "100% Straight Man" that ever watched straight porn would be, "at least bi" because he "watch(ed) dick" that was not his own!

Please, for your own self-worth, just be YOU, Be Who You Are, and forever ignore those labels! You'll find that sexual labels are most strongly used by those who like to judge people.
 

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Prince made a very simple, yet profound statement! - Think about this: Human sexuality is far too complex to fit into only 3 categories, or even 6 categories, for that matter! A previous poster stated, "only 100% straight men are straight and if you like to watch dick you're at least bi." If that were a true statement, then, by that very definition, every single "100% Straight Man" that ever watched straight porn would be, "at least bi" because he "watch(ed) dick" that was not his own!

Please, for your own self-worth, just be YOU, Be Who You Are, and forever ignore those labels! You'll find that sexual labels are most strongly used by those who like to judge people.

The statement "be who you are" is worth it's weight in gold. The labels are bull shit, and perhaps designed to promote one opinion of sexuality over another, (one label being better than the other). As I have aged, I have evolved to the place where the folks one loves (realizing that one has few real life deep friendships) govern that relationships sexual activity. I agree the labels are judgements.
 

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I would say straight / bi-curious. You don't really want to be in a relationship with a man so I wouldn't classify you as bisexual. I wouldn't say you're a cuckold unless you are into humiliation (which you didn't mention). Same with sissy, as I consider that a pejorative humiliation term. If you desire relationships with women only, you're not gay.

Your situation is a perfect example of the problem with trying to fit people into one bracket or another. Not everyone fits. Kinsey had 6 levels and I've seen additional classifications breaking it down even farther to relationship and sexual proclivity.

Be happy with who you are and don't try to pigeon-hole yourself into a heteronormative society's flawed classification system.
Very well said and with real common sense, great advice, man!
 
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Hi everyone, I have had this question on my mind for a while now about my sexuality, and as I get older and meet new people it's more in my forefront.

If I think I'm straight and I love women but I also fantasize, and lust over big penises but not really men.... what does that mean for me? I kinda understand why I love cocks; because they are powerful (I've got an average sized dick at best), they are beautiful and mesmerizing and they are a raw form of pleasure! But I don't find men's bodies attractive, nor do I feel attracted to kissing men... instead just their cocks!

So does this make me bisexual? or just a sissy or cuckold or something. I wanna marry and be with a woman but I also would love to just suck a big fat cock and that's it!

I don't really know what else to say hahaaha. Honestly I just need some advice.


Thanks

You sound exactly like me... love big cocks, but am attracted to women for intimacy. Just enjoy a big cock once in awhile like I do! I would say you have a bi streak that is triggered by big cocks. I think many guys do!
 
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Hi everyone, I have had this question on my mind for a while now about my sexuality, and as I get older and meet new people it's more in my forefront.

If I think I'm straight and I love women but I also fantasize, and lust over big penises but not really men.... what does that mean for me? I kinda understand why I love cocks; because they are powerful (I've got an average sized dick at best), they are beautiful and mesmerizing and they are a raw form of pleasure! But I don't find men's bodies attractive, nor do I feel attracted to kissing men... instead just their cocks!

So does this make me bisexual? or just a sissy or cuckold or something. I wanna marry and be with a woman but I also would love to just suck a big fat cock and that's it!

I don't really know what else to say hahaaha. Honestly I just need some advice.


Thanks
That is so interesting. I'm 100% gay but I actually never liked dick. I like everything else about a guy (muscles and all) and I'm a top so I love ass. I have met bi guys before who wanted to hook up w me just to give me head (which obviously I loved).

I just think it's so interesting how our minds are wired. So different and yet alike haha.
 
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FYI. On the net? Str8 does not mean straight. Str8 is a term bisexual and or homosexuals who are ashamed of their sexuality or who prefers to keep it a secret.

So as far as labels go? I'd say bi-curious.

But my opinion only! Labels are overrated and used too many damn times!
Just be yourself and IF and WHEN the time comes?
Getting married like you're hoping. Be honest with yourself and with the future Mrs. Datbroccoliandbooty says and feels about this.
Who knows!?!?! She may have hidden kinks of wanting to peg a guy. Or fets that you both may use to liven things up in the bedroom.

Anyways! Best of luck and try NOT too over think this