I'm scared if I try to stop her she will just ignore me and go with him anyway
Well I would agree that at this late date the "horse" all kinds of puns intended is out of the barn so you can not stop her.
If she had been in fact satisfied with you then introducing a toy and calling it "steve" know that an actual Steve existed and was out there and close by enough that getting with him again was a possible outcome was as I said just asking for trouble
As I said above and Amazed agrees as long as he is available odds are good she WILL keep fucking him finding and fucking new/different big dicked guys through him or on her own is at the very least "possible"
Is she going to go full cuckold on you?
That is at least possible if not probable, some guys it seems are into that , enjoy it or at least tolerate it but I would not be and the majority of guys are not.
When your cock is in a cage so you can not even jack off, you have not fucked her in years and MAYBE she gives you a blowjob on your birthday will you say you regret introducing "Steve" ?
Also that fact that he is spending money on her IE "spoiling her" is frankly NOT a good sign.
What else will he be willing to spend money on keep fucking her ?
Her dream big dicked stud who is giving her things (in more ways than one) that you are not and in at least one way can not.
Fuck! This is really sounding like a bad idea. What do you recommend I do?
At this point your basically fucked but possibly not literally anymore
Had you listened early on and niped this in the bud rather than adopt the mindset of "well she is basically fucking steve anyway so what is the difference" then maybe you would not be here
But you are because you did not
It is like all those naive misguided fools who think that letting some big dicked stud fuck their wife/GF will "help their relationship" when it almost NEVER does, best case it does not HURT it.
Had you listened early on and niped this in the bud rather than adopt the mindset of "well she is basically fucking steve anyway so what is the difference" then maybe you would not be here
But you are because you did not
It is like all those naive misguided fools who think that letting some big dicked stud fuck their wife/GF will "help their relationship" when it almost NEVER does, best case it does not HURT it.
Just in case you forgot how you were "rationalizing this in your own mind" not all that long ago
Shit, I just asked her if she would mind not going tomorrow and she said 'you're fucking kidding aren't you, I had told him that I wasn't going, then it was your idea that I could go. He's spent a lot of money on my dress and jewellery for the night, and it would be embarrassing for Steve if he didn't have me by his side acting like his loving partner. He even bought me a lovely ring to wear instead of yours so no one questions that I'm his. See how much bigger the diamond is?'
It just keeps getting worse and worse
Gee what a shock she is now telling you that "this is all your fault"
Set aside the fact that she has been jonesing for his big dick for months now.
I hate to say it but for all you now she had a hand in arranging this "coming out of the blue thing"
I do not know if you have kids or not and if that would even impact on her decision if you did
But
If I had to guess right now, providing he will play ball, that it is 50/50 or WORSE that within a year if not quicker she is going to leave your ass for him.
Has not seen her in supposedly years and he is buying a dress and jewelry for what was supposedly a "one night stand" where at least at first anyway fucking him was not on the menu
I mean GD man he has REPLACED the wedding ring YOU gave her.
It would be one thing if she went not wearing any and he passed her off as his GF
She is OK with passing herself off as his wife even refers to herself as HIS in conjunction with that
This is SO MUCH WORSE
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Keep in mind, there was a reason she's not with him, and i doubt simply him moving was it, it's easy to end what you know isn't right by saying you can't move... but when your single it's easy to move and move often. You need to know what those other reasons were and subtly remind her of those... so this remains just sex with Steve.
My wife's massive ex-boyfriend has her spreading her legs anytime he wants to get between them. And a few times a year he even takes her away. If you love each other and have honest open communication about what it's happening then sl is not lost.
My wife's massive ex-boyfriend has her spreading her legs anytime he wants to get between them. And a few times a year he even takes her away. If you love each other and have honest open communication about what it's happening then sl is not lost.
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Got lucky last night. Wife is totally used to giant cock now. I’ll slide into her with just my weenie and within a few minutes of me pumping away she’s asking “Do you want to put something on?” in a playful voice. That’s not just a hint dude. She knows what she wants...she loves the huge cock sleeves and she’s asking for one. She knows I love them too. The whole size thing gets me off big time.
“You need a great big, giant fucking cock don’t you?” I ask. “Uh huh” she says, giggling. There's no denying it anymore or being coy about it. She doesn't ridicule my size, but she's very open now that she loves and needs BIG. None of that “size doesn’t matter” bullshit. It fucking MATTERS! She knows better now. She knows what she needs.
I lubed up and pushed the giant sleeve onto my weenie, a huge, fat, heavy cock in my hand now. “You’re gonna take ALL of this big fucking cock” I said in her ear. “Yesssss, all of it!” she puffed. And she did. I pounded her with that big fucker for a while and I came so hard I saw stars. Big-cock-fucking is so hot! For the fuckEE *AND* the fuckER.
I used to love seeing her desperate, terrified look as I pushed a giant dick in her. These days, I love her new expression even more...I push forward and the giant head pops into her soaking wet cunt. No panicked, worried look...no frantic “It’s too big! Go slow! OMG it’s too big!” Nope, it’s JUST RIGHT and she fucking knows it. She needs her some monster cock. “Just give it to me and fuck me with all of it” is the impatient look on her face. One of pure size lust and a need to be FILLED and fucked by HUGE. Inch after inch glides forward, the big head moving toward the very back of her pussy. She's grunting, groaning and gasping as she makes space for it. Completely full is the goal. I've sized this toy just right so I can be nuts-deep and be pushing on the back of her pussy (which she loves) at the same time. It takes just the right angle of penetration and all of 10" to do that correctly. Once we're finally at the end of line, the look on her face is that of total lust and relief: "YES...that's it...right there....FUCK YESSSS!" she hisses at me. Her eyes now closed, an angelic smile on her lips "OOOOoooo...that's what I fucking need...like that, YESSSSSSSS! Make me cum!" Once again, her 'magic spot' has been reached. The button deep inside her that she didn't even know existed for most of her life. The button inside her that we discovered with SIZE. Only a LONG cock can reach it and only a FAT cock can rub it like it needs rubbing. LONG and THICK = A spectacular bucking and thrashing orgasm. Complete satisfaction according to her.
Yup, she’s all broke in now...she's been resized. My size queen
I asked Kate about it and she said that he basically was fucking anything that moved with his huge cock. She told him she forgave him as long as he kept fucking her and he did for a while, but then he moved away. She was sexting him for about 6 months basically fucking him over the phone, but eventually they lost contact. She still has all the photos he sent her saved on her laptop and admitted she masturbates over them sometimes when I'm not home.
You seem to be taking great pleasure in what's happening to me. How about some constructive advice on how I can get out of this situation?
He has a high profile job, so he couldn't be seen to be involved with a married woman. Hence providing Kate with a ring to keep anyone from questioning it.
I don't think that anyone should be telling you what to do.
Of course, there's always a possibility that she could decide to leave you for him, but also a very good chance that won't happen.
I don't think you could stop this anyway, so my suggestion is to treat her right, keep telling her that you love her, and see what happens. My guess is that she will have great sex with him and an equally good marriage with you.
No I am not taking "great pleasure" in your situation but that being said I am to the degree possible trying to use your situation and warning, cautionary tale, call it what you will to all those guys, guys i referred to earlier who think or I say delude themselves into thinking that introducing a huge dicked guy into teh mix will somehow some way "help THEIR relationship" which it pretty much never does and best case it does not "hurt" it at least not much anyway.
Unless the definition or "help" is "well she is still with me."
From you above response you do not answer or even really address the question of why she did not go with him 6 plus years ago . The gist of what SamMann was eluding to was that surely it was an option for her that she chose not to for some unknown "other reason"
Maybe at the time for some or any number of reasons she could not go go did not want to go, but there is always the possibility she was never asked or even as a response to "can I come with you" she got something less than a "yes"
I mean what do we know?
She was happy or at least OK with being one of many until he left and even kept it going via cyber for a awhile until I am guessing he quit responding so that tells me had she been asked it would have been at least 50/50 she would if she could had went with him.
The revelation that she has his pics, kept them after marrying you and uses them to masturbate probably with the toy is another troubling sign in all of this.
It suggests she has been kicking her ass over this turn of events for years and regretting it, maybe no more so that every time she felt you slide into her
I do not really follow the logic in your second paragraph
You say he is high profile and that profile would be damaged to be seen being involved with a married woman.
If he is that high profile then it would be either known or could be known as a result of a simple google search done by the business peeps he is trying to impress in this upcoming event and it seems reasonable someone would do one just so they would know who they are dealing with and find that he is in fact not married, if he is it would reveal that your wife is not his wife. If he is married that is as the saying goes " whole nother kettle of fish"
Your theory such as it is seems to go that surely his wife would have a Hope diamond size rock so surely your little rock would never cut it on that front. Like no one would ever think he gave it to her before he was the high profile MR. Bigg and it has sentimental value.
If he is truly not married than why does he want those peeps thinking that he is, and just pass her off as his GF or for the money he is spending thousands if tens of thousands higher a high end escort that also none of those people will know to play the part for a night with getting laid after being a "sure thing" and part of the deal.
I would like you to think back to when you got the toy in the first place. Did your wife in any way guide or steer you into doing and also getting a toy so much like the real Steve? No matter how small, how subliminal, how seemingly meaningless at the time. ?
It is curious that all on your own you buy a toy and gee what do you know it resembles her huge hung Ex, even more curious that before long she is calling it by his name and WAY more than curious that after years of nothing he, unprompted supposedly out of the blue is coming into town for this business thing and wants he to be his arm candy.
We are to believe that MR. horse hung stud who has no problem getting and fucking anything that moves has all the sudden got no one to bring or can not arrange for that ??
I know that maybe he may have more money that common sense and may have blown this amount or more just to get laid ONS style but to me it raises major red flags.
You ask for advice
At this point you do not "get out of this situation
MAYBE this is truly a ONS and they never see each other again. I would say the chances on that are like 1%, 10% tops. But that will not stop her from jonesing for his huge cock, using the toy more and more using in in conjunction with the pics she has. Trying, at least trying to set up another "out of the blue" ONS with Steve
50/50 you end up as SamMann and you accept (in order to keep her) that she is spreading her leggs early and often, for Steve, pretty much anytime Steves wants some as is Sams case with his wifes massive hung ex and just as with them romantic getaways that are 24/7 fuckfests with your wife and Steve will be on the menu.
She may go the full cuckold on you or something less, she may still let you fuck her every once in a while but when you do just as now with the toy she will not mind reminding you that she can not even feel you and pretty much lay there with a "hurry up and get it over with " attitude.
You can try to go the extension route as the other poster has but in his case the wife did not have a horse hung ex so he is not "reminding her" of anyone.
You can then tell yourself it is all OK because at least she has not left you
Or
She does in fact leave, she loves his huge cock she loves being showered with money and things which you can not match, not in the cock department for sure and it would seem his wallet is bigger too.
If option 2 or 3 do not happen it may be that the "saving grace" if you will will be that just like 6 plus years ago Steve does not want it.
Do keep us informed though
Now that I think back to it, before I had the thought to buy a toy Kate had been fantasizing about larger cocks while we made love. I didn't think anything of it at the time, but it did kind of get me started on the toy idea.
And yeah, you're right he could have got anyone to go with him, but he's singled out Kate like he knows she'll spread her legs for him and she knows how to look after his big cock.
Fuck!
Well Kate went out Friday night and just got home! As she walked in she just said 'sorry' as she went past me, then she went upstairs and passed out on the bed. Her pussy is an absolute mess, worse than any session we've has with the toy.
And then I get a text from Steve...
"Sorry mate, Kate's pussy needed to get 'reacquainted' with my cock lol. She picked up where we left off, she couldn't get enough of it. Wouldn't let me sleep for 2 days straight! I could get used to having her back as my permanent slut, and I think I will loool"
And then I get a text from Steve...
"Sorry mate, Kate's pussy needed to get 'reacquainted' with my cock lol. She picked up where we left off, she couldn't get enough of it. Wouldn't let me sleep for 2 days straight! I could get used to having her back as my permanent slut, and I think I will loool"
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Get your nose between her thighs, kiss and gently lick her clit. You don't need to bury your tongue into her sloppy pussy if you don't want, but kiss her clit and when she wakes up to see you kissing her clit, tell her that you love her and how much she means to you. Lick snd rub her clit and turn her on, beg her to let you make love to her, to show her how much you still love her after enjoying her weekend with Steve.
Well, what has happened has happened.
My only concern would be if she is wanting to leave me for him, or if she's just in love with the sex with him. I think you need to find that out as soon as you can.
If it's just the sex, then you can have a good cuckold marriage.
I completely agree! Keep telling her and showing her that you love her.
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Have you talked to her about it yet? What happened, how do you feel about it, her thoughts?
