Perhaps I need to explain my previous post. When I was younger and heard the catcalls & comments - I learned to tune them out. I was not flattered, although occasionally I was insulted. There were times when that kind of attention was damned inconvienent and unwanted.
I am older now. I do not receive catcalls. Waiters do not flirt with me. Men no longer send me drinks. I have reached the invisible portion of my late 40s. I am well dressed, attractive and successful, but I am invisible to the man on the street.
I don't want to be groped on the street, or have some guy making rude gestures by flicking his tongue through his fingers. But a whistle or appreciative glance? Yeah - sometimes I miss that. I don't think that means I have turn in my feminist membership card.
i secretly hope that there's a corner of hell reserved for guys who make x rated comments at women in front of her children.
But surely if you were that sensitive to crude/sexual comments from strangers you wouldn't put naked photos on a website where you will receive crude/sexual comments from men & women. But that's just my opinion...
And you are a bit special if you can't see the hypocrisy/double standards of someone disliking crude/sexual comments made towards themselves by strangers, then they put up naked photos of themselves to get crude/sexual comments off strangers...
It of course depends on how far some of these guys go with him & what exactly they say, but I'm sure some comments wouldn't be too dissimilar to the comments he receives on his photos...
Erm, I don't get any attention actual (should I pull a sad face?)
I think I am so shy that I never look up properly at people or just try and stare through them.. :redface:
get harassed by often in the middle of the street (or wherever) by men. Often times, when I go out, I get crude comments thrown my way by homosexuals. It's not necessarily offending, but it makes me feel uncomfortable (not because I am homophobic, it's just extremely awkward). So yes, my sympathies go to those of you who deal with that petty shit on a day-to-day basis.
I think what this person is getting at is:
if a person voices frustration at getting catcalls on the street, then that behavior SUGGESTS he or she has a personal ethic which does not tolerate sexual come-ons of a casual nature. In general. So it might APPEAR out of character for him or her to post naked pictures on the internet.
At the very least, posting sex pictures suggests that you are not a prude or uncomfortable with sex, so you wouldn't be SO affected by sex come ons on the street, even if you did not like them.
if you like looking at porn then you'll love being flashed.
if you like watching horror films then you'll love being stabbed.
on screen is NOT the same as in the flesh.
LPSG, where good ideas go to die?
Anyhow, on a global viewpoint, as shocking as it seems, gay men are MEN, not some masculinised (?) women, not some mysterious third gender or sub species, ergo, they are allowed to use the same nasty, cruel, greedy and selfish tactics that straight men would use on women.
"Allowed" in the sense that it shouldn't be a shock that a man, regardless of sexuality can act a jerk.No they are not, and neither are straight men or bisexual men. Perhaps they do, but 'allowed'? Really?
No they are not, and neither are straight men or bisexual men. Perhaps they do, but 'allowed'? Really?