My wife comfessed having am affair with exboyfriend because he is larger and she likes to suck his c
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Yeah, wally's hatred/self-loathing.....really helpful, especially to some new guy wandering here looking for support and being told he should live underground, never have sex, and die alone.
Yeah. Helpful.
I think Wally is actually a small and is just using this forum to find wank material
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Better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie
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@wallyj84 being a small is well-documented. He provides a useful service to smalls who stumble into LPSG by helping them accept reality and learn coping strategies.
Well, by his own admission he sees himself that way, as to the wank material, I'm not so sure. He raises issues in an extreme way, but over time I do find some insight and points of view worth thinking about - not so much as what he might say, but why he says it.
There's also the option of being truthful without being an insulting jerk. Wally is in zero way helpful and his version of truth, his world view may apply to some people, but it's definitely not a view held by everyone, much less the majority. He's hateful and his posts are frequently full of hate speech, and frequently trying to speak for a whole lot of demographics that he doesn't belong to. That shit isn't fucking helpful.
OP, if your wife cheated, the genitals of the person she cheated with are only a small part of the overall issue.
Coping strategies? NOTHING he posts is remotely a strategy to cope. Especially as there is nothing to cope with. That's like saying I need to learn how to cope with having blue eyes.
When a guy pulls out the old, "my wife cheated with a hung guy" scenario is just a weak method of coping with the fact that it's far easier to blame infidelity on something he can't change. It's denial that the real reason could be something that would require him to take a close look at himself and how he treats his wife.
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I'm not judging, this is just an observation. Your wife confessing to sucking her ex boyfriend because he's bigger is bullshit. Your wife has issues with monogamy, being faithful,trust, loyalty, truthfulness.
While she confessed to sucking her ex boyfriends cock, she didn't tell you she was going to do it in advance. And if she's sucking him, she's fucking him.
My guess is, he's not the only one.
What you have is a cheater. You can count on cheaters to do one thing, cheat. They never change. They're like liars, they'll always lie.
I doubt seriously that she's cheating because he's bigger than you. She's cheating because that's what she does.
Here's a novelty for you. My ex wife cheated on me with a guy that isn't a big as me in the dick department.
Size really isn't the issue. The issue is she cheated. While that wasn't a deal breaker for me. It did create a lot of trust issues. Among many others it wasn't the reason we got divorced. It was a combination of things that arose from her cheating that caused us to separate ads divorce.
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I concur that she's cheating because she's a cheater. And her "excuse" is weak as hell in the first place, while also attempting to put the blame on you. And excuses are just that: excuses. It doesn't matter what she said as an excuse; she's trying to make herself feel justified in being a cheater. Cut her loose. (By the way, with an ex? That just adds another layer of sliminess to the whole thing.)
@ItsAll4Kim ..This is exactly what i believe about @Wally84 too. I believe i said just about the same thing somewhere..I would be perfectly fine with what Wally posts if they were in the Fictional forum . His posting in the Relationship forum is bullshit and trolling . I go to this forum most often when someone truly needs advice on REAL life issues . As for the OPs problem..She trying to make you feel inadequate to justify her cheating . Get rid of her ..
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I've been told by quite a few women that giving oral to a large cock is literally "a pain" and that normal to small ones are more fun to work with.
Exactly. And I should clarify/add that my opinion of guys using the "she cheated because I'm small" line in no way absolves or excuses the wives who cheated. There's no excuse whatsoever for cheating. My wife cheated repeatedly. I "retaliated" by having my own affairs. I was just as guilty as she. There is never any excuse for this. I should have ended it way sooner....years.
How, pray, are there so many spelling mistakes in such a short thread title and opening post?
I'm not clear whether you're saying she liked sucking her ex's cock but doesn't like yours (preference for bigger/cut) or whether she is currently sucking her ex but not you (infidelity)?
I get what you say about Wally's posts being fictional. But there's often truth and wit in his fiction. That's preferable imo to banal 'facts' and earnest pontifications.
Blind squirrels find nuts occasionally too. None of us would have to bore you with banality if the attention whore would post his fiction where it belongs instead of the Relationship forum.
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