My Thickness Could Ruin Our Relationship?

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So I met this woman online before several months and I will travel to her as soon as circumstances will allow, because we fell for each other.

However, she has a tiny vagina (her slim finger is wider than her vagina) and I'm 2 inches in width at the thickest part which also happens to be the head. (And overall circumference is big too).
Many times she has commented that it will "be painful", "send her to coma", and she will "not be able to walk the next day".

Otherwise she gets turned on greatly by my penis visually during our videocalls.

So my question is, should I be worried I will hurt her more than satisfy her? Or if we have sex many times enough she will adjust?
Any similar stories of you guys?

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Even with good foreplay, it will hurt her after your initial sex. The good news is though that she will eventually adjust to the size, for the most part. I had a long-term girlfriend who I had sex with nearly every day, and she would still get sore enough to have to take a few days off from time to time even after we had been together a long time (and I am massively into foreplay, as having her cum from my mouth first was incredibly exciting and stimulating for me). Vaginas are a remarkable thing though, and she'll grow to absolutely love it.
 

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Even with good foreplay, it will hurt her after your initial sex. The good news is though that she will eventually adjust to the size, for the most part. I had a long-term girlfriend who I had sex with nearly every day, and she would still get sore enough to have to take a few days off from time to time even after we had been together a long time (and I am massively into foreplay, as having her cum from my mouth first was incredibly exciting and stimulating for me). Vaginas are a remarkable thing though, and she'll grow to absolutely love it.


If they can deliver a baby her vagina will adapt
 

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The two are not comparable at all

well, if I can get a condom over a large butternut squash, then it can’t possibly mess with a dude, right.

while some “adaptation” might happen, the stretching and tearing of the skin at the vaginal entrance does have limitation.
I delivered a not small child.
Large peen is still painful.

it’s not a sweater, people.
 

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I’m just here for the “all vaginas can, so all vaginas should” part, but I really enjoy the “never mind the pain, it’s smaller than a baby” part, however, my favorite is the “I know women bc of the one I talked to + the internet” part
 

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I’m just here for the “all vaginas can, so all vaginas should” part, but I really enjoy the “never mind the pain, it’s smaller than a baby” part, however, my favorite is the “I know women bc of the one I talked to + the internet” part

#theclassics
 
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I’m just here for the “all vaginas can, so all vaginas should” part, but I really enjoy the “never mind the pain, it’s smaller than a baby” part, however, my favorite is the “I know women bc of the one I talked to + the internet” part
Baseball bat as urethral sound?
 
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Most of this comes down to psychological problems. The vagina can fit a child through during birth, most men are too fast to penetrate and do not do enough foreplay.
 

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What missing in the original poster is that whether or not his newly met lady is a virgin. If she's, then lots of patients needed on both sides to work out. But if she's not, practice will help.
 
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Yeah, there is no such thing as big dick problems. Just a call for attention and bragging.
 

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The answer to Thick69's question is, "It depends."
  • If she is much younger than 50 her vagina is probably fairly elastic; you give her orgasms first; and you are patient, you may be able to slowly stretch her vagina so that your penis fits in it without doing damage to her.
  • If she is still has her hymen, you may have to slowly help her stretch her hymen to permit your penis to fully get into her vagina.
  • If she is post menopausal, her vagina may not be elastic, and you will need to help her stretch it over an extended period of time.
The reason I know is that I have encountered each of the three conditions, even though my penis is not that large. For example, my wife was post menopausal when we met, did not have sex since her 30s, and I could only get the tip of my finger in her vagina. A year later, lots of slow stretching with graduated dildos, and she can now take a dildo 1-1/8" in diameter. My penis is about 1-3/8" on diameter, so we are getting close. The vaginal tissue of many women who are post menopausal is not elastic, and trying to stretch it quickly may tear the tissue.

Please excuse the assholes above who belittled you and your girlfriend.
 

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Most of this comes down to psychological problems. The vagina can fit a child through during birth, most men are too fast to penetrate and do not do enough foreplay.
Many vaginas tear during childbirth. We really have to stop using this as a comparison to what should be a pleasurable act
 

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From my experience (also over 2" wide) if she does not have vaginismus problem, she should be able to used to it.
 
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Many vaginas tear during childbirth. We really have to stop using this as a comparison to what should be a pleasurable act
I do know, I’ve carried out 2 episiotomies during my F2 surgical rotation. But with lube and enough foreplay the vagina will dilate enough and lengthen.