Irish said:I've said it before, but my size has gets brought up fairly often amongst my friends. I think the key difference is I have a very tight knit group of friends that loves to goof off and joke around and we all take little jabs at each other. Additionally, damn near all of my friends know for one reason or another - word of mouth, people sharing/showing my pics, etc.
Being a tight knit group, however, also means they all know me pretty well and I know I don't have take any real issue with it being brought up past going red in the face for a few moments.
When somebody doesn't know you that well or brings it up in front of a bunch of people that don't know without knowing how you feel about it or knowing that it would make you uncomfortable is just rude. Talk to your girlfriend and her friend about it. Maybe even the other girls that were there. A quick, "This is awkward for me, but please don't ever do anything like [whoever] did the other night and just randomly tell people things about my body. It's rude and makes me uncomfortable," will probably do the trick.
Probably kind of an Irish thing, right? It seems like the whole "irish attitude" to joke around rather harshly and take jabs at each other all in good fun
On a second note, i've recently discovered this slight "downside" of packing a big tool as well...although it's never a downside so much if you look at it the right way- it's like you're being glorified for something you never asked for, yet you simply possess it. Strange concept huh? Lex made a good point though about being objectified cuz i've felt that way before too, even by my gf here and there but deep down I know exactly how she feels about me:wink:
It has come up in subtle ways though, with her friends...which of course leads me to believe that my girl clued them in as to what i'm packin. I'll just sorta nod my head (sometimes even blush, can't control that) and laugh it off and they'll see that i'm a bit uncomfortable with the topic and change it...at least for the time being
Ya just gotta see it in the right light...being objectified or "picked on" for having a big cock is better than being picked on for many other things although I DO understand it gets annoying :redface: